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um, wow... inappropriate text message (or am I overly sensitive?)

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Tabitha

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Re: um, wow... inappropriate text message (or am I overly sensitive?)

Posted by imthecindyofcindyandkevin

Hmmmm, I wouldn't be offended tho I certainly see where it's inappropriate in a mass forward. I get that it's a joke, tho I personally wouldn't find it funny and wouldn't pass it on. I'd just shrug my shoulders and maybe roll my eyes, but I wouldn't get my panties in a bunch or anything. Chat Icon

ETA: "Retarded" isn't a bad word, it's just been given a negative connotation over the years by people using it in poor taste. Retard=slow. So if someone is said to be mentally retarded it means that they are slow. I'm sure many of you have heard of the AHRC, the Association for the Help of Retarded Children. Used in proper context it's a perfectly acceptable word.




i agree with all of this. it was in bad taste to send, but i wouldnt be offended.

Posted 5/14/08 8:20 PM
 
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rojerono
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Re: um, wow... inappropriate text message (or am I overly sensitive?)

Posted by carolinep24

To be completely honest, I wouldn't have been offended if it unless it was someone I barely knew..

Personally, I would be offended because the joke was sub par..... appropriate or not...

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ITA

Posted 5/14/08 8:29 PM
 

hunnybunnyxoxo
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Re: um, wow... inappropriate text message (or am I overly sensitive?)

omg! i would be ****** and i normally find everything humorous!
that is very offensive and mean spirited.

Posted 5/15/08 12:11 PM
 

SPECIALNEEDSMOMMY
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Re: um, wow... inappropriate text message (or am I overly sensitive?)

Your friend ... acquaintance ... whoever it was that sent this ... is an idiot! As a Mom of a special needs child, I take offense to anyone using the word "retard." As for reference to the helmet ... they save children's lives. My son's specifically ... on a number of occassions! All I can say is IDIOT! People should READ THINGS before forwarding them on.

Posted 5/15/08 12:18 PM
 

betty
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Re: um, wow... inappropriate text message (or am I overly sensitive?)

I don't think I'd be offended personally but I would (and DO) think the person is an IDIOTChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/15/08 12:35 PM
 

LIMOMx2
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Re: um, wow... inappropriate text message (or am I overly sensitive?)

I wouldn't be offended by it at all.

Posted 5/15/08 12:38 PM
 

2BEANS
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Re: um, wow... inappropriate text message (or am I overly sensitive?)

Chat Icon wow.. I really hope someone who does have a mentally disabled family member doesnt get that message. Very inappropiate.

Posted 5/15/08 12:40 PM
 

Jesaroo
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Re: um, wow... inappropriate text message (or am I overly sensitive?)

i personally think its funny. im gonna send that to my friend now actually.
BUT.... since she is no longet a good friend id be like HUH?
i prbably wouldnt take it too personally though, especially if you think it went to her whole contact list

Posted 5/15/08 12:40 PM
 

GioiaMia
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Re: um, wow... inappropriate text message (or am I overly sensitive?)

I just think that few people understand how hurtful the word can be. I cringe when I hear it - but other people use it in daily conversation.

Posted 5/15/08 12:44 PM
 

Diane
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Re: um, wow... inappropriate text message (or am I overly sensitive?)

Posted by Tany

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totally inappropiate and offensive imoChat Icon Chat Icon



I agree

Posted 5/15/08 12:49 PM
 

DaniJude
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Re: um, wow... inappropriate text message (or am I overly sensitive?)

geez that's not even funny.

and i have a "sicker" sense of humor sometimes but at least make the inappropriate joke FUNNY! ugh - i would be like Chat Icon and Chat Icon too!

Posted 5/15/08 1:06 PM
 

FeliciaDP

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Re: um, wow... inappropriate text message (or am I overly sensitive?)

Posted by smdl

I don't think it's inappropriate. I just think it's bad humor!


totally agree

Posted 5/15/08 1:11 PM
 

partyof6
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Re: um, wow... inappropriate text message (or am I overly sensitive?)

its wrong wrong wrong!
I get stupid messages texted to me from some company--I keepasking them to remove it---
the last straw was the one that said" are your parents retarded because u are special"
***???????????????/

Posted 5/15/08 2:11 PM
 

MommaToBe
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Re: um, wow... inappropriate text message (or am I overly sensitive?)

not appropriate. your friend needs to grow up.

Posted 5/30/08 10:55 PM
 

Shanti
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Re: um, wow... inappropriate text message (or am I overly sensitive?)

Way inappropriate!

Posted 5/31/08 10:17 AM
 

janet
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Re: um, wow... inappropriate text message (or am I overly sensitive?)

100% WRONG IN EVERYWAY!!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon it's a good thing i do not work with her and did not get this text.. there would be words saidChat Icon

Posted 6/1/08 3:24 AM
 

kms717
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Re: um, wow... inappropriate text message (or am I overly sensitive?)

Posted by melbalalala

Is your friend 12? I've never heard an adult make that kind of joke....



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Agreed!

Posted 6/1/08 9:00 AM
 

MichLiz213
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Re: um, wow... inappropriate text message (or am I overly sensitive?)

I would take offense but I have a brother with autism, so I'm easily offended when it comes to that word.

Posted 6/1/08 9:12 AM
 

dee63nyc
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Re: um, wow... inappropriate text message (or am I overly sensitive?)

I've been working with the developmentally disabled (i.e. mentally retarded) for about 20 years. I don't take offense to the message or take it personally, but I think it's in poor taste. It annoys me when people make jokes about the disabled, but I usually just take it where it comes from and let it go.

Posted 6/1/08 2:39 PM
 
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