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Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

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Sparkyandang
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Name:
Ang

Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

Posted by KLSbear

I think another poster put it best for my situation, somewhat by default, not by choice. Never met the right person when I was younger, met my now DH in my mid 30's. He didn't want children because he suffers from a chronic health condition (not life-threatening but very uncomfortable and difficult for him to live with daily) and he did not want to risk passing it on. By that point I decided being childless with the right person was more important than having children with the wrong person. After we married he did have a change of heart and we rolled the dice for about a year, but by then I was in my mid 40's, it wasn't meant to be, and so here we are.



WOW! you basically just described my situation. I just met DH about 4 yrs ago, before we got married in 10.2008, we tried for over a year and it didn't work. I am now almost 43, he's 46, so we've just accepted it but would've loved to have a had a child.

Posted 7/10/09 3:20 PM
 

Tori9299
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Member since 3/09

204 total posts

Name:
Victoria

Re: Can i ask who is here by Choice and not by Choice?

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Posted 7/10/09 10:54 PM
 
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