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To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

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Onemoretime
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Re: To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

He probably has dementia, because I can NOT fathom a person of sound mind saying something so offensive Chat Icon

Posted 6/10/13 9:06 PM
 
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StarsStripes
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Re: To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

Now that was completely ****** Chat Icon

Posted 6/10/13 9:12 PM
 

saraH
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I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...

Re: To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

There is no excusing his behavior. Some people are just ass holes! That's it, no medical reason other then he's straight up an asshole. Good for you for standing up to him. He is a piece of shit.

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Posted 6/10/13 9:45 PM
 

LoveBug302
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Re: To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

I cannot stand people like that. Ugh. People just have no idea. I hope your dad gets better soon. XO

Posted 6/10/13 9:45 PM
 

shutterbug855
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To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

What a jerk! Glad you told him off.

Posted 6/10/13 10:05 PM
 

Naner325
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Re: To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

I am so sorry that happened to you. Having spoken to you plenty of times, I know that you are a sweet and genuine person and he was clearly just a dik. No matter what someone weighs, does not define them as a person so please do not let this man's ridiculous remarks get you down. You were far more kind with your response than I would have been.

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Posted 6/10/13 10:17 PM
 

moonmist09
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To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

I don't understand how anyone can have the audacity to say that to a complete stranger!

Posted 6/10/13 10:29 PM
 

skip123
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Re: To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

Some people really really SUCK and I am SO sorry that happened to you...Good for you for telling him off...too many people just think they can give their opinions unsolicited without thought...

Many prayers for your parents and many hugs for you....

Posted 6/10/13 11:00 PM
 

summerBaby10
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Re: To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

People are so rude!
Don't give that jerk a second thought.

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Posted 6/10/13 11:51 PM
 

missus-hbradio
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Posted 6/11/13 12:40 AM
 

gina409
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Re: To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

Posted by saraH

There is no excusing his behavior. Some people are just ass holes! That's it, no medical reason other then he's straight up an asshole. Good for you for standing up to him. He is a piece of shit.

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this

i am so sorry he said that..people are so awful

Posted 6/11/13 12:50 AM
 

Hope2009
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Re: To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

wow, what a piece of work he is. So sorry you had to go through that. ... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/11/13 5:46 AM
 

juanvi
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Re: To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

I am so sorry he was a jerk to you. Nobody has the right to make someone feel bad.Chat Icon and prayers for your parentsChat Icon

Posted 6/11/13 6:29 AM
 

Kitten1929
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To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

Making excuses for his behavior is so typical of LIF. He's a piece of shit, end of story, no two ways about it. I'm so sorry that happened.

Posted 6/11/13 7:38 AM
 

TwinDani
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To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

I am sorry that happened to you. That happened to me once in a pizza place, I had ordered for my sister and I and some guy had the nerve to say I was ordering too much and to lay off the pizza with my weight problems. I was so upset so I know how it feels. I said something back to him too and he just walked away.

Many prayers to your parents.

Posted 6/11/13 8:01 AM
 

Pray4Baby2010
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To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

omg I am so sorry, I want to go find him and punch him for you. Lots of prayers for both your parents and you going through all of this.

Posted 6/11/13 8:03 AM
 

Cacarina
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Re: To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

Sorry he hurt you. That was really awful.

Maybe he is losing his mind...old people sometimes just say whatever is on their minds - especially if they have alzheimers or dimentia.

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Posted 6/11/13 8:36 AM
 

MsSissy
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Re: To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

Some people just suck. Plain and simple. And he's one of them.

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Posted 6/11/13 8:40 AM
 

Nifheim
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To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

it's happened to me where complete strangers make comments on what food i put in my shopping cart to what food i buy, it's the judgement that kills you. You feel so judged when you eat in public that you don't eat out. you just take out and eat in your car or at home because of fear. I laugh when people post about how people should just stop eating or maybe work out a little. They don't take into account what is going on in your life. Never do they think the hell you might be in or even the fact of how horrible the words (even though they may mean the best) hurt you.

Posted 6/11/13 8:53 AM
 

AngnShaun
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Re: To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

wow!! what a complete ass hole!!!

Posted 6/11/13 9:03 AM
 

peanutbutter2
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Re: To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

Posted by Nifheim

it's happened to me where complete strangers make comments on what food i put in my shopping cart to what food i buy, it's the judgement that kills you. You feel so judged when you eat in public that you don't eat out. you just take out and eat in your car or at home because of fear. I laugh when people post about how people should just stop eating or maybe work out a little. They don't take into account what is going on in your life. Never do they think the hell you might be in or even the fact of how horrible the words (even though they may mean the best) hurt you.



I think this is a very good point.

No one is perfect. However, when one of your imperfections is your weight, it's out there for the world to see.

People who criticize those based on exterior factors seem to forget that they have their own faults. These faults are just hidden. If they wore them on their bodies, they would be judged as well.

Posted 6/11/13 9:07 AM
 

NervousNell
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Re: To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

Posted by Nifheim

I laugh when people post about how people should just stop eating or maybe work out a little. They don't take into account what is going on in your life. Never do they think the hell you might be in or even the fact of how horrible the words (even though they may mean the best) hurt you.



Exactly. Also, sometimes diet and exercise don't work for everyone- or don't work quickly and easily.
My DH eats less than I do, watches everything he puts in his mouth, and works out all the time- yet he still struggles with his weight.
He has metabolism issues that are genetic and they are not easy to overcome.
You don't know when looking at a stranger- just what is going on- so how dare anyone make comments like that!

Posted 6/11/13 9:15 AM
 

Pomegranate5
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Re: To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

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Honestly, he sounds like a nut. I don't blame you for rebutting but try not to take it to heart so much. He sounds like a lunatic. Who does that?Chat Icon Sorry you are having such a rough time.Chat Icon



I agree with all of this.

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ETA - I'm floored by how many complete strangers have commented on others weight. I just can't even believe it. Chat Icon

Message edited 6/11/2013 9:48:01 AM.

Posted 6/11/13 9:45 AM
 

Jenhos
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Re: To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

People should mind their own business!!!
Don't let some loon be the reason you are sad. Chalk it up to him being crazy.

Posted 6/11/13 9:47 AM
 

PaddysGirl
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To the asshole at Oceanside Dunkin Donuts, I meant what I said.

What an ass. I am so sorry this happened. :(

Posted 6/11/13 10:01 AM
 
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