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Why is bereavement time only 3 days?

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HeatherRose
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Re: Why is bereavement time only 3 days?

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon i'm sorry you have to go through all this...

DH's job gives you no time at all!! if you want it you have to take your personal vaca timeChat Icon

Posted 2/27/08 8:19 PM
 
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saraH
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Re: Why is bereavement time only 3 days?

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The job I had when my grandma died gave one day. I thought that was ridiculous.

Posted 2/27/08 9:10 PM
 

lbelle821
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Re: Why is bereavement time only 3 days?

3 days is so unfair for the loss of a parent. My job has 5 days for parent, in-law, brother or sister. 3 for grandparent. 1 for aunt, uncle, cousin. It seems fair on the surface but it is unfair to assume that someone may regard an aunt very highly and one day would never be enough. That having been said as a manager if an employee lost a parent I'd probably extend it on my own and work out making up the time later.

Posted 2/27/08 9:57 PM
 

DaniJude
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Re: Why is bereavement time only 3 days?

my sister's job is a week for a parent. Chat Icon

Posted 2/27/08 10:14 PM
 

JenG
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Re: Why is bereavement time only 3 days?

i'm so sorry for you and your family....
and yes, 3 days stinks Chat Icon

Posted 2/27/08 10:18 PM
 

pinkiegirl

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Re: Why is bereavement time only 3 days?

I'm so sorry for your loss
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Posted 2/28/08 12:22 PM
 

LBG30
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Re: Why is bereavement time only 3 days?

So sorry your job is giving you a hard time-that's horrible!
I was thankful that when my dad passed my job was wonderful-they gave me as much time before his passing and after that i needed..with full pay!

Posted 2/28/08 12:36 PM
 

JP826
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I am so sorry to hear this Chat Icon Chat Icon

I agree with you 100%

Posted 2/28/08 1:18 PM
 

MadDogMrsT
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Re: Why is bereavement time only 3 days?

I am so sorry for your loss. The company I worked for when my brother died had the same policy, but they never pushed it. I was out for a week and a half and I was paid for all of it. When I asked I was told the principal of the company over-rode policy for me. I was so greatful to him for that.

Posted 2/28/08 1:28 PM
 

luckystars3
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Re: Why is bereavement time only 3 days?

Sorry to hear about your dad. My company is the same 3 days. I dont think its enough time. A week atleast.

Posted 2/28/08 1:41 PM
 

Blu-ize
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so sorry to hear this..Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/28/08 2:21 PM
 

imagin916
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Re: Why is bereavement time only 3 days?

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Its ridiculous!

When my mom passed I took my 3 days off. My job asked me for DOCUMENTATION of the death when I returned to work.
My friggin pricipal came to the wake!!
I still had to bring in a copy of the funeral info.
It was insluting and crass.

I'm sorry for your loss.



I had to do the same thing for my grandfather's funeral. I had to get a copy of the death certificate and a copy of my plane ticket to prove to them that I wasnt going on vacation in Florida Chat Icon It is insulting. They give us 3 days, but they arranged my schedule so I could have 5 days off.

I think it really is insulting to ask a bereaved person for a copy of a death certificate.

Posted 2/28/08 2:28 PM
 

IrishTracy
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Re: Why is bereavement time only 3 days?

Posted by Niblet

Its ridiculous!

When my mom passed I took my 3 days off. My job asked me for DOCUMENTATION of the death when I returned to work.
My friggin pricipal came to the wake!!
I still had to bring in a copy of the funeral info.
It was insluting and crass.

I'm sorry for your loss.


My brother had to do this as well. I couldn't believe it.

Posted 2/28/08 4:11 PM
 
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