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dcl08
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age difference between dc

im still pregnant with #2 but thinking about the future and since everyone is asking when were trying for a boy Chat Icon how much of an age gap do you have between dc? between 1 and 2 there will be 3 years....im not sure if we should have the next ones closer.

Posted 10/18/10 9:23 PM
 
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2ForMeIn2011
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Re: age difference between dc

I'm preggo with #2 also, DD will be about 3 & 1/2 when #2 comes. DH and I have always said we wanted 4 but we'll see how things go with 2. If we do go on to have more we'll try for a closer age range between the rest of them. I feel like I'm so over the infant stage, I'm dreading going back to a diaper bag!! lol

Posted 10/18/10 9:58 PM
 

MrsSchwags
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Jennifer

Re: age difference between dc

less than a year apart.


We knew we wanted two...and based on my job situation at the time..we figured we would have both immediately.

Posted 10/18/10 10:03 PM
 

Dani77
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Danicia

Re: age difference between dc

we currently only have one, but once DS turns 1 we'll be talking about TTC... we want the first 2 to be close in age... under 2 years... then the 3rd will have a larger gap.

Posted 10/18/10 10:04 PM
 

BellaRock
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Re: age difference between dc

I have a 7 1/2 year age difference between my boys. Not by choice. We started trying when DS was 4 and then we had some unexpected fertility issues. It took us almost 3 years to conceive my youngest ds.

We are planning to try again for the 3rd when DS2 is 3 or 4.

Posted 10/18/10 10:05 PM
 

Mere09
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Re: age difference between dc

Our babes are 12 months and 2 weeks apart.

Posted 10/18/10 10:06 PM
 

DC HJJ M

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Crystal

Re: age difference between dc

mine will be 3 years exactly.

Posted 10/18/10 10:34 PM
 

Goldi0218
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Leslie

Re: age difference between dc

2 years and 10 days apart. It would have been closer had I not had a loss before Jeremy. That's only because I am an old fart and I didn't want to wait that long between kids.

Posted 10/18/10 10:36 PM
 

cinnabon
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Re: age difference between dc

mine are 11yrs and 4 months apartChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/18/10 10:40 PM
 

itkocak

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Re: age difference between dc

Message edited 11/27/2011 12:54:22 PM.

Posted 10/18/10 10:42 PM
 

mamabear
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Re: age difference between dc

13 mths. i love their age gap.

Posted 10/18/10 11:17 PM
 

cinnabon
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Re: age difference between dc

Posted by imthekevinofcindyandkevin

Posted by cinnabon

mine are 11yrs and 4 months apartChat Icon Chat Icon



that's nothin'

mine will be 14 years apart! Chat Icon



oy vey!! To bad I don't have an icon that bows down!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/19/10 1:24 AM
 

GoldenRod
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Re: age difference between dc

Posted by HannahsMommy

mine will be 3 years exactly.



Mine, too. Same birth month. 3 years is great so far. Close enough that they still play together, and have similar taste in things, but far enough apart that we can pass things down, and they aren't always doing the exact same things.

Also, when it comes time to pay for college, there's (hopefully) only one year when we're paying for two at the same time.... Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/19/10 7:33 AM
 

GoldenRod
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Re: age difference between dc

Posted by cinnabon

Posted by imthekevinofcindyandkevin

Posted by cinnabon

mine are 11yrs and 4 months apartChat Icon Chat Icon



that's nothin'

mine will be 14 years apart! Chat Icon



oy vey!! To bad I don't have an icon that bows down!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



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Posted 10/19/10 7:34 AM
 

iamme
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Re: age difference between dc

unless we get an oops, ds and the next dc will probably be 4-5 years apart.

Posted 10/19/10 7:53 AM
 

Diana1215
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Diana

Re: age difference between dc

Just over two years between Jack and Tyler.

If we go for a third I would love the same. It's a perfect age gap for us.

Posted 10/19/10 8:15 AM
 

sunflowerjesss
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Jesss, duh.

Re: age difference between dc

DS is 2 and will be a few months shy of 3 when the twins are born. We are done. We wanted 2 kids, are getting 3, and we can't be happier.

I always wanted a 3 year age difference. My sister and I are almost 5 years apart, and I definitely felt the big age difference contributed to us not getting along during our childhood.

Posted 10/19/10 8:18 AM
 

emomma17
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Mia

Re: age difference between dc

I am pregnant with #2 now and they will be 22 months apart.

Posted 10/19/10 8:50 AM
 

VTTG0609
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Re: age difference between dc

I am pregnant with #2 as well and they will be 27 months apart. I always liked the idea of children growing up close in age. I think it is what works best for your family and when you family is ready.

Posted 10/19/10 8:52 AM
 

missa
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Marissa

Re: age difference between dc

I am also PG with #2 they will be almost three years and wanted it that way. I had time to enjoy my DS did not want two babies at onceChat Icon IF we do go a third I will wait till both kids are in school and then Have my one baby at home...

Posted 10/19/10 9:15 AM
 

KrisT
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Kristin

Re: age difference between dc

I am PG with #2 and they will be about 13.5 months apart. If we decide to have #3, I have no idea but would probably try to have 2 years between #2 and #3, but #3 is a very big "if" Chat Icon

Posted 10/19/10 9:20 AM
 

pnm1654
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Re: age difference between dc

32 mos apart.

Posted 10/19/10 10:24 AM
 

Kelly9904
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Kelly

Re: age difference between dc

Posted by cinnabon

mine are 11yrs and 4 months apartChat Icon Chat Icon



Thats me and my brother!!

To the OP, I never plan on having 3 but my SILs kids are

3.5 years between DC 1 & 2, 18 months between DC 2 & 3

My other SIL did it hte opposite
19 months between DC 1 & 2 and then 3 years betwen DC 2 & 3

Its all up to what you want/can handle.

Posted 10/19/10 10:30 AM
 

Comeonbaby
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Re: age difference between dc

I am currently pregnant with #2, they will be 31 months apart. If I had a 3rd I would try to make the age difference a little bit closer.

Posted 10/19/10 10:59 AM
 

Eireann
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Re: age difference between dc

My first two are 20 mos. apart and it was/is great. The third will be 3.5 years younger than the second. As much as the 2 under 2 thing worked for us, as you can see...I wasn't going down THAT path again (although according to our original plan #s 2 and 3 would have still been under 2.5 year apart). Chat Icon Chat Icon

Now that DD#1 is in K full-time and her sister is in Nursery 3 half-days, I'm hoping to have a smooth(er) transition...but I still have no illusions. Chat Icon

Message edited 10/19/2010 11:04:17 AM.

Posted 10/19/10 11:02 AM
 
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