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Is your son circumcised?

Forum Opinion Poll
Yes. (Please share the reason why you chose to do this, if comfortable) 42 79.25%
No. (Please share the reason you chose not to do it, if comfortable) 11 20.75%
 

Very Personal Poll: Circumcision Related

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Grill
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Member since 4/09

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J

Very Personal Poll: Circumcision Related

If preggo and reading this, please feel free to answer based on what you will do. Too many choices!!!! Thanks so much ladies.

Posted 10/5/09 10:27 AM
 

headoverheels
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Member since 6/07

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Name:
LB

Re: Very Personal Poll: Circumcision Related

yes, he is. i let my DH make the decision. he chose to have him circumcised because he is as well. i have no problem with it either way.

Posted 10/5/09 10:30 AM
 

neener1211
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J

Re: Very Personal Poll: Circumcision Related

Posted by headoverheels

yes, he is. i let my DH make the decision. he chose to have him circumcised because he is as well. i have no problem with it either way.



Same and same exact reason.

Posted 10/5/09 10:31 AM
 

jerseypanda
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Member since 1/07

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Amanda

Re: Very Personal Poll: Circumcision Related

Posted by headoverheels

yes, he is. i let my DH make the decision. he chose to have him circumcised because he is as well. i have no problem with it either way.



Same here with us. I let DH make this choice because I felt it was more personal to him. And since DH is circumcised, DH chose to have DS circumcised.

If Chat Icon is also a boy, we will get him circumcised as well.

Posted 10/5/09 10:33 AM
 

Diane
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D

Re: Very Personal Poll: Circumcision Related

Posted by headoverheels

yes, he is. i let my DH make the decision. he chose to have him circumcised because he is as well. i have no problem with it either way.



ditto

Posted 10/5/09 10:36 AM
 

Kidsaplenty
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Stephanie

Re: Very Personal Poll: Circumcision Related

No, we didn't do it with either of my boys, for several reasons.

We don't feel the medical benefits outweigh the risks. We felt like putting our sons through that kind of pain for no medical reason was unnecessary, and that unless it was a medical emergency our sons should keep all of their private parts unless they decided to change them.

Cleanliness isn't an issue, and the rates are 50/50 so there is no issue IMO

Posted 10/5/09 10:40 AM
 

MrsR
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Jennifer

Re: Very Personal Poll: Circumcision Related

yes, for religious reasons mostly - but I would have done it either way.

I have to say my DS didn't feel anything at the Bris, didn't cry at all, and never cried from pain afterwards. It was almost healed in 2-3 days and was much easier on everyone then I thought it was going to be! It took longer for his belly button to fall off than to heal from the bris!!

Posted 10/5/09 10:42 AM
 

SweetTooth
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Member since 12/05

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Lauren

Re: Very Personal Poll: Circumcision Related

Posted by Diane

Posted by headoverheels

yes, he is. i let my DH make the decision. he chose to have him circumcised because he is as well. i have no problem with it either way.



ditto



same for me

and there have been recent studies that say that men who are circumcised have a lower risk of STDs.

Posted 10/5/09 10:52 AM
 

EricaAlt
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Member since 7/08

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Name:
Erica

Re: Very Personal Poll: Circumcision Related

Posted by MrsR

yes, for religious reasons mostly - but I would have done it either way.




Same here... we did it for our religion, but I would've done it anyway. He was fine at the Bris. He cried, but that was as soon as they took his clothes off. Healed well too and of course they can't remember it.

Posted 10/5/09 10:55 AM
 

Stefanie

Member since 5/05

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Stefanie

Re: Very Personal Poll: Circumcision Related

Dh said he wants it done. I agreed.

Posted 10/5/09 10:56 AM
 

LeShellem
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Member since 2/07

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Name:
LeShelle

Re: Very Personal Poll: Circumcision Related

no he isn't. DH chose. He's not circumcised so DS isn't as well.

Posted 10/5/09 10:56 AM
 

JerseyMamaOf3
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Re: Very Personal Poll: Circumcision Related

Posted by greeneyes361708

No, we didn't do it with either of my boys, for several reasons.

