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Redhead
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Re: I am disgusted by this

Maybe the mother had PPD?
Where was the father?
Or the parents of this girl?

Seems to me there is much more to this story than what was written

Posted 10/24/05 9:51 AM
 
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IluvBo
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Rose

Re: I am disgusted by this

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How was for that poor baby. That girl needs to have her tubes tied, cut, removed....whatever it takes to ensure she doesn't have another baby again! Where was her family?

How sad......so many people who want babies and can't have them....and then there are people like this evil woman.

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Posted 10/24/05 9:57 AM
 

Crazeddiva
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Re: I am disgusted by this

that is just disgusting. Unreal.

Posted 10/24/05 9:58 AM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Re: I am disgusted by this

This is just horrible. What a B!TCH!!!! I'm sorry there is no excuse for this kind of stuff. Chat Icon

Posted 10/24/05 10:02 AM
 

MamaNDaddyof3
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Re: I am disgusted by this

IMO age certainly does play a factor..
Age and circumstance!

Certain people at a young age can and are equiped to deal with being thrown into this kind of circumstance

Some young teens that have no money, no education, no support ARE NOT! They are the MOST vulnerable disasters occurring


If we keep giving these girls excuses the cycle will never end
THAT IS WHY THEY HAVE ANONOMYS DROP OFFS

If the girl could go to a nightclub she could drop her baby off somewhere safe

So she tries to starve her baby to death and we say poor her NO WAY

Posted 10/24/05 10:03 AM
 

Redhead
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Re: I am disgusted by this

Posted by MamaNDaddyof2

IMO age certainly does play a factor..
Age and circumstance!

Certain people at a young age can and are equiped to deal with being thrown into this kind of circumstance

Some young teens that have no money, no education, no support ARE NOT! They are the MOST vulnerable disasters occurring



If we keep giving these girls excuses the cycle will never end
THAT IS WHY THEY HAVE ANONOMYS DROP OFFS

If the girl could go to a nightclub she could drop her baby off somewhere safe

So she tries to starve her baby to death and we say poor her NO WAY


And what if she had PDD?
Is that an "excuse" could that be a reason?

Do you really think she was at a nightclub for 3 weeks?
And where is everyone else in this little factor?

I just can't judge her without knowing ALL there is to know...
And saying that she should be sterilized is CRAZY

Posted 10/24/05 10:07 AM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Re: I am disgusted by this

If we keep giving these girls excuses the cycle will never end
THAT IS WHY THEY HAVE ANONOMYS DROP OFFS

If the girl could go to a nightclub she could drop her baby off somewhere safe

So she tries to starve her baby to death and we say poor her NO WAY


I agree. There is no excuse for this kind of stuff. There are Govt. programs, charities, other means of help. She leaves to a friend's house & leaves her child. There is no excuse for this type of abuse. I hope they punish her to the full extent of the law.

Posted 10/24/05 10:08 AM
 

MamaNDaddyof3
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Re: I am disgusted by this

I didnt say she should be sterilized ...I just said that AGE is not an excuse

Posted 10/24/05 10:09 AM
 

Redhead
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Re: I am disgusted by this

Posted by LadyLainez

If we keep giving these girls excuses the cycle will never end
THAT IS WHY THEY HAVE ANONOMYS DROP OFFS

If the girl could go to a nightclub she could drop her baby off somewhere safe

So she tries to starve her baby to death and we say poor her NO WAY



I agree. There is no excuse for this kind of stuff. There are Govt. programs, charities, other means of help. She leaves to a friend's house & leaves her child. There is no excuse for this type of abuse. I hope they punish her to the full extent of the law.


wow...sad how quickly people judge her without knowing all there is to know about her Chat Icon

Posted 10/24/05 10:09 AM
 

Redhead
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Re: I am disgusted by this

Posted by MamaNDaddyof2

I didnt say she should be sterilized ...I just said that AGE is not an excuse


i agree with you...age isn't an excuse alone

But do you know anything about her aside from this?
Do you know how she was raised?
Do you know if she suffered from PDD
Where is the father and HIS ROLE in this? Or her parents for that matter

Posted 10/24/05 10:10 AM
 

MamaNDaddyof3
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Re: I am disgusted by this

Some teen age mothers just dont want to be tied down with a baby How do you know she isnt one of them???

Posted 10/24/05 10:10 AM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Sonia

Re: I am disgusted by this

I agree. There is no excuse for this kind of stuff. There are Govt. programs, charities, other means of help. She leaves to a friend's house & leaves her child. There is no excuse for this type of abuse. I hope they punish her to the full extent of the law.


wow...sad how quickly people judge her without knowing all there is to know about her Chat Icon


If this is in fact true..then yes I hope she is punished for what she has done. There is no excuse ofor this, unless she is menttally unstable to care for her child or has menatl issues then I can understand, but there is no excuse. That's horrible.

Posted 10/24/05 10:10 AM
 

Redhead
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Jennifer

Re: I am disgusted by this

Posted by MamaNDaddyof2

Some teen age mothers just dont want to be tied down with a baby How do you know she isnt one of them???


I don't......

but i am not going to ASSUME that is the reason by this article alone

Posted 10/24/05 10:11 AM
 

MamaNDaddyof3
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Re: I am disgusted by this

I agree with where is the father of this baby....he left the child too.......they never accuse the father

Posted 10/24/05 10:12 AM
 

Janice
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Re: I am disgusted by this

What a loser, I hope this baby makes a full recovery, gets placed with a family that loves him, and hopefully he will never have to think about this horror again.

