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RomeyT
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Kid Birthday parties

My children just started school/daycare full time and we received out first bday party invitation. Im new to this-so what do parents typically give for parties when you don't know the child? Gift card seems like no fun. I hesitate to ask the parents because I don’t want to get locked into anything then seem like an a-hole if I get something different. Suggestions? The boy is turning 4.

Posted 9/10/21 7:33 AM
 
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Hofstra26
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Re: Kid Birthday parties

I either do a gift card or buy an age appropriate toy and include the gift receipt. It's hard to buy for a classmate, you have no idea what they have or like.

Posted 9/10/21 7:44 AM
 

FirstMate
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Re: Kid Birthday parties

For the little ones, I always buy a gift. They get very excited when they see presents. I either pick some thing that my kids play with or I will take my invitee kid to the store and let them pick out some thing.

Posted 9/10/21 8:09 AM
 

ali120206
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Re: Kid Birthday parties

Posted by FirstMate

For the little ones, I always buy a gift. They get very excited when they see presents. I either pick some thing that my kids play with or I will take my invitee kid to the store and let them pick out some thing.



This.

My kids had a lot of toys when they were that age but they always got something interesting that they didn’t have for their birthday party.

I didn’t start giftcards until they were older and only play video games lol.

Posted 9/10/21 8:11 AM
 

nycbuslady
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Kid Birthday parties

Little kids like gifts. They're too young to understand the appeal of a gift card. When my daughter was that age, I would take her with me to Target and have her pick out a gift for her friend. I would always include the gift receipt.

Posted 9/10/21 9:40 AM
 

blu6385

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Though as a parent I rather a gift card but at that age I would get an age appropriate and include a gift receipt in case they have it already or it doesn’t appeal to them!!

I usually spend are $25

My kids have been having parties for a long time and the price range of gifts vary. So really you can spend what you want.

Posted 9/10/21 11:01 AM
 

lululu
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Re: Kid Birthday parties

I find Barnes and Noble is a good place to get a gift for that age group. They have age appropriate educational toys and you can pair it up with a cute book. I typically spend around $40.

Posted 9/10/21 11:03 AM
 

MrsWoods
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Kid Birthday parties

Usually spend around $25. If 8 and younger i get a gift and attach gift receipt. Older, i do gift cards.

Posted 9/10/21 2:49 PM
 

MK2010x2
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If there are like 20 kids in the class and everyone invites the whole class - you will probably be going to parties regularly. (Not sure if it's different now because of the pandemic.)

I definitely vote gift card or present with a gift receipt. By the time a 4 year old gets to the 6th gift - they don't care anymore. It's a little insane (or a lot insane).

I go with $25.

Posted 9/10/21 7:03 PM
 

jellybean78
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Re: Kid Birthday parties

Posted by FirstMate

For the little ones, I always buy a gift. They get very excited when they see presents. I either pick some thing that my kids play with or I will take my invitee kid to the store and let them pick out some thing.



Agree. Little kids love gifts...stick to the age group and gender/what's popular and give a gift receipt.

ETA: $25-30 seems a good range to stay in

Message edited 9/11/2021 11:48:57 PM.

Posted 9/11/21 11:48 PM
 

Christine2
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Re: Kid Birthday parties

Gift card is very much appreciated. Sometimes we get so many toys/presents that it is overkill. The occasional gift card is wonderful. It is usually for Amazon, target, or B&N. Buying clothes or books is also a great gift.

Posted 9/13/21 9:24 PM
 

LuckyStar
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Kid Birthday parties

Toys for that age. You can ask the parent what they would like when you RSVP.

I always make sure to buy a gift at a brick and mortar store (ie no Amazon) with a gift receipt so the item can easily be returned without the gift giver knowing. My go to on LI was target or Barnes and noble.

Posted 9/13/21 11:40 PM
 

M514
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Kid Birthday parties

I usually buy a gift card and a little gift to go along with it.

Posted 9/14/21 7:25 AM
 
 

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