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Ang-Rich
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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

Posted by jerseypanda

Posted by Corinne

i find it hard to believe the child still has jaundice at age 1. that goes away after 2 months.



I believe that she said that the baby still has something called external Hydrocephalus.



Just did a search and found this (only to provide info...not to really discuss the merits of the condition)

5 Things You Need to Know About External Hydrocephalus

1. Too Much Water on the Brain
External hydrocephalus, which is also known as benign external hydrocephalus because of it's self limiting condition, is simply fluid that has collected around the outside of the skull. In more general terms, it's simply "water on the brain." This "water" is actually cerebrospinal fluid (CSF), which is the normal contents of the brain, but in this case, there is just too much of it.

2. Growing Too Fast
The reason your baby needs to be in for weight and length checks might be obvious, but why do they need to measure the baby's head circumference so often? It is to check for diseases like external hydrocephalus and other more serious medical brain abnormalities. This simple check will tell your pediatrician if your little one needs further testing. If your child is suffering from external hydrocephalus, it will show through a rapidly enlarging head. The testing will indicate whether your child has this disease or something more serious.

3. Diagnosis Through Imaging
In testing for external hydrocephalus, your child may need to have several imaging tests performed to make a definitive diagnosis. These imaging tests may include ultrasound, especially if the child is still in the womb, MRI imaging and a CT scan. There is also a fetal MRI, known as a fast MRI, in which the pregnant woman is scanned, as the name indicates, fast. All of these imaging techniques are designed to locate the possible problem with the fluid on the brain and determine what therapies will work best for the person's particular situation. This imaging should quickly determine if you are dealing with a case of external hydrocephalus or the more serious internal hydrocephalus.

4. Treatment: There Is None
There is no treatment. That doesn't mean, however, your child will suffer long from this condition. Just as the name implies, benign external hydrocephalus is a self-limiting disease. Experts from Oregon University state that this type of hydrocephalus resolves in most patients by school age. Some medical researchers are finding that typically this condition resolves much earlier, somewhere around 18 months of age.

5. YOU Are the First Line of Defense
The only way to know whether your child has external hydrocephalus is to get regular medical checkups. A diagnosis can more easily be determined if there is a development history for your pediatrician to look at. Also, anytime you sense anything wrong with your child, you should give your doctor a call. As parents, sometimes we tend to worry too much about certain conditions, but when it comes to brain development, you cannot be too careful.

Last Updated: April 15, 2008



Link for information

Posted 7/15/08 9:18 AM
 
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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

wow this has got out of control. if you don't believe then just let it go, if you do think she needs help then send something. my goodness people.Chat Icon it is so sad...............

Posted 7/15/08 9:19 AM
 

HeathKernandez
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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

I am going to do everyone a favor and take the day off to VISIT her, take some blood and stool samples, possibly a pap.

I will report my findings upon my return

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Posted 7/15/08 9:23 AM
 

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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

Posted by namechange

I am going to do everyone a favor and take the day off to VISIT her, take some blood and stool samples, possibly a pap.

I will report my findings upon my return

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seriously....eveyone is always so skeptical

Bottom line, if you want to help, help

if you don't, quite honestly, there is no reason to post on this thread

Posted 7/15/08 9:27 AM
 

Ang-Rich
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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

OOOHHH...I hope my post wasn't taken the wrong way..just wanted to share info on the condition.

I mean...it's a legite condition and very valid for her age but also something not well known. I just thought it would help on that point...but maybe not so helpful...sorry Chat Icon

Posted 7/15/08 9:37 AM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

Posted by Ang-Rich

OOOHHH...I hope my post wasn't taken the wrong way..just wanted to share info on the condition.

I mean...it's a legite condition and very valid for her age but also something not well known. I just thought it would help on that point...but maybe not so helpful...sorry Chat Icon



I think it was VERY informative and helpful....thanks AngChat Icon

Posted 7/15/08 9:45 AM
 

caligirl01
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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

I've been reading other threads on here and have found them very helpful. But, I'm shocked by the replies on this one. The original poster said she read the article and was "asking if people thought it was for real" Some posters said they thought it might be a scam. So what? Why are all of the people who are sending toys, gifts, etc so angered by other people's opinions that this might be a scam? To tell someone to go away because of their opinion is absolutely IGNORANT! I'm not going to post those names who I think were inappropriate, but shame on you. We live in America, freedom of speech. Are we supposed to be scared to give our personal comments and opinions on a public forum? (scared that we might be told to leave a thread??? and feel ganged up on?) I'm just curious.....how are other people's opinons ruining this thread?

