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Deenintendo
LIF Adolescent
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the hits keep coming
so i just need to vent this...i had a miscarriage 6 weeks ago and three days after that i found out my good friend was pregnant (who isnt married and is not in a great relationship) and today my mom comes over to tell my sister is pregnant....it just sucks so bad all i can think of it should have been me....and waiting for two full cycles is the worst so we can start trying again....thanks for letting me vent
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Posted 10/2/11 5:18 PM  |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
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Ang
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Re: the hits keep coming
i know exactly how you feel...
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| Posted 10/2/11 5:41 PM |
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LoveBug302
Baby Girl #2 is Here!
Member since 7/11 1652 total posts
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Re: the hits keep coming
i know how you feel ! your day will come soon , hang in there
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| Posted 10/2/11 6:04 PM |
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StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!
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Stacey
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Re: the hits keep coming
I was there too. After my mc, my sister found out she was pregnant and it killed me. On one hand, I was soooo happy for her, and the other hand, I was soooo sad for me.
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| Posted 10/2/11 6:29 PM |
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cateyemm
Twins!
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Re: the hits keep coming
i know exactly how you feel
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| Posted 10/2/11 7:43 PM |
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| Posted 10/2/11 10:27 PM |
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Megs4
LIF Adult
Member since 11/08 1619 total posts
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Megan
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Re: the hits keep coming
Right there with you. It's babypalooza in all aspects of my life, family, friends, work...
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| Posted 10/3/11 9:47 AM |
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NYchic
Girl & boy
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Re: the hits keep coming
UGH that sucks! I know you want to just be happy for people but it is SO hard!!!
I know my SIL is going to be pregnant any second and I know it will kill me. I feel horrible thinking it will kill me but it just will. We go to the same OB - it's just going to suck big time. We had our 1sts around the same time...my DD is 3 mos older than her DS. I guess I wanted to be first again 2nd time around too...sounds so selfish of me but it's just how I feel. She's also much younger than me...I don't know - I just know it's going to bother me and I already feel awful about it and why can't I just be happy for her.
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| Posted 10/3/11 11:36 AM |
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jacksmom09
LIF Adolescent
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Re: the hits keep coming
I understand how you feel.. hang in there and many hugs!!!
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| Posted 10/3/11 5:51 PM |
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MrsBeach
LIF Infant
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Re: the hits keep coming
Posted by LoveBug302
i know how you feel ! your day will come soon , hang in there
Couldn't have said it better!
I know it sucks! But will be worth it when it happens!
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| Posted 10/3/11 6:59 PM |
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Deenintendo
LIF Adolescent
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Re: the hits keep coming
thanks everyone....i know my time will come too but its just so frustrating...im glad we all have a place to turn to for support...my husband is a wonderful man but when it comes to all this he's emotionless and he dosnt want to say to the wrong thing so he says nothing (which irritates the hell out of me)....thank you again ladies
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| Posted 10/3/11 7:14 PM |
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MrsBeach
LIF Infant
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Re: the hits keep coming
DH tells me I can't be jealous and it will happen for us.... he says it's going to happen. And I know he is right. He just doesn't understand how hard it is. He hasn't wanted it for years and he isn't the one who can't get pregnant... or hold onto a baby...
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| Posted 10/4/11 10:49 PM |
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luvmyReese
Hello Kitty
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Re: the hits keep coming
Posted by Deenintendo
thanks everyone....i know my time will come too but its just so frustrating...im glad we all have a place to turn to for support...my husband is a wonderful man but when it comes to all this he's emotionless and he dosnt want to say to the wrong thing so he says nothing (which irritates the hell out of me)....thank you again ladies
My boyfriend is/was the same. He is awesome but when it comes to words he struggles. I know he feels sad and disappointed but no where near the level I was. Try to be strong and as each day passes it gets a lil better. I noticed EVERY pregnant lady out there after my loss..I was dazed in thoughts. But Im better now, its been 3.5 weeks since. I hope you get stronger with each day...I did & I look forward to trying again.
Good Luck to you and your husband.
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| Posted 10/5/11 9:05 AM |
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beachgirl
LIF Adult
Member since 7/05 7967 total posts
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sara
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Re: the hits keep coming
I am so sorry, that has to be so hard for you to bear right now
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| Posted 10/5/11 9:55 PM |
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MrsKelly
just hangin' around...
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Re: the hits keep coming
im so sorry unfortunately i think this always seems to happen - when we want something so badly, it seems as if the world around us gets it, and we don't. i know it seems like time is standing still right now for you, waiting to try again. but your time WILL come, i am sure of it 
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| Posted 10/7/11 3:42 PM |
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