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Question about grandparents.

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MrsS2005
Mom of 3

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B

Re: Question about grandparents.

ILs don't watch them, but my parents would never ask for or take money. If we have something like a wedding, they'll drive 2.5 hours to our home just to babysit and spend time with DS. SIL and BIL will also drive an hour to our home just to babysit and see DS. They wouldn't ask for or accept money.

Posted 6/10/09 10:50 AM
 
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Sassyz75
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Member since 5/05

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Name:
Dina

Re: Question about grandparents.

my parents? never in a million years
My MIL? she would absolutely take it.

Posted 6/10/09 10:55 AM
 

Kate
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Kate

Re: Question about grandparents.

I have offered my mother many times, but she always refuses. I think she feels that if I pay her, she has to do things my way. Chat Icon

Posted 6/10/09 10:56 AM
 

saraH
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I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...

Re: Question about grandparents.

I don't think either side would accept money from us.

Posted 6/10/09 10:56 AM
 

-Lisa-
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Lisa

Re: Question about grandparents.

I've never offered but I know they wouldn't take it. My parents watched my kids when I went to Barcelona for 4 days. I gave little gifts as a thank you, but no money.

They had an affair to go to one night while I was away so I had my babysitter at their house. My mom wanted to pay her! I didn't allow that - I paid the babysitter.

Posted 6/10/09 11:12 AM
 

Goobster
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Re: Question about grandparents.

Posted by want2beamom

Posted by LoveBeingMrsT

never but they would probably pay us to leave our ds' with them!




here too!!!Chat Icon



Same here. My ILs would pay FOR Us to go so they could get DD into their hands for a day let alone a weekend.

Posted 6/10/09 11:21 AM
 

karacg
Babygirl is 4!

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Kara®

Re: Question about grandparents.

No but both gransmothers are in their 80s so it would never happen anyway.

My sister however would accept and expect $ - and she is 47.

Posted 6/10/09 11:23 AM
 

junebride06
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Robin

Re: Question about grandparents.

never!!! Chat Icon

Posted 6/10/09 11:32 AM
 

Nik211
my little monkey<3

Member since 5/08

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Name:
Nik

Re: Question about grandparents.

i dont have kids yet but i think my mom might accept money Chat Icon...

$200 for 5 days isn't bad - plus you offered....and like others said, if you offer you kind of have to expect them to take it....

i know my mom might look for money to feed the kid and for any other expense she might have while babysitting - that way it isn't costing her any money out of her pocket...i could be wrong but that is how i think my parents will be Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/10/09 11:42 AM
 

SweetTooth
I'm a tired mommy!

Member since 12/05

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Name:
Lauren

Re: Question about grandparents.

Never! They would be beside themselves with joy if I left them with them for that long!

Posted 6/10/09 11:44 AM
 
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