We don't feel the medical benefits outweigh the risks. We felt like putting our sons through that kind of pain for no medical reason was unnecessary, and that unless it was a medical emergency our sons should keep all of their private parts unless they decided to change them.

Cleanliness isn't an issue, and the rates are 50/50 so there is no issue IMO



This was my reasoning too.

I did leave the decision up to DH since we knew we were having a boy but he couldn't decide ( I wasn't for it but DH is circumcised). I was finally in labor and the nurse asked us what we were doing and he said he didn't know and that I should decide so I did. I don't regret it all.

Another reason that I opted out of it is the possibility of re-attaching and then having to go through it again.

Posted 10/5/09 10:58 AM
 

Michelle1123
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Re: Very Personal Poll: Circumcision Related

Yes we circumsized my son. In all honesty, I didnt research it much and we just did it because all the men in the family are. If we have another boy (I'm preggo with #3) we will do it. I'm far more educated this time around, but I'm mainly doing it because I would want him to "look like" his brother and father so he doesnt feel weird.

Posted 10/5/09 11:01 AM
 

MrsMaz
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Re: Very Personal Poll: Circumcision Related

Posted by greeneyes361708

No, we didn't do it with either of my boys, for several reasons.

We don't feel the medical benefits outweigh the risks. We felt like putting our sons through that kind of pain for no medical reason was unnecessary, and that unless it was a medical emergency our sons should keep all of their private parts unless they decided to change them.

Cleanliness isn't an issue, and the rates are 50/50 so there is no issue IMO



Same here

Posted 10/5/09 11:02 AM
 

DomesticDeeva
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Member since 11/08

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Name:
Dee

Re: Very Personal Poll: Circumcision Related

Posted by headoverheels

yes, he is. i let my DH make the decision. he chose to have him circumcised because he is as well.





Same here, however it partially reattached, and the dr. that did it in the hospital actually left extra foreskin, so now it has to be redone, and that upsets me. So if I have another Chat Icon I probably won't do it.

Posted 10/5/09 11:08 AM
 

NinaLemon
It's a boy!!!

Member since 10/07

6453 total posts

Name:
Jeannine

Re: Very Personal Poll: Circumcision Related

Posted by headoverheels

yes, he is. i let my DH make the decision. he chose to have him circumcised because he is as well. i have no problem with it either way.



Same here, I figured he has the parts, leave it up to him.

Posted 10/5/09 11:15 AM
 

Charly
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Re: Very Personal Poll: Circumcision Related

Posted by neener1211

Posted by headoverheels

yes, he is. i let my DH make the decision. he chose to have him circumcised because he is as well. i have no problem with it either way.



Same and same exact reason.



same here.

Posted 10/5/09 11:17 AM
 

Janice
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Member since 5/05

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Name:
Janice

Re: Very Personal Poll: Circumcision Related

no, dh's isn't done, he's never had an issue.

never an infection, never been turned down, never made fun of in a locker room.

dh's nephew was circumcised, he is 2 years older then our boy. his father wanted it done...it was a botched job, too much cut off...had to have 2 corrective surgeries to keep it from growing tight. that sealed the deal for me.

i believe its a pleasure point as well. dh said it wasn't up to us to take his love glove away...he can do it one day if he wants to.

i know people always have an uncle or a friends cousin with an uncomfortable tale...but for dh's family, nothing like that has ever happened. 6 uncles, over 20 males cousins, now a new generation of boys. I am sure it does happen, but i don't think as much as people think.

I had a ped from India tell me that uncut is so much easier to care for and much less of a problem then cut.

Posted 10/5/09 11:25 AM
 

mooshyboo
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Member since 11/07

6297 total posts

Name:
Christine

Re: Very Personal Poll: Circumcision Related

Posted by headoverheels

yes, he is. i let my DH make the decision. he chose to have him circumcised because he is as well. i have no problem with it either way.



same here

Posted 10/5/09 11:25 AM
 
 

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