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lisan1025
LIF Infant

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Lisa

DISGUSTED!!! UPDATED

I am so ******! I started my IVF Medication on Saturday. I usually do 3 Bravelle and 2 Menopur in the morning and then again at night. So I take 10 doses a day - I am a poor responder. Anyway, the nurse Saturday morning told me I am only doing 3 Bravelle and 2 Menopur a day - only 1x a day. So this morning I go for my first office visit and of course they are only seeing 3 follies. So I asked the Doctor why am I only doing one dose a day instead of doing a dose in the morning & another at Night??? He said, your suppose to be doing it 2x a day! THE NURSE TOLD ME THE WRONG INFO!!! So I said, does this mean this cycle is ruined? He said, well start today taking your med's morning and again at night and we'll see what happens. I felt like saying, "Well, why don't you give your staff together and have a talk on how important it is to give the right information to patients because if not, this can REALLY EFFECT THEM EMOTIONALLY and PHYSICALLY". I just feel like I wasted a cycle and medication!

This is day five of the medication, do you think more follies can grow or is what I have pretty much it? Isn't this to late in the cycle to start growing more? I mean usually by Day 10 you are going for egg retrieval....
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Message edited 4/6/2007 9:16:44 PM.

Posted 4/4/07 4:22 PM
 
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BigB
C & J are 10!

Member since 6/05

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Name:
Stacey

Re: DISGUSTED!!!

That stinks! But you can go longer then 10 days! I stimmed for 13 days this past cycle. Each person is different!

Good Luck to you and from now on, I would only speak to the dr. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/4/07 4:50 PM
 

Gertyrae
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Re: DISGUSTED!!!

I definitely stimmed for more than ten days - and I ended up overstimming - you should get more to grow, but I would definitely ask to talk to the nurse about this.
I mean, she may have just made a mistake, but it's very emotionally draining.

Posted 4/4/07 4:55 PM
 

halisa
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Re: DISGUSTED!!!

omg, i'm sorry that happened.

praying for you.

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Posted 4/4/07 5:09 PM
 

angel7
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Re: DISGUSTED!!!

Oh, I am so sorry that happened to you! I hope that everything will work out. I am praying for you!
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Posted 4/4/07 5:17 PM
 

CAT215
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Re: DISGUSTED!!!

It is bloody annoying, sorry you had to deal with that. I too stimmed for more than 10 days. Good luck Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/4/07 5:45 PM
 

rose825
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Re: DISGUSTED!!!

you may still grow more, I stimmed like 14 days. But if you dont I would talk to your MD about coverting to an IUI and/or eating the charges since you have alot invested at the mistake of his staff

Posted 4/4/07 6:00 PM
 

sami
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Re: DISGUSTED!!!

OMG that is so wrong of them!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/4/07 6:07 PM
 

juju
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Re: DISGUSTED!!!

OMG! I am sooo sorry! How aggravating!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 4/4/2007 6:36:19 PM.

Posted 4/4/07 6:35 PM
 

Jenziba
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Re: DISGUSTED!!!

OMG...how horrible...Chat Icon

I hope it works out and that this cycle is not ruined for you...

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Posted 4/4/07 6:45 PM
 

lisan1025
LIF Infant

Member since 1/06

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Lisa

Re: DISGUSTED!!!

Thanks everyone! Hopefully, when I got back on Friday, more follies will be there!

Good Luck to e1 else too!!!! Lots of Baby Dust for ALL OF US!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/4/07 8:07 PM
 

halisa
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lisa

Re: DISGUSTED!!!

Posted by rose825

eating the charges since you have alot invested at the mistake of his staff



i think this is great advice. don't be afraid of being pushy.

Posted 4/4/07 9:40 PM
 

calendargrl
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jan

Re: DISGUSTED!!!

Sorry you are going through this. I hope you get more follies!Chat Icon

Posted 4/5/07 8:52 AM
 

LaurenExp
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Re: DISGUSTED!!!

I'm sorry this happened to you. I haven't been through IVF, but I hope it all works out for you.

Grow, follies, grow!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted 4/5/07 9:00 AM
 

lulugrrl
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L

Re: DISGUSTED!!!

SOOO Aggravating, I am so sorry!Chat Icon

Posted 4/5/07 9:01 AM
 

dooodles
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Re: DISGUSTED!!!

I am so sorry this happened. I will hope that by tomorrow you have more Chat Icon

Posted 4/5/07 9:09 AM
 

Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it

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Re: DISGUSTED!!!

Im so sorry...hopefully the mistake will turn into something GREAT!!!!
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Posted 4/5/07 9:21 AM
 

skygirl
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Re: DISGUSTED!!!

I donot blame you one bit for being pizzed.

I didn't do IVF but I am hoping that now that you have the right info more follies start growing.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/5/07 9:28 AM
 

imyself

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Posted 4/5/07 12:19 PM
 

lisan1025
LIF Infant

Member since 1/06

185 total posts

Name:
Lisa

DISGUSTED!!! UPDATED

Well, unfortunately, as expected, only two follies there - one very small and the other on the larger side. Usually at this time they would say, "lets cancel this cycle" but now all of a sudden (since they are in fault) they are like, "well lets wait until Monday". So I have to continue this until Monday knowing in my heart its not going to help.

I saw the nurse that screwed up. I gave her the opportunity to say something or apologize or just acknowledge to me that she made an error. She didn't say a word. SO, I said, I guess the doctor told you that you gave me the wrong information???" She said, Yes, and I feel so bad. I said, "Yeah me too especially when I only have two eggs and wasted a cycle." She just walked away from me.

Was I to harsh? I gave her the opportunity to say something and she didn't. Had she apologized I would have let it drop and said, "I know, everyone makes mistakes".

Message edited 4/6/2007 9:15:57 PM.

Posted 4/6/07 9:12 PM
 

Red
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helen

Re: DISGUSTED!!! UPDATED

you were completely in the right - an apology was definintely necessary, and I would push to cancel the cycle .. they're your eggs and unless something major happens over the weekend, I'd prepare to cancel

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Posted 4/6/07 9:25 PM
 

jellybean78
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Re: DISGUSTED!!! UPDATED

They didn't even apologizeChat Icon I would be pizzed off. No I don't think you were too harsh. On top of the fact that stims cost major $$$$ they put you through an unneccesary emotionol and physical rollercoaster.

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Posted 4/6/07 9:31 PM
 

rose825
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Re: DISGUSTED!!! UPDATED

you should deifnately ask them to replace the meds that you wasted on this cycle. In the VERY least.

You were soooo right to say something.

Posted 4/6/07 9:36 PM
 

halisa
adore

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lisa

Re: DISGUSTED!!! UPDATED

you were not harsh at all!! she should have apologized and i think there should be some sort of reimbursement from the doctor. did you say anything to the doctor about the error??

i'm sorry that happened.
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Posted 4/6/07 10:07 PM
 

Gertyrae
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Re: DISGUSTED!!! UPDATED

You were totally in the right and she should have apologized...it's incredibly rude that she just walked away.

As others have said, you should demand they reimburse you for the meds of this cycle and cancel the cycle.

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Posted 4/7/07 1:36 AM
 
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