Posted 7/15/08 9:58 AM
 

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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

Posted by stephanief
seriously....eveyone is always so skeptical

Bottom line, if you want to help, help

if you don't, quite honestly, there is no reason to post on this thread



If people want to help, then they should. I said that in my post to summer- if you want to send her everything you own, go ahead. Chat Icon

But to say that people shouldn't post here to give others the information that they came across is ignorant in itself (not pointing fingers at you steph, just clarifying the use of the word that summer used earlier in the thread). I think there's an amazing group of women here, and it's great that everyone wants to help. Some would even give when they dont have much themselves, and i think that's amazing- i also think too many people out there will take advantage of it. And, that there are legitimate people out there that are deserving of the help. People should just know all of the details before they sacrifice, and telling them not to post here because you disagree with it is completely inappropriate.

Yes, people are skeptical- that skepticism comes from experience, not lack of caring. Chat Icon

Posted 7/15/08 9:58 AM
 

Luv2bAmom
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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

Hi Guys I have not read all the pages of post on here, but I did a search on Craigslist and it seems she has a another post where she is selling bags of clothes upt to size 5T so it look slike she would have clothes that would fit her 1 year old, so I am not sure if this is legit or not, but I think she takes the things she get donated and sells them. Again I do not have an opionion either way I just thougth I woudl share this.



http://newyork.craigslist.org/mnh/bab/754885284.html

Message edited 7/15/2008 10:09:43 AM.

Posted 7/15/08 10:01 AM
 

HeathKernandez
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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

Posted by caligirl01

I've been reading other threads on here and have found them very helpful. But, I'm shocked by the replies on this one. The original poster said she read the article and was "asking if people thought it was for real" Some posters said they thought it might be a scam. So what? Why are all of the people who are sending toys, gifts, etc so angered by other people's opinions that this might be a scam? To tell someone to go away because of their opinion is absolutely IGNORANT! I'm not going to post those names who I think were inappropriate, but shame on you. We live in America, freedom of speech. Are we supposed to be scared to give our personal comments and opinions on a public forum? (scared that we might be told to leave a thread??? and feel ganged up on?) I'm just curious.....how are other people's opinons ruining this thread?



you just joined the site.

shock would be a normal reaction

Message edited 7/15/2008 10:05:52 AM.

Posted 7/15/08 10:05 AM
 

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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

Posted by Summerrluvv

Posted by Claud

The truth is, nothing is *essential* for a 1 yr. old bday "party." A 12 month old child does not know or care about a party - any party is for the benfit of the parents only.

If this woman was so destitute and without the means to provide for her children, there are city resources that could help her. But she has a CELLPHONE that has TEXTING capability. Chat Icon

This CL post is a ridiculous ploy to get gullible (however kind-hearted they may fancy themselves to be) people to respond.
I personally would sell my computer tp rovide for my child, if you have no job u have all day to spend at the library...
Posted by Summerrluvv

I suppose if you are desperate for money RIGHT NOW you'll sell what you can.



Wasn't this the exact point that Robin was trying to make in the first place? Chat Icon



You don't sell a computer that provides you access to find a job or emailing resumes do you? Or that your kids use for homework? I mean really, would that be logical? It wouldn't be.
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I would sell my computer for my child and walk to the library since I have plenty of time ause i have no job!!! Thats just me though...

Message edited 7/15/2008 10:10:33 AM.

Posted 7/15/08 10:09 AM
 

caligirl01
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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

Posted by namechange

Posted by caligirl01

I've been reading other threads on here and have found them very helpful. But, I'm shocked by the replies on this one. The original poster said she read the article and was "asking if people thought it was for real" Some posters said they thought it might be a scam. So what? Why are all of the people who are sending toys, gifts, etc so angered by other people's opinions that this might be a scam? To tell someone to go away because of their opinion is absolutely IGNORANT! I'm not going to post those names who I think were inappropriate, but shame on you. We live in America, freedom of speech. Are we supposed to be scared to give our personal comments and opinions on a public forum? (scared that we might be told to leave a thread??? and feel ganged up on?) I'm just curious.....how are other people's opinons ruining this thread?



you just joined the site.

shock would be a normal reaction



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Posted 7/15/08 10:11 AM
 

Mommyof3
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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

Posted by robin

i dont know if its for real, but if it were me posting that,i would sell my computer to buy what my child needs..i wouldnt post an ad,i would sell my pc..



