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luckysmom
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Re: Just curious..

we were married in July 2007 and started trying in September 2008. We got pregnant in may of this year. So we got pregnant almost 3 years after getting married.

Posted 10/22/10 11:01 AM
 
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dajc23
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Re: Just curious..

Posted by AngnShaun

Posted by Pray4Baby2010

Posted by MrsPJB2007

Posted by jteach

Posted by KevinNKristin8-15-08

Posted by jteach

about 1 year 9 months. We wanted to have a house and be settled before we got preggo. We bought our house in Aug '09 and got pregnant April of '09


That makes me feel better. This is the same reason we waited.



Thats because our men are smart Chat Icon





I have to ask -- what does this mean? Chat Icon

Is it not smart to have a kid before house? Because if it is, I guess I'm stupid.

Sometimes things happen that you do not plan.

To answer the OP -- February will be 4 years married for us.





we dont own a house either- we have a coop but its like an apartment and we planned to get pregnant- I guess that makes us worse lol



i only have 1 b/r and an unemployed husband... i think im the worst!




HOW DARE YOU!

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we're apparently idiots too cause i have #2 on the way and I only live in a small 2 bdrm appt.
Oh and it's on the 2nd floor of a building with no elevator. So imagine having to lug 2 kids up and down the stairs with all their crap


I should get rid of them now thenChat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 10/22/2010 11:01:59 AM.

Posted 10/22/10 11:01 AM
 

jasmine
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Re: Just curious..

Posted by dajc23

HOW DARE YOU!

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we're apparently idiots too cause i have #2 on the way and I only live in a small 2 bdrm appt.
Oh and it's on the 2nd floor of a building with no elevator. So imagine having to lug 2 kids up and down the stairs with all their crap


I should get rid of them now thenChat Icon Chat Icon



I guess we'll join you in idiotland Chat Icon

Message edited 10/22/2010 11:37:25 AM.

Posted 10/22/10 11:03 AM
 

fujamaga
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Re: Just curious..

Posted by Pray4Baby2010

we dont own a house either- we have a coop but its like an apartment and we planned to get pregnant- I guess that makes us worse lol



Haha, we were renting a 1 bdrm apt, then got accidentally pregnant and had to rent a 2 bdrm apt, I think that makes us worse Chat Icon

Posted 10/22/10 11:06 AM
 

MrsPJB2007
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Re: Just curious..

Posted by jasmine

We pay Chat Icon Chat Icon to live in a 1br/1ba apartment in NYC. Chat Icon We plan to move out of the city when we have Chat Icon but for now we love city-living and aren't even thinking about looking for a Chat Icon - I guess we'll join you in idiotland Chat Icon




It's good to see the that Idiotland has a high population. Chat Icon

Posted 10/22/10 11:06 AM
 

Babylove10
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Re: Just curious..

Posted by AngnShaun

Posted by Pray4Baby2010

Posted by MrsPJB2007

Posted by jteach

Posted by KevinNKristin8-15-08

Posted by jteach

about 1 year 9 months. We wanted to have a house and be settled before we got preggo. We bought our house in Aug '09 and got pregnant April of '09


That makes me feel better. This is the same reason we waited.



Thats because our men are smart Chat Icon





I have to ask -- what does this mean? Chat Icon

Is it not smart to have a kid before house? Because if it is, I guess I'm stupid.

Sometimes things happen that you do not plan.

To answer the OP -- February will be 4 years married for us.





we dont own a house either- we have a coop but its like an apartment and we planned to get pregnant- I guess that makes us worse lol



i only have 1 b/r and an unemployed husband... i think im the worst!



I have a 1 bedroom and we aren't even married yet. We were engaged and let god work his magic. So I guess we are pretty bad too lol.

Posted 10/22/10 11:09 AM
 

gmmarre
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gloria

Re: Just curious..

9 months after getting married, we moved out of my MIL basement and conceived the first night in our new place !

Posted 10/22/10 11:10 AM
 

AngnShaun
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Re: Just curious..

Posted by Babylove10

Posted by AngnShaun

Posted by Pray4Baby2010

Posted by MrsPJB2007

Posted by jteach

Posted by KevinNKristin8-15-08

Posted by jteach

about 1 year 9 months. We wanted to have a house and be settled before we got preggo. We bought our house in Aug '09 and got pregnant April of '09


That makes me feel better. This is the same reason we waited.



Thats because our men are smart Chat Icon





I have to ask -- what does this mean? Chat Icon

Is it not smart to have a kid before house? Because if it is, I guess I'm stupid.

Sometimes things happen that you do not plan.

To answer the OP -- February will be 4 years married for us.





we dont own a house either- we have a coop but its like an apartment and we planned to get pregnant- I guess that makes us worse lol



i only have 1 b/r and an unemployed husband... i think im the worst!



I have a 1 bedroom and we aren't even married yet. We were engaged and let god work his magic. So I guess we are pretty bad too lol.



Chat Icon Chat Icon for shame! Chat Icon

Posted 10/22/10 11:11 AM
 

monkeybride
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Re: Just curious..

3 months but we knew that was our plan b/c we weren't that young when we got married.

Posted 10/22/10 11:11 AM
 

MayBbaby21
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Re: Just curious..

We were married about 2 1/2 years when I got pregnant. We'll be married 3 years in a few weeksChat Icon

Posted 10/22/10 11:12 AM
 

ruby
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Re: Just curious..

