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Grrrrr!! I Am Highly Livid - Stupid Comments

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vegalady
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Re: Grrrrr!! I Am Highly Livid - Stupid Comments

Sounds like she is jealous of you. I have a friend like that. She thinks that DH and I showboat a lot. But we dont at all. We are so not the showboat type. Seh didnt even come to my baby shower b/c I guess she thought it was to extravagant and b/c she didnt really have a big baby shower. Things are harder on her b/c she is a SAHM and her DH is the only financial provider of the home. She thinks that everything I do is overly extravagant. But I just suck it up and I really dont care what she says.

ETA: We are not best friends just friends. Which means I tolerate her.

Posted 2/22/08 11:17 AM
 
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boobanick
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Re: Grrrrr!! I Am Highly Livid - Stupid Comments

It sounds like she is very jealous of you and your DD... and it obviously BOTHERS her that she never did these activities with her children so she is trying to downplay her shortcomings by telling you that you shouldn't do things with your DD... Tell her that maybe if she spent more time with her kids doing stuff she wouldnt be worrying about what you do with your DC....

I cant stand when people put ther opinions in when no one cares and wants to here them

Posted 2/22/08 11:30 AM
 

shellybean
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mich

Re: Grrrrr!! I Am Highly Livid - Stupid Comments

jelous, jelous, and more jelous...u should be flattered!!!

Posted 2/22/08 11:32 AM
 

marycpa
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Mary

Re: Grrrrr!! I Am Highly Livid - Stupid Comments

People are so stupid sometimes.. One year birthday parties are extra special because there is so much that you, as a parent, and the child go through. It's not just for the child but for the parent too. It should be seen a celebration of a parenting accomplishment.

Posted 2/22/08 11:35 AM
 

MommyofG
just the girls

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Re: Grrrrr!! I Am Highly Livid - Stupid Comments

everyone took the words right out of my mouthChat Icon
JEALOUS!!!!!

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Posted 2/22/08 11:49 AM
 

saraH
happy birthday sweet kate!

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I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...

Re: Grrrrr!! I Am Highly Livid - Stupid Comments

I have a few people like this in my life. All family, so I can't xactly cut them out. But I hear you, it gets frustrating to hear the same thing over and over about how "wrong" you are raising your child.

Hopefully whoever this person is will get the message by you not returning her calls.

Good luck!
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Posted 2/22/08 11:54 AM
 

Mrs. Patticakes
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Re: Grrrrr!! I Am Highly Livid - Stupid Comments

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Jealousy can make people say crappy things. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Sorry you had to deal with it. I would distance myself from her. Relationships like that can be toxic Chat Icon



Well said, ITA. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/22/08 12:10 PM
 

Bklyngrl
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Re: Grrrrr!! I Am Highly Livid - Stupid Comments

she's petty and jealous! tell her to go where the sun doesn't shine! Every decent parent wants to do and give their children the best they can

Posted 2/22/08 12:22 PM
 

Janice
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Janice

Re: Grrrrr!! I Am Highly Livid - Stupid Comments

she's being obnoxious.

Posted 2/22/08 12:24 PM
 
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