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vegalady
Love my family
Member since 6/06 4546 total posts
Name: SNV
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Re: Grrrrr!! I Am Highly Livid - Stupid Comments
Sounds like she is jealous of you. I have a friend like that. She thinks that DH and I showboat a lot. But we dont at all. We are so not the showboat type. Seh didnt even come to my baby shower b/c I guess she thought it was to extravagant and b/c she didnt really have a big baby shower. Things are harder on her b/c she is a SAHM and her DH is the only financial provider of the home. She thinks that everything I do is overly extravagant. But I just suck it up and I really dont care what she says.
ETA: We are not best friends just friends. Which means I tolerate her.
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Posted 2/22/08 11:17 AM |
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boobanick
GO YANKEES!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: Grrrrr!! I Am Highly Livid - Stupid Comments
It sounds like she is very jealous of you and your DD... and it obviously BOTHERS her that she never did these activities with her children so she is trying to downplay her shortcomings by telling you that you shouldn't do things with your DD... Tell her that maybe if she spent more time with her kids doing stuff she wouldnt be worrying about what you do with your DC....
I cant stand when people put ther opinions in when no one cares and wants to here them
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Posted 2/22/08 11:30 AM |
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shellybean
Love my Baby Boy!
Member since 4/07 5191 total posts
Name: mich
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Re: Grrrrr!! I Am Highly Livid - Stupid Comments
jelous, jelous, and more jelous...u should be flattered!!!
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Posted 2/22/08 11:32 AM |
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marycpa
LIF Adolescent
Member since 7/07 635 total posts
Name: Mary
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Re: Grrrrr!! I Am Highly Livid - Stupid Comments
People are so stupid sometimes.. One year birthday parties are extra special because there is so much that you, as a parent, and the child go through. It's not just for the child but for the parent too. It should be seen a celebration of a parenting accomplishment.
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Posted 2/22/08 11:35 AM |
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MommyofG
just the girls
Member since 5/05 9461 total posts
Name: Janice
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Re: Grrrrr!! I Am Highly Livid - Stupid Comments
everyone took the words right out of my mouth JEALOUS!!!!!
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Posted 2/22/08 11:49 AM |
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saraH
happy birthday sweet kate!
Member since 5/05 16555 total posts
Name: I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...
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Re: Grrrrr!! I Am Highly Livid - Stupid Comments
I have a few people like this in my life. All family, so I can't xactly cut them out. But I hear you, it gets frustrating to hear the same thing over and over about how "wrong" you are raising your child.
Hopefully whoever this person is will get the message by you not returning her calls.
Good luck!
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Posted 2/22/08 11:54 AM |
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Re: Grrrrr!! I Am Highly Livid - Stupid Comments
Posted by BlessedMommy
Jealousy can make people say crappy things. Sorry you had to deal with it. I would distance myself from her. Relationships like that can be toxic
Well said, ITA.
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Posted 2/22/08 12:10 PM |
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Bklyngrl
luvmyfamily
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Re: Grrrrr!! I Am Highly Livid - Stupid Comments
she's petty and jealous! tell her to go where the sun doesn't shine! Every decent parent wants to do and give their children the best they can
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Posted 2/22/08 12:22 PM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
Member since 5/05 27567 total posts
Name: Janice
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Re: Grrrrr!! I Am Highly Livid - Stupid Comments
she's being obnoxious.
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Posted 2/22/08 12:24 PM |
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