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Does anyone know if DH allowed overnight at NSUH?
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esquire
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Re: Does anyone know if DH allowed overnight at NSUH?
Posted by JennChris
I think that jumping at everyone and getting so defensive was totally uncalled for.. you are on a public forum if you ask a question, you are going to get opinions, take em or leave em.
That said, I really hope that I don't have such an inconsiderate roomate. Regardless if you want him there or not, if you are sharing a room with someone you can't be so selfish... all the women recovering from childbirth have been through alot and need peace and quiet to bond with their baby and recover and having extra people in the room doesn't help that... Just having a roomate and another baby in the room is hard enough.. everytime I would fall asleep my roomates baby would wake up and vice versa, it's difficult as it is.
Perhaps you should consider a home birth.
Firstly, its called SARCASM. My dog???? Common - have a laugh!! Just trying to invoke some humor into this crazy thread.
Lastly, I asked a question about PROCEDURE at North Shore, and what I got was a buch of responses from girls telling me I am insensitive.
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Posted 1/12/07 12:02 PM  |
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esquire
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Re: Does anyone know if DH allowed overnight at NSUH?
Posted by Ambersmom
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Posted by jana
Posted by esquire
Speaking about insensitive...I believe that you and Teresa were both insensitive in not understanding why I would want my DH there while I recover in pain with a newborn on my hands.
Just curious...what would have happened if we were roommates?? 
Maybe you won't have pain, once labor is over- pretty much the bulk of the pain is over too. Its not as tramatic as you are imagining,I've done it twice.
You are misunderstanding us..both Theresa and I agree you should have your DH with you for the full 2 days you are in the hospital ( 5 days if c-section) but you should also then get a private room. Doesn't your DH plan to shower in the 2,3 or 5 days you'll be at NSUH? On the bathroom door it says "for patients only".
If we were roommates what would happen?? Nothing. Hope you would enjoy my DH's extremely loud snoring while you are "in pain and recovering".
Bottom line, NSUH allows it, you should check with your roomate first & best bet- cough up the $$ money for a private room.
Now that I think about it, I believe the real reason you disagree with me is because deep down you really want your DH there, but perhaps yours won't stay the night...so you're making excuses for him.
Also, about the showering...thanks for spelling it out so clearly. My point is that he'll stay for the night. He's not going to build a campfire and roast marshmellows.
Here's my plan...My mom, dad, brother and sister in law will hang out during the day. My best friends Amanda, Jessica, Jordan and Janice will hang out in the late afternoon, and then my brother and his frat brothers will stay till closing time.
I'm also contacting NSUH to see if I could bring my chocolate lab - Charley. He has his own bed. What do you think, will they allow that? 
Does anyone else think this chick is a troll looking to cause confrontation? If she's not, then WOW Obnoxious much???
What is the definition of TROLL?
Have a laugh, its was a joke.
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| Posted 1/12/07 12:04 PM |
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Porrruss
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Re: Does anyone know if DH allowed overnight at NSUH?
Posted by esquire
Have a laugh, its was a joke.
I love when people say something offensive then when it falls flat, they put it on the listener by claiming "it was a joke".
No, it was not a joke- it was you being sarcastic- totally different genres.
Let me recap:
You asked for procedures at NSUH,
someone said "no overnight guests"
then people mentioned there were "ways around the procedures",
someone pointed out why "going around procedures" might not be fair to potential roommates
then you flip out like someone was attacking you, which was not the case
Please go back and reread your posts regarding this topic- no one attacked you, however, you were nasty and incredibly impolite by making personal attacks......
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| Posted 1/12/07 12:31 PM |
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