A month I think, a month and a half. I was already 31 when we got married so was 32 when I had DS. We had already been living together for 6 years, that plus my age, there was no reason for us to wait so we didn't. We didn't have a house yet, we lived in our 1 bdrm apt until DS was 15 months old, we were fine.

Posted 10/22/10 11:16 AM
 

TheDivineMrsM
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Re: Just curious..

18 months before we started TTC... found out two months before our two year anniversary.

Posted 10/22/10 11:16 AM
 

IheartF&M
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Re: Just curious..

1 year and 5 months.

Posted 10/22/10 11:17 AM
 

KevinNKristin8-15-08
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Re: Just curious..

I was just curious because I had people ask me "what took you so long". It kind of upset me.

Posted 10/22/10 11:17 AM
 

ruby
you rang?

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Re: Just curious..

Posted by jteach

Posted by KevinNKristin8-15-08

Posted by jteach

about 1 year 9 months. We wanted to have a house and be settled before we got preggo. We bought our house in Aug '09 and got pregnant April of '09


That makes me feel better. This is the same reason we waited.



Thats because our men are smart Chat Icon



Seriously?!?!?! I can't.....

Posted 10/22/10 11:17 AM
 

AngnShaun
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Re: Just curious..

Posted by KevinNKristin8-15-08

I was just curious because I had people ask me "what took you so long". It kind of upset me.



waiting to have a house is a legitimate reason... i dont think you should be upset by it at all...

the reason i didnt wait is because i was nervous that it was going to take a long time...

Posted 10/22/10 11:19 AM
 

ItsaJoya19
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E

Re: Just curious..

we were married 8 months. we told our families about our BFP on our 9 month "anniversary"

Posted 10/22/10 11:20 AM
 

KevinNKristin8-15-08
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Re: Just curious..

Posted by AngnShaun

Posted by KevinNKristin8-15-08

I was just curious because I had people ask me "what took you so long". It kind of upset me.



waiting to have a house is a legitimate reason... i dont think you should be upset by it at all...

the reason i didnt wait is because i was nervous that it was going to take a long time...



We didn't really wait completely for that. It's silly to think you need a house in order to have a baby. All a baby needs is love. I just wanted to be sure I was financially and emotionally ready too. But some people almost make me feel as though we did something wrong by waiting so long.

Posted 10/22/10 11:22 AM
 

MrsPJB2007
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Re: Just curious..

Posted by KevinNKristin8-15-08

I was just curious because I had people ask me "what took you so long". It kind of upset me.



People are @ssholes, plain and simple.

It is NO ONE'S farking business why you wanted to wait or if someone wanted to get preggo during the damn wedding reception. Ignore those comments. Everyone has different paths in life and things happen when they are supposed to happen.

Those jackwads who makes comments like that do not have to live your life. Only you do, so tell them then can go scratch.

Posted 10/22/10 11:22 AM
 

jteach
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Jess

Re: Just curious..

Posted by MrsPJB2007

Posted by jteach

Posted by KevinNKristin8-15-08

Posted by jteach

about 1 year 9 months. We wanted to have a house and be settled before we got preggo. We bought our house in Aug '09 and got pregnant April of '09


That makes me feel better. This is the same reason we waited.



Thats because our men are smart Chat Icon





I have to ask -- what does this mean? Chat Icon

Is it not smart to have a kid before house? Because if it is, I guess I'm stupid.

Sometimes things happen that you do not plan.

To answer the OP -- February will be 4 years married for us.






No, actually it is an inside joke because we all went to pre cana together and our DH's were in the same business Chat Icon

Posted 10/22/10 11:23 AM
 

AngnShaun
Sisters

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Ang

Re: Just curious..

Posted by KevinNKristin8-15-08

Posted by AngnShaun

Posted by KevinNKristin8-15-08

I was just curious because I had people ask me "what took you so long". It kind of upset me.



waiting to have a house is a legitimate reason... i dont think you should be upset by it at all...

the reason i didnt wait is because i was nervous that it was going to take a long time...



We didn't really wait completely for that. It's silly to think you need a house in order to have a baby. All a baby needs is love. I just wanted to be sure I was financially and emotionally ready too. But some people almost make me feel as though we did something wrong by waiting so long.



I'm going to refer you to MJ's response above this!

Posted 10/22/10 11:23 AM
 

MrsPJB2007
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Re: Just curious..

Posted by jteach


No, actually it is an inside joke because we all went to pre cana together and our DH's were in the same business Chat Icon



Roll your eyes all you want, but clearly I am not the only one who was taken aback by your statement.

Perhaps save the inside jokes for an FM - since the entire board can read if you POST IT, and the implications were obvious to others as well as myself.

Posted 10/22/10 11:25 AM
 

ABCiverson
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Re: Just curious..

We got pregnant with our first 2 days after elopingChat Icon

Posted 10/22/10 11:25 AM
 

WaterGirl
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Re: Just curious..

Posted by MrsPJB2007

Posted by KevinNKristin8-15-08

I was just curious because I had people ask me "what took you so long". It kind of upset me.



...if someone wanted to get preggo during the damn wedding reception.



Or in the limo on the way to the reception.....

Posted 10/22/10 11:25 AM
 

fujamaga
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Re: Just curious..

Posted by AngnShaun

I'm going to refer you to MJ's response above this!



Completely agree with the pp's. It's none of their business.

Posted 10/22/10 11:26 AM
 
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