I don't know if it is real....but I totally agree with the above post....whole thing seems questionable to me. I would give clothes and what not to help out, but not a whole lot more.

Posted 7/15/08 10:14 AM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

Posted by neenie

Posted by stephanief
seriously....eveyone is always so skeptical

Bottom line, if you want to help, help

if you don't, quite honestly, there is no reason to post on this thread



If people want to help, then they should. I said that in my post to summer- if you want to send her everything you own, go ahead. Chat Icon

But to say that people shouldn't post here to give others the information that they came across is ignorant in itself (not pointing fingers at you steph, just clarifying the use of the word that summer used earlier in the thread). I think there's an amazing group of women here, and it's great that everyone wants to help. Some would even give when they dont have much themselves, and i think that's amazing- i also think too many people out there will take advantage of it. And, that there are legitimate people out there that are deserving of the help. People should just know all of the details before they sacrifice, and telling them not to post here because you disagree with it is completely inappropriate.

Yes, people are skeptical- that skepticism comes from experience, not lack of caring. Chat Icon



I see you point but I think it was discussed alot on this thread that people are aware that this MAY be a scam and still decided to help in whatever way they deem appropriate. I just think after saying that, for others to continue to say "it's a sacm for x, y and z reason"...to ME, seems pointless

But I do understand what you are saying Chat Icon

Posted 7/15/08 10:15 AM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

Posted by caligirl01

I've been reading other threads on here and have found them very helpful. But, I'm shocked by the replies on this one. The original poster said she read the article and was "asking if people thought it was for real" Some posters said they thought it might be a scam. So what? Why are all of the people who are sending toys, gifts, etc so angered by other people's opinions that this might be a scam? To tell someone to go away because of their opinion is absolutely IGNORANT! I'm not going to post those names who I think were inappropriate, but shame on you. We live in America, freedom of speech. Are we supposed to be scared to give our personal comments and opinions on a public forum? (scared that we might be told to leave a thread??? and feel ganged up on?) I'm just curious.....how are other people's opinons ruining this thread?



welcome to the madness....you will fit in just fine Chat Icon

Posted 7/15/08 10:16 AM
 

Mommyof3
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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

Posted by Luv2bAmom

Hi Guys I have not read all the pages of post on here, but I did a search on Craigslist and it seems she has a another post where she is selling bags of clothes upt to size 5T so it look slike she would have clothes that would fit her 1 year old, so I am not sure if this is legit or not, but I think she takes the things she get donated and sells them. Again I do not have an opionion either way I just thougth I woudl share this.



http://newyork.craigslist.org/mnh/bab/754885284.html



This is extremely interesting......She is using emotion maybe to get what she wants....Faulty use of emotion.

Posted 7/15/08 10:18 AM
 

Luv2bAmom
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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

Posted by stephanief

Posted by neenie

Posted by stephanief
seriously....eveyone is always so skeptical

Bottom line, if you want to help, help

if you don't, quite honestly, there is no reason to post on this thread



If people want to help, then they should. I said that in my post to summer- if you want to send her everything you own, go ahead. Chat Icon

But to say that people shouldn't post here to give others the information that they came across is ignorant in itself (not pointing fingers at you steph, just clarifying the use of the word that summer used earlier in the thread). I think there's an amazing group of women here, and it's great that everyone wants to help. Some would even give when they dont have much themselves, and i think that's amazing- i also think too many people out there will take advantage of it. And, that there are legitimate people out there that are deserving of the help. People should just know all of the details before they sacrifice, and telling them not to post here because you disagree with it is completely inappropriate.

Yes, people are skeptical- that skepticism comes from experience, not lack of caring. Chat Icon



I see you point but I think it was discussed alot on this thread that people are aware that this MAY be a scam and still decided to help in whatever way they deem appropriate. I just think after saying that, for others to continue to say "it's a sacm for x, y and z reason"...to ME, seems pointless

But I do understand what you are saying Chat Icon



I think that if its a scam, which is not out of the realm of possibility, I would be grateful if someone shared info that may shed some light on the situation, from my search it seems she is selling back what she is gettign donated, I think that is something some might find a little dishonest

Message edited 7/15/2008 10:18:57 AM.

