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Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

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DayDay
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Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

I pop on here by choice.. DH would love to have babies RIGHT NOW.. but I am just not ready yet.. Soon, but not now

Posted 7/7/09 8:18 PM
 

BunnyWife
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Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

By choice for now. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon To everyone who is here not by choice and I hope those dealing with infertility don't have a long stay with us Chat Icon

Posted 7/7/09 8:23 PM
 

Bellaocchi
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Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

by choice.

Posted 7/7/09 10:20 PM
 

Bellaocchi
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Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

DH and I are not ready now and not sure exactly when we will be, if and when the time comes, we will crosss that bridge at that point.

Message edited 7/7/2009 10:24:18 PM.

Posted 7/7/09 10:20 PM
 

maxsgirl
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sarah

Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

By choice...I've just never had that desire.

Posted 7/7/09 10:30 PM
 

drpepper318
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Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

By choice... for now, at least.

Posted 7/7/09 11:19 PM
 

KittyKatCopper
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Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

by choice....

Posted 7/7/09 11:25 PM
 

luvsbob4603
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Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

Not by choice, Because of medical reasons i'm on a medicine that wont allow me to have them, And "No" I cant stop taking this medicine ever!Chat Icon

Posted 7/7/09 11:27 PM
 

Nifheim
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Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

by choice

Posted 7/8/09 9:35 AM
 

CAMCaps
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Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

For now, by choice, although I know we will have issues when we do try to have a child due to a previous medical condition.

Posted 7/8/09 10:28 AM
 

TheWhiteRabbit
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Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

By choice. I never wanted children & wouldn't date a man who wanted them... and although it's never said HERE I always hear "You'll change your mind..." and it totally annoys me.

To all of you not here by choice, I am sorry. I hope you find as much enjoyment and fulfillment in other pursuits as I do Chat Icon

Posted 7/8/09 11:45 AM
 

tourist

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Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

Sort of just because. I've never really had strong feelings one way or the other. I'm not sure if this will be a permanent situation for us.

Posted 7/8/09 12:27 PM
 

MrsPJB2007
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Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

Posted by LLandDayDay

I pop on here by choice.. DH would love to have babies RIGHT NOW.. but I am just not ready yet.. Soon, but not now




Same here. We were gonna start trying -- then had to put it off for medical reasons...but I was okay with putting it off. if it were up to DH - we'd already have babies by now

Message edited 7/8/2009 2:47:47 PM.

Posted 7/8/09 2:47 PM
 

PattyK
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Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

For now, by choice.

Posted 7/8/09 2:51 PM
 

greenfreak
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Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

By choice.

But I really want to say that I agree that whatever our reasons, we all really do mesh well. And for all the people who are not here by choice but faced with that future, I really hope that we can provide the comfort and serenity that some of us enjoy being without children but still living our lives happily.

I respect all of you, regardless of your choices, non choices, or soon-to-be-made choices. Chat Icon

Posted 7/8/09 4:01 PM
 

greenfreak
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Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

Posted by DirtyBlonde

STBX



I'm so sorry, hon. I didn't realize this was happening. I hope you have happier days ahead of you.

Posted 7/8/09 4:03 PM
 

shiv
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Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

not by choice

Posted 7/8/09 4:27 PM
 

PennyCat
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Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

I'm not a regular on this board...

but I am here by choice FOR NOW. We hope to start TTC next summer! Hopefully it won't be difficult for us Chat Icon

Posted 7/8/09 6:57 PM
 

MichLiz213
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Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

Not by choice.

Posted 7/8/09 11:19 PM
 

imas98
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Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

Posted by ToriaRae

DH and I are not ready now and not sure exactly when we will be, if and when the time comes, we will crosss that bridge at that point.



Couldn't have said it better myself ! We just don't have the desire to have kids so its just not even a thought to us. We may or may not change our minds, I have no idea what the future holds.

Posted 7/9/09 9:35 AM
 

karenk71
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Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

Definitely not by choice.
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Posted 7/9/09 11:36 AM
 

DirtyBlonde
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Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

Posted by greenfreak

Posted by DirtyBlonde

STBX



I'm so sorry, hon. I didn't realize this was happening. I hope you have happier days ahead of you.



Thanks Greeny Chat Icon
It took a while to accept but I'm okay with it.

Posted 7/9/09 1:44 PM
 

Jackie24
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Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

Here by choice, for now . Chat Icon

Posted 7/9/09 2:28 PM
 

SuchIsLife
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no

Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

By choice

Posted 7/9/09 11:14 PM
 

deedee1013
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Diane

Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

I'm not sure how to answer...

If my DH and I had met many years ago, we would have had children.

We met when we were in our mid-40s.

We got married in our early-50s.

So, our children are fur-babies.


Posted 7/10/09 11:08 AM
 
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