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Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

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NervousNell
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Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

Or do you do this yourself too?

It seems to happen every single year- no matter where I work.

Someone will get flowers from their DH or boyfriend for Valentine's Day.
Then they will rant on and on about how they are going to kill him. How they TOLD him not to send flowers. How flowers are such a waste.

I don't know- I am not a big fan of the holiday either. And yes, flowers are a waste. Yes, they die. Yes they are overpriced at this time of year.
But when my DH sends them I still appreciate them. I appreciate the thought.
I wouldn't call him up and yell at him...to me, that's just mean.
I am assuming that he, as an adult, can make an adult decision if we can afford them or not and if he decides we can afford the splurge, so be it.

I don't know...it just kind of bothered me today when this woman got a gorgeous arrangements and started flipping out on her DH about it.
I wanted to tell her to shut up and enjoy them!

Posted 2/14/11 11:21 AM
 
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LightUpOurLife
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

Posted by NervousNell
I wanted to tell her to shut up and enjoy them!


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Posted 2/14/11 11:27 AM
 

greenfreak
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

Typically I hear this with people who are looking for attention. Bragging disguised as b*tching kind of thing.

If my husband sends me flowers, I say thank you to people who notice and comment on them. That's it. I appreciate the gesture and tell (and show) my husband my appreciation. Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/11 11:28 AM
 

PearlJamChick
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

Yup, happens here. It's all a cry for attention...she just wants people to notice the effing flowers.

I think the one here sends them to herself and then rants about it! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/11 11:29 AM
 

JessInCA
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

There's always one...

Posted 2/14/11 11:29 AM
 

MrsS6510
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

I haven't seen that much around here. DH sent me flowers on Friday here to my office and I was stunned. I had NO idea he was sending them and was so excited. However, I did make a comment that he wasn't completely thinking because the flowers were addressed to my maiden name Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/11 11:29 AM
 

Nifheim
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

so far no one has had flowers delivered to them in the 5 years i have worked here but if i got flowers i would be so freaking happy.

Posted 2/14/11 11:30 AM
 

Mommy2Boys
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

DH and my two boys brought me flowers today at work. I didnt b*tch about it Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/11 11:36 AM
 

Beth
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

she is the same girl that would ***** all day if she got nothing

Posted 2/14/11 11:47 AM
 

waterspout4
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

If she doesn't want them, just take them from her. They will just die anyway. Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/11 11:49 AM
 

GioiaMia
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

LOL I can honestly say I have never for a second even THOUGHT "Oh he shouldn't have"

Yes he should have and so glad that he did!!

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We can't really get flowers here, its a whole big deal b/c its a government building but I wish we could!!!!

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Posted 2/14/11 11:50 AM
 

fight the future
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

Posted by Beth

she is the same girl that would ***** all day if she got nothing






This.

And I agree -- I don't want to hear about how your husband spent money on flowers that you can or cannot afford.

.... because I don't care either way.

Posted 2/14/11 12:01 PM
 

smdl
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

Yes, it's annoying!

I find it very annoying people who bash their spouse openly for all to hear.

Woman... enjoy your bouquet! Yell at your DH tonight. But what about discussing VD's expectation first!!!! It's probably not her 1st VD with him.Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/11 12:07 PM
 

MrsA714
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

Posted by smdl

It's probably not her 1st VD with him.Chat Icon



You'd have to do a lot better than flowers if you give me VD...especially more than 1! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/11 12:29 PM
 

GioiaMia
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

Posted by MrsA714

Posted by smdl

It's probably not her 1st VD with him.Chat Icon



You'd have to do a lot better than flowers if you give me VD...especially more than 1! Chat Icon Chat Icon




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Posted 2/14/11 12:31 PM
 

christinec2010
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

DH & I do not like public displays of affection & sending flowers to work (for us) falls right into that catagory. After dating for 10 years most of our family only first saw us kiss at our wedding.

I personally feel that is all just a show & cry for attention. I actually feel bad for that guy.

Posted 2/14/11 12:45 PM
 

ThePinkGoose
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

This annoys me too!!!!!!!!!!! I just want to be like...really, shut up!! It's so phoney........

Posted 2/14/11 12:46 PM
 

CrankyPants
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

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Posted by MrsA714

Posted by smdl

It's probably not her 1st VD with him.Chat Icon



You'd have to do a lot better than flowers if you give me VD...especially more than 1! Chat Icon Chat Icon




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Posted 2/14/11 12:50 PM
 

JP826
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

Posted by Beth

she is the same girl that would ***** all day if she got nothing





Ahhhh! My thoughts EXACTLY!!!

Posted 2/14/11 1:08 PM
 

kimmaymb20
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

No matter what a waste of money they are I wish my FH would send me flowers on Valentines Day. Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/11 1:17 PM
 

sunflowerjesss
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

To me it sounds like she is looking for even more attention from others. Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/11 1:19 PM
 

dawnygirl25
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

thats obnoxious IMO. I got flowers today and am very happy.Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/11 1:20 PM
 

DiamondGirl
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

I'm willing to bet she requested the flowers Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/11 1:31 PM
 

LotsaLuv
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

Some people crave attention, those are the ones that get eye rolls and the least attention from me.

Posted 2/14/11 1:32 PM
 

smdl
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Re: Does this happen a lot in your office? (V-day related)

Posted by CrankyPants

Posted by Tilde

Posted by MrsA714

Posted by smdl

It's probably not her 1st VD with him.Chat Icon



You'd have to do a lot better than flowers if you give me VD...especially more than 1! Chat Icon Chat Icon




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OMG.... abreviations going wrong!!!

$hit I would ask for some shiny rocks too for VD indeed!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/11 1:33 PM
 
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