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accept 3 1.42%
ignore 191 90.52%
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Facebook friend request...

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LaLa936
LIF Infant

Member since 6/08

348 total posts

Name:

Facebook friend request...

Do you get friend requests from people you don't even know? I know some people accept because they want to see how many friends they can get( I have a coworker that does this)
Right now I have about 6 friend request from complete strangers that I have no intentions of accepting...
So I was just curious what do you do?

Posted 10/23/10 12:10 PM
 

Little-J-Mommy
I'm a Big Brother

Member since 5/06

8041 total posts

Name:
D

Re: Facebook friend request...

If you keep them pending, you appear in their feed unless you specifically block them. I usually check to see if we have friends in common to figure out if maybe I just don't remember them from hs or something. If I don't know you....ignore

Posted 10/23/10 12:15 PM
 

MikesBride
LIF Adult

Member since 12/09

1245 total posts

Name:
Ilana

Re: Facebook friend request...

I don't friend anyone I don't know...I don't want strangers having access to my information.

Posted 10/23/10 12:18 PM
 

LaLa936
LIF Infant

Member since 6/08

348 total posts

Name:

Re: Facebook friend request...

LOL I hit the wrong answer on my own poll! I meant to hit ignore...
I feel the same way I don't want strangers to have access to my info.

Posted 10/23/10 12:56 PM
 

MrsKS
Thank You St. Gerard.....

Member since 12/09

8306 total posts

Name:
Kerri

Re: Facebook friend request...

I never accept friend requests from people I don't know.

Sometimes we even have friends in common, and if I don't know them then I still do not accept them.

It's sooo hard to keep your privacy with FB... and this is a small attempt on my part...

Posted 10/23/10 1:00 PM
 

bettybcafe
Big brother in the making

Member since 7/07

8611 total posts

Name:
M

Re: Facebook friend request...

I hit ignore.

Posted 10/23/10 1:28 PM
 

LoriH
There's no place like home

Member since 8/07

4110 total posts

Name:
Lori

Re: Facebook friend request...

I usually send a message saying something like this:

Hi (insert their name)

I notice you sent a friend request. Unfortunately I do not think I am the (insert your name) you are looking for.

Lori

I have had a few people looking for distant cousins and stuff friend request me. I try to be nice just in case.

Posted 10/23/10 2:04 PM
 

Stacey1403
Where it all began....

Member since 5/05

24065 total posts

Name:

Re: Facebook friend request...

If we have friends in common I send them a message asking how they know me. Otherwise I ignore it.

Posted 10/23/10 2:18 PM
 

drpepper318
MIR MIR MIR!

Member since 6/07

8274 total posts

Name:
me

Re: Facebook friend request...

Posted by Stacey1403

If we have friends in common I send them a message asking how they know me. Otherwise I ignore it.


same, if it's someone I recognize & have mutual friends with, I generally accept.
If it's a complete stranger, no way... I have no idea why they requested me or found me to begin with & I don't want them seeing my info.

Posted 10/23/10 3:28 PM
 

MrsGmomof3
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Member since 6/08

3290 total posts

Name:
Irrelevant

Re: Facebook friend request...

The only friends I have on facebook are my actual friends.

Posted 10/23/10 4:23 PM
 

Mrs213
????????

Member since 2/09

18986 total posts

Name:

Re: Facebook friend request...

I don't accept people I don't know. DH's family members who I don't even know are constantly requesting me and it's very annoying...

Posted 10/23/10 6:46 PM
 

Diana712
RIP my beloved Brother Richard

Member since 5/07

6710 total posts

Name:
Diana

Re: Facebook friend request...

I usually send a message saying "Sorry I dont remember you" . Its usually one of my dh's friends trying to be friends with me.. I ignore.. He has about 5,000 friends.. He accepts everyone! he knows about 14 of them!!

Posted 10/23/10 7:10 PM
 

julz33
i run for bacon

Member since 5/05

20584 total posts

Name:
julz

Re: Facebook friend request...

