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monkeybride
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
Posted by Bxgell2
Hubby didn't seem to have any problems adapting - it was me who had a little trouble going from BFing to sexual objects
This is my problem so for me when I'm nursing the boobs are off limits.
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
Posted by Mikismom
yes, if he squeezes them, he should close his eyes 
and in my experience, you do not have to squeeze too hard to get things flowing...tell him to tread lightly.
Totally agree. They leaked all the time and I didn't want him anywhere near them - boy did he keep trying though 
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| Posted 4/22/09 3:23 PM |
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dandr10199
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
Posted by Mikismom
yes, if he squeezes them, he should close his eyes
and in my experience, you do not have to squeeze too hard to get things flowing...tell him to tread lightly.
LMAO and ITA!
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| Posted 4/22/09 3:23 PM |
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JennyPenny
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
Posted by Ophelia
oh well, I guess I could always tell him the tables have finally turned.  
thanks ladies. 
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| Posted 4/22/09 3:28 PM |
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JennZ
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
The girls were off limits while I was BF. Now I stopped the party is back on. I just could not get "sexy mode" knowing the boy was going to be eating afterwards. It kind of freaked me out honestly.
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| Posted 4/22/09 3:29 PM |
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computergirl
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
This is so embarrassing but I really enjoyed my breasts during my BF-ing months. I'm really flat-chested, so it was awesome to have big juicy boobs for once in my life. Cleavage at last! So I have to admit, I didn't mind at all having my breasts come into play during sex... I was feeling very sexy and confident having them.
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pinkandblue
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
Posted by Ophelia
oh well, I guess I could always tell him the tables have finally turned.
 
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MelToddJulia
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
The first 2 months they leaked a lot, after that my DH had no problems playing with them--lol I never let DH put his mouth on them though, it was my baby's food, and I didn't feel comfortable with that.
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imyself
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
I bf ds for about 14months and never had issues with leaking. I have to admit I was not too interested in sex but in my defense I was basically the only one taking care of ds. I always warned dh but to my displeasure he was never squirted. I thought it would have been funny
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staceyd
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
Posted by Bridex100
I'm only 4 weeks pp and EBF. I cannot imagine my breasts feeling sensual ever again. I used to be very proud of them and thought they were sexy. Now they are milk producers for DS. I highly doubt DH would find stroking them to be sexual and I definitely know I won't. Perhaps I will feel differently down the road.
THIS was the reason I was against BF in the beginning, but I figured I would try it anyway... and I have to admit.. I love my time with DD... she grabs onto my hand and she looks so peaceful.. I am glad I am being successful and keeping up with it... DH thinks its sexy that I can provide for our DD.. I am going to be honest and say I used to LOVE when DH used to play with them.... but Im not sure when I will get that feeling back that they are sexy.. and not "caretakers/providers"
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Deedlebugs
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
We really never had a problem with them except for a few times and DH would just laugh it off. It never bothered either one of us. We learned to live with it. I haven't BF in almost 7 months and I still "squirt" DH from time to time
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DandN
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
I started leaking on week 20 and leaked every single day until I gave birth - so I think my DH was pretty much seeing them as functional only for the baby at that point.
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Disneygirl
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
Posted by smdl
That was a "restricted zone" for me. I actually felt VERY protective of them when I was BFing DS. I was not in the mood to get any attention is that area.
I sprayed DS many times. I would have laugh so hard if I had sprayed DH in an intimate moment.
Same for me.
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Alli06
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
I really don't like them touched. They where really sore in the beginning and they still get sore from time to time.
They really are all for the baby. Once I stop BF, I'm sure it will go back to normal.
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Porrruss
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
Posted by computergirl
This is so embarrassing but I really enjoyed my breasts during my BF-ing months. I'm really flat-chested, so it was awesome to have big juicy boobs for once in my life. Cleavage at last! So I have to admit, I didn't mind at all having my breasts come into play during sex... I was feeling very sexy and confident having them.
This was/is me exactly. I have a huge milk supply- so squirting was always a possibility. I just make sure to pump beforehand and haven't had a problem.
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ABCiverson
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
If I knew that we were going to mess aroundthat night I would pump first. If not I would leak. Luckily my DH didn't seem to mind either way
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karacg
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
When I was BFing, mine were sore and overly-sensitive so DH wasn't allowed near them.....
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MrsRivera
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
I am clearly in the minority here, but...the fact that I am BF has not changed things at all. They are not "off-limits", as a matter of fact, I think DH enjoys them even more now...
I'm just very careful to wash them afterwards so that I'm not worried the next time DD nurses. But DH jokes around that it's a good thing my supply is good because DD has to share
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bonitachyc
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
boobies are off limits at the moment...don't want any accidental shots fired
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Jen2999
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
Posted by Mikismom
Posted by Ophelia
oh well, I guess I could always tell him the tables have finally turned.
o.m.g
I literally just spit soda all over my child...I am not even kidding....
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CCMommy
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
My milk never really "shot" out..
But while DTD my boobs would sometimes drip on him
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babyonthebrain
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
DH has not come close to them since the baby was born. I always have my bra on, when we're BDing. I think it's an unspoken rule that at this point they are serving their main function, which is to feed our child. Once I stop breastfeeding then he can have them back....
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Goldi0218
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
Boobs were like huge bags of rocks behind nipples that felt like glass was cutting me from the inside out because of thrush - so I'd have to give a resounding NO to the OP's question.
Now they look like bean bags.
Im rather looking forward to plastics and enhancements after baby #2. Been waiting a damn long time already.
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ReiRei13
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
Posted by MsMBV
I cannot speak for anyone but myself, but when BFing the girls are only for the baby. I have to even cover them while DTD, because, yes, the projectile could potentially maim my DH
ITA!! My boobs are for my son only right now!! And they def need to be cover while DTD due to leakage!!
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MrsPornStar
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Re: Crashing to ask a VERY personal question to mom's who breast feed/fed.
Posted by MsMBV
I cannot speak for anyone but myself, but when BFing the girls are only for the baby. I have to even cover them while DTD, because, yes, the projectile could potentially maim my DH
Same here. It's so easy to get carried away in the moment and the boobies are for DS only. The few times I didn't cover, I didn't leak though.
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