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Tulip9
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Play Date Help

Help!!

I had a boy from my DS's kindergarten class over a few weeks ago- the mom came brought fruit salad in a crystal bowl (of course she took the leftover and bowl home) and she brought me a present- she works for a high end make up company... so I know she gets the stuff cheap or maybe even free
what do I bring to our play date at her house this weekend?
A candle?? Flowers??? I was also going to bake cookies (I know her son has no allergies)
Thanks - play dates I think have to be worse than internet dating


Posted 2/16/18 12:32 PM
 

KarenK122
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Karen

Play Date Help

No need to give a gift. Bringing over cookies is fine. We usually bring a treat for the first few playdates but once the kids start playing together more frequently we stop doing that as well.

Posted 2/16/18 12:45 PM
 

drpepper318
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Re: Play Date Help

Food is great. I like to bring some yummy treats when we visit friends or go for a play date, depending on the season... like in summer I like to bring lemonade and pie, in the winter cookies and hot chocolate.. something like that. Also a small book or puzzle or something little for the kid(s). Not really necessary but just something small as a thank you for them having you over.

Posted 2/16/18 1:51 PM
 

luvmykids8
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Play Date Help

I've had so many play dates and I have never brought a gift. I will bring a treat though but not an actual gift.

Posted 2/16/18 1:56 PM
 

MrsT809
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Play Date Help

Agree with the others. Bring a snack, skip the gift.

Posted 2/16/18 2:02 PM
 

b2b777
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Play Date Help

I usually bring munchkins ;)

Posted 2/20/18 11:42 AM
 

Katareen
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Katherine

Play Date Help

A gift?? That seems ridiculous and would make me totally uncomfortable. I agree with pp and would bring munchkins, mini muffins, etc.

Posted 2/20/18 8:22 PM
 

PregowithTwins
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Play Date Help

No gifts......just bring a treat.

Posted 3/12/18 9:26 PM
 

hmm
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Play Date Help

why are people bring treats to peoples homes for play dates? I dont remember that when I was a kid. Seem odd to me

Posted 3/12/18 10:34 PM
 

M514
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Play Date Help

If I’m staying for thenplaydate then I usually bring something for everyone to snack on like fruit, cookies or munchkins. If I’m just dropping off, then I won’t bring anything.

Posted 3/13/18 8:00 AM
 

StaceyLu
LIF Adolescent

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Play Date Help

I don't think I've ever had anyone bring anything but munchkins to a play date.

Posted 3/14/18 5:42 PM
 

Laura1976

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Laura

Re: Play Date Help

no gift necessary! cookies or fruit

Posted 3/15/18 10:45 AM
 

Disneygirl17
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Re: Play Date Help

Posted by luvmykids8

I've had so many play dates and I have never brought a gift. I will bring a treat though but not an actual gift.



Same. Nor do I expect one when we have play dates here

Posted 3/15/18 12:59 PM
 

Adri
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Re: Play Date Help

I never gave or got gifts. Just a couple of times I sent DS with cookies, but that was when the play date was a 'favor' because I needed to do something (although I hosted some of those and didn't expect anything); or when it was an impromptu playdate and I knew the parent was hosting more than 3 kids in the house.

Posted 3/16/18 5:55 PM
 
 

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