Never a complete stranger. I ignore those.

But I do get some from LIF people who I don't really "know" but if I like them I accept them!

Posted 10/23/10 7:25 PM
 

Momma2Be
Mommy of an angel

Member since 10/09

5911 total posts

Name:
Dina

Re: Facebook friend request...

Posted by MrsKS

I never accept friend requests from people I don't know.

Sometimes we even have friends in common, and if I don't know them then I still do not accept them.

It's sooo hard to keep your privacy with FB... and this is a small attempt on my part...



ITA. I post pics of my DS on FB and wouldn't want anyone I didn't know to have access to them.

Posted 10/23/10 7:37 PM
 

RocPin
Life's Beachy <3

Member since 2/08

6765 total posts

Name:
Heather

Re: Facebook friend request...

I ignore them unless we have a bunch of mutual friends.

There are a lot of bots so I don't trust them.

I see no reason in accepting someone that I don't know with all my business.

Message edited 10/25/2010 11:36:20 AM.

Posted 10/23/10 7:39 PM
 

Michelle1123
Baby #5 on the way!

Member since 9/05

7919 total posts

Name:

Re: Facebook friend request...

I ignore them, even if we have a lot of mutual friends.

Posted 10/23/10 8:07 PM
 

jgl
Love my little boys!!!

Member since 8/07

7060 total posts

Name:
g

Re: Facebook friend request...

I checknto see if we have friends in common andi will send th m a message asking if i know them. A lot of times they thought you were someone else

Posted 10/23/10 10:15 PM
 

Christine
2nd verse same as the 1st

Member since 5/05

15287 total posts

Name:

Re: Facebook friend request...

I play a couple of games where it's beneficial to have a lot of friends. So if I get a friend request from someone that references the game - I accept them but they are in a special friend group with limited access to my personal information.

Message edited 10/24/2010 12:10:11 AM.

Posted 10/24/10 12:09 AM
 

ReddHeadd
LIF Infant

Member since 9/10

104 total posts

Name:
Jessica

Re: Facebook friend request...

I don't accept friend requests from people I don't know.

Posted 10/24/10 1:46 AM
 

MrsLL2010
LIF Infant

Member since 2/09

318 total posts

Name:
Lori

Re: Facebook friend request...

I ignore it - I have some guy from Nigeria that is constantly requesting me - I finally just blocked him all together

Posted 10/24/10 10:17 PM
 

MrsPJB2007
MBA at your service!

Member since 7/06

12020 total posts

Name:
MJ

Re: Facebook friend request...

If we have no mutual friends, and I have no idea who they are.

IGNORE friend request and that's it. I'm not a friend collector. I actually purposely try and keep my list at under 200 friends. Chat Icon When it gets above 200, I usually will delete people. I don't need complete strangers as friends!

Posted 10/24/10 10:21 PM
 

Ayne11
Yep

Member since 1/09

18021 total posts

Name:

Re: Facebook friend request...

Ignore!

when an unknown number comes up on the phone, I don't pick it up.

Same goes for FB Chat Icon

Posted 10/24/10 10:22 PM
 

DirtyBlonde
*****

Member since 11/07

7344 total posts

Name:

Re: Facebook friend request...

Posted by Stacey1403

If we have friends in common I send them a message asking how they know me. Otherwise I ignore it.



same

Posted 10/24/10 10:49 PM
 

Lina
My angel is finally here

Member since 5/10

2559 total posts

Name:
Lindsay

Re: Facebook friend request...

I even had one this morning on Skype. The person said "hi I can across you and thought you seemed interesting"... really, what makes me interesting? All I have listed is my name and Long Island, NY. So many creepers out there, I just hit ignore!Chat Icon

Posted 10/25/10 6:52 AM
 

jilliibabii
Mrs. O'Connor

Member since 6/10

12821 total posts

Name:
Jillian

Re: Facebook friend request...

Ignore them.

Posted 10/25/10 8:40 AM
 
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