IMO, both children should be removed. I don't see how a woman could recover and ever be a good mother after leaving your baby starving and dirty.

She may have problems, and that is sad, but she in no way should be able to keep these kids or any future kids.

Posted 10/24/05 10:12 AM
 

june262004
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Re: I am disgusted by this

Posted by KPtoys


. According to the friend, the mother said her son was with a baby-sitter. Friends of the mother say it was common for Traylor to leave the boy alone when she went to nightclubs.




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It is disgusting but how do people no notice this? Chat Icon

Posted 10/24/05 10:12 AM
 

Redhead
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Jennifer

Re: I am disgusted by this

IF she is just a self centered, irresponisble arse then fine....YES she should go to hell IMO

BUT at MINIMUM....WHERE IS THE FATHER? To not see his son for 3 weeks? IMO she isn't soley to blame

And her friends...if they felt that she was SOOO abusive...WHY did they do NOTHING?

Posted 10/24/05 10:13 AM
 

Redhead
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Jennifer

Re: I am disgusted by this

Posted by MamaNDaddyof2

I agree with where is the father of this baby....he left the child too.......they never accuse the father


DITTO!

Posted 10/24/05 10:13 AM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Re: I am disgusted by this

Posted by Redhead

IF she is just a self centered, irresponisble arse then fine....YES she should go to hell IMO

BUT at MINIMUM....WHERE IS THE FATHER? To not see his son for 3 weeks? IMO she isn't soley to blame

And her friends...if they felt that she was SOOO abusive...WHY did they do NOTHING?



I agree with blaming the father...but at the time this happened if she was the one that had custody of the child & was responsible for him and she let this happen then she's got more than mental issues. I agree that people go through hardships and I've had my share but I can't sit here and blmae everyone else for my mistakes.

Posted 10/24/05 10:16 AM
 

Redhead
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Re: I am disgusted by this

Posted by LadyLainez

Posted by Redhead

IF she is just a self centered, irresponisble arse then fine....YES she should go to hell IMO

BUT at MINIMUM....WHERE IS THE FATHER? To not see his son for 3 weeks? IMO she isn't soley to blame

And her friends...if they felt that she was SOOO abusive...WHY did they do NOTHING?



I agree with blaming the father...but at the time this happened if she was the one that had custody of the child & was responsible for him and she let this happen then she's got more than mental issues. I agree that people go through hardships and I've had my share but I can't sit here and blmae everyone else for my mistakes.


She had "custody" of the child for 3 weeks straight....

That alone would tell you that the father is neglegent as well! That he didn't go to visit the child at alll

If that was my child i would be busting down doors, calling the police to see him....

Posted 10/24/05 10:18 AM
 

LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here

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Sonia

Re: I am disgusted by this

She had "custody" of the child for 3 weeks straight....

That alone would tell you that the father is neglegent as well! That he didn't go to visit the child at alll

If that was my child i would be busting down doors, calling the police to see him....


It's truly sad the whole situation weather it was her fault or not in the end the one that suffers most is the innocent child. Chat Icon

Message edited 10/24/2005 10:20:14 AM.

Posted 10/24/05 10:19 AM
 

Redhead
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Re: I am disgusted by this

Posted by LadyLainez

She had "custody" of the child for 3 weeks straight....

That alone would tell you that the father is neglegent as well! That he didn't go to visit the child at alll

If that was my child i would be busting down doors, calling the police to see him....



It's truly sad the whole situation weather it was her fault or not in the end the one that suffers most is the innocent child. Chat Icon

i AGREE 100%
I guess i just see these kinda things as a result of sad situations and circumstance sometimes...and since the article doesn't say much...it makes me wonder...

Posted 10/24/05 10:28 AM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Sonia

Re: I am disgusted by this

i AGREE 100%
I guess i just see these kinda things as a result of sad situations and circumstance sometimes...and since the article doesn't say much...it makes me wonder...


I'm sure that a,b,c & d factor come into play that lead to this. I hate to read things like this. I see my daughter and I can't even fathom the thought of hurting her in any way...it's a sad situation. Maybe this girl will get the help she needs to get better and hopefully become a better parent to her child. Chat Icon

Posted 10/24/05 10:32 AM
 

BriBri2u
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Re: I am disgusted by this

I could not believe this when I heard it over the weekend...she has a 3 year in foster care, is pregant and was said to have told people that she wanted the baby to die Chat Icon

Meanwhile, I spent Friday night consoling a good friend because she is devestated that she and her husband have not been able to get pregant...sorry I don't need to know anymore facts to judge this girl...2 kids and one on the way and she hasn't been a fit mother to any of them...she shouldn't be allowed to have children...JMO

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Posted 10/24/05 10:40 AM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Sonia

Re: I am disgusted by this

Posted by Beaver2be

I could not believe this when I heard it over the weekend...she has a 3 year in foster care, is pregant and was said to have told people that she wanted the baby to die Chat Icon

Meanwhile, I spent Friday night consoling a good friend because she is devestated that she and her husband have not been able to get pregant...sorry I don't need to know anymore facts to judge this girl...2 kids and one on the way and she hasn't been a fit mother to any of them...she shouldn't be allowed to have children...JMO

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Posted 10/24/05 10:42 AM
 
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