I'm in charge of the finances in the house, it's actually DH who has to ask me for money. I have all the debit cards, checkbooks and any bank related matter.

I do work part time and still have my own bank account and savings account as well as our joint account.

DH leaves it all up to me so I'm in charge of out budget and keeping everything on track. DH gets tips from his job so that's the money he lives on during the week.