Posted 7/15/08 10:18 AM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

Posted by Luv2bAmom

Posted by stephanief

Posted by neenie

Posted by stephanief
seriously....eveyone is always so skeptical

Bottom line, if you want to help, help

if you don't, quite honestly, there is no reason to post on this thread



If people want to help, then they should. I said that in my post to summer- if you want to send her everything you own, go ahead. Chat Icon

But to say that people shouldn't post here to give others the information that they came across is ignorant in itself (not pointing fingers at you steph, just clarifying the use of the word that summer used earlier in the thread). I think there's an amazing group of women here, and it's great that everyone wants to help. Some would even give when they dont have much themselves, and i think that's amazing- i also think too many people out there will take advantage of it. And, that there are legitimate people out there that are deserving of the help. People should just know all of the details before they sacrifice, and telling them not to post here because you disagree with it is completely inappropriate.

Yes, people are skeptical- that skepticism comes from experience, not lack of caring. Chat Icon



I see you point but I think it was discussed alot on this thread that people are aware that this MAY be a scam and still decided to help in whatever way they deem appropriate. I just think after saying that, for others to continue to say "it's a sacm for x, y and z reason"...to ME, seems pointless

But I do understand what you are saying Chat Icon



I think that if its a scam, which is not out of the realm of possibility, I would be grateful if someone shared info that may shed some light on the situation, from my search it seems she is selling back what she is gettign donated, I think that is something some might find a little dishonest



I get that...it was discussed in the beginning of the thread why some people thought it was a scam...the girls who planned on helping said they did not care, they were still going to help...period Chat Icon

Posted 7/15/08 10:20 AM
 

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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

"send her everything you own"

Where would you gather that from what I posted? I am sending her things my daughter has excess of, not "everything I own".

SEVERAL members on this board have fell on hard times, posted about it and have received help from other members on here. Those people still owned computers and had phones and no one told them to sell those things to go out and buy what they needed. I think a little compassion goes a long way.

Her and I have communicated back and forth and I don't think she would continue to email about it if she was "caught in a scam". She would just ignore. Figure she got "caught" and move on.

Posted 7/15/08 10:23 AM
 

Luv2bAmom
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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

Posted by stephanief

Posted by Luv2bAmom

Posted by stephanief

Posted by neenie

Posted by stephanief
seriously....eveyone is always so skeptical

Bottom line, if you want to help, help

if you don't, quite honestly, there is no reason to post on this thread



If people want to help, then they should. I said that in my post to summer- if you want to send her everything you own, go ahead. Chat Icon

But to say that people shouldn't post here to give others the information that they came across is ignorant in itself (not pointing fingers at you steph, just clarifying the use of the word that summer used earlier in the thread). I think there's an amazing group of women here, and it's great that everyone wants to help. Some would even give when they dont have much themselves, and i think that's amazing- i also think too many people out there will take advantage of it. And, that there are legitimate people out there that are deserving of the help. People should just know all of the details before they sacrifice, and telling them not to post here because you disagree with it is completely inappropriate.

Yes, people are skeptical- that skepticism comes from experience, not lack of caring. Chat Icon



I see you point but I think it was discussed alot on this thread that people are aware that this MAY be a scam and still decided to help in whatever way they deem appropriate. I just think after saying that, for others to continue to say "it's a sacm for x, y and z reason"...to ME, seems pointless

But I do understand what you are saying Chat Icon



I think that if its a scam, which is not out of the realm of possibility, I would be grateful if someone shared info that may shed some light on the situation, from my search it seems she is selling back what she is gettign donated, I think that is something some might find a little dishonest



I get that...it was discussed in the beginning of the thread why some people thought it was a scam...the girls who planned on helping said they did not care, they were still going to help...period Chat Icon



Ok Sounds good, as long as its an informed decision. Thats all I wanted to share, I didn't want someone to send something and then feel bad if they did not have all the "facts"Chat Icon

Posted 7/15/08 10:28 AM
 

robin
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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

bottom line,wether we agree or not,wether its a scam or not..there are some great people on this site that have a big heart.

Posted 7/15/08 10:38 AM
 

shellybean
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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

Ok Its very Naive to thnk becaus ethis girl gave you a name that matches an address and a picture that shes for real. