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Can you be friends with someone who votes for the other party?

Forum Opinion Poll
Absolutely not 3 2.17%
Yes, but we won't discuss politics 116 84.06%
Depends how extreme he/she is 19 13.77%
 

Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

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Dulcinea
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Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

DH and I were discussing this the other day....

Would you be able to befriend or continue to be friends with someone who does not share your political views? Esp. one who's voting for the opposite party?

Posted 9/6/08 11:36 PM
 

Cpt2007
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Liz

Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

None of these fit me, unfortunately. I have MANY friends that are Republicans (I'm a Dem) and we discuss politics all the time. I have other R friends that refuse to get into politics with me, and that's fine too.

Posted 9/6/08 11:38 PM
 

donegal419
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K

Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

ABSOLUTELY!!!!!!!! i'd have no friends if this was the case!Chat Icon seriously though, there are certain things that friends just choose to disagree on and that's fine. it doesn't make me not see their good hearts, sense of humor or whatever else they offer.

Posted 9/6/08 11:40 PM
 

Beth
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Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

I actually don't have a friend that is a republican now that I think about it-

but my sister is marrying one in 2 weeks

and my family wont discuss politics in front of him or his family

Posted 9/6/08 11:41 PM
 

bella
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Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

I think the pol s hould have more options. I absolutely have friends with different political views, just as I do with different religious views, etc. etc.....we are friends and although our views may differ we repsect each others viewpoints when we do discuss politics.

Posted 9/6/08 11:55 PM
 

Jessica
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~Jess~

Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

of course

to me its like asking "can you be friends with someone from a different religious affiliation, nationality, race, financial status, etc...."

Posted 9/7/08 12:03 AM
 

Chai77
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Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

Yes, I could be friends with someone who has different political views. My cousin is a huge republican, so she and I just don't talk politics b/c we know we'd just end up fighting! We can put politics aside for the sake of the relationship.

Most of my friends are pretty liberal though, as I am. I guess we just naturally have more in common.

Posted 9/7/08 12:55 AM
 

monkeybride
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Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

I can't answer your poll because no choice fits. My answer is yes. We have a lot of friends who have different views than we do. Sometimes we discuss it, sometimes we don't but it doesn't make or break a friendship.

Posted 9/7/08 12:56 AM
 

beautyq115
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Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

I have a lot of friends who don't share my political views. I have never bashed their views

Posted 9/7/08 7:24 AM
 

Christine
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Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

Of course!

I don't even know what party most of my friends belong to - I don't really get into political conversations with them. It's not really any of my business who people vote for & why.

Posted 9/7/08 7:41 AM
 

dm24angel
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Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

Of course. I ahve a few people who are close to me, whom I LOVE to death who have very different views. I just deal with it. We have other things in common that tie us to each other just as much.

Posted 9/7/08 8:02 AM
 

eroxgirl
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Rebecca

Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

I can't answer your poll because you don't have an option for me.

I have several friends that are Republicans (I'm a Dem) and with one of those friends and I get into long, extensive conversations about politics. We don't get hostile, we don't get nasty and by the end of our conversations we both know more about the other side's arguments.

I have to say, I think we're both a little more moderate than we used to be before we were friends. We each make sense to each other, kwim?

Posted 9/7/08 8:24 AM
 

Jackie24
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Jackie

Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

Yes, it is very seldom that I EVER talk politics with my friends

Posted 9/7/08 8:25 AM
 

MegZee
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Meaghan

Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

of course, and we can discuss politics.

Posted 9/7/08 8:41 AM
 

DandN
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Deirdre

Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

My husband isn't a democrat. We both LOVE politics and debate issues all the time.

Posted 9/7/08 8:49 AM
 

Gertyrae
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Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

Posted by Jessica

of course

to me its like asking "can you be friends with someone from a different religious affiliation, nationality, race, financial status, etc...."




I agree!

Posted 9/7/08 8:52 AM
 

MissJones
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Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

Absolutely. However, respect my POV and I will respect yours. If my opinions got bashed, I'd be more suspect because I may not agree with what someone says or thinks, but I will never tell them that they are an idiot for thinking it. So, if we agree to disagree, great.

Posted 9/7/08 9:15 AM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

Absolutely, I don't care what party someone votes and believes in. That being said, I honestly choose not to discuss politics with many people outside these boards.

Posted 9/7/08 9:17 AM
 

browneyedgirl
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browneyes

Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

absolutely! my best friend maybebaby and i usually differ on most views, but i respect her and all of my friend's views, even if they're very different than mine.

my friends and i discuss things to a certain extent and disagree on many ideas, but that would NEVER affect our friendship. i think it's a healthy thing to have different views than your friends...you don't always have to agree about everything!

Posted 9/7/08 9:35 AM
 

conigs25
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Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

I answered "depends on how extreme"

For instance, i am democrat, on the liberal side. Im for gay marriage, right to choose, gun control, etc. I also dont believe in religion.

So if i cant really imagine being friends w/ a right wing conservative who thinks gays are "wrong" and is for the war in Iraq and is some crazy religious freak.

So i guess i would have to say, if they were STRICT on the other side, no i couldnt be friends w. them.

IMO (and dont torch me bc this is MY OPINION), i find people like that ignorant and i cant keep company w/ people like that.

Posted 9/7/08 9:39 AM
 

TaraHutch
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Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

Funny...I don't have this problem with friends- it's family!!! My family just laughs at me, since I'm the lone "liberal"Chat Icon I was always the black sheep anyway!Chat Icon

But anyway...I've never allowed politics to affect my friendships.

Then again....I guess I haven't met too many 'extremes.' It's really only my uncle I get into huge arguments with!Chat Icon

Message edited 9/7/2008 9:47:32 AM.

Posted 9/7/08 9:43 AM
 

CunningOne
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Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

absolutely! I'd have no friends if I didn't. I actually think all my friends are a different political view and I respect their views and I would hope they respect mine!

Posted 9/7/08 10:02 AM
 

Terry34
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Terry

Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

Yes, we don't talk politics is all.

Posted 9/7/08 10:40 AM
 

maybebaby
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Maureen

Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

Posted by browneyedgirl

absolutely! my best friend maybebaby and i usually differ on most views, but i respect her and all of my friend's views, even if they're very different than mine.

my friends and i discuss things to a certain extent and disagree on many ideas, but that would NEVER affect our friendship. i think it's a healthy thing to have different views than your friends...you don't always have to agree about everything!



I agree Chat Icon

Although I don't think we differ on MOST...maybe we do, I don't really know!! I don't have very strong convictions so it's hard to know with the exception of obviously being pro life.

I have many friends of diff. political views, its healthy to have opinions and diff. views!! If we were all the same how boring would it be?

Posted 9/7/08 10:47 AM
 

MrsPorkChop
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Missy

Re: Can you be friends with someone from another political party? POLL

many of my friends and family are differ in political views. we just dont talk politics

now, if on of my friends ws some protestor or something, i dont think i could be friends with that person- way too extreme for me

Posted 9/7/08 11:30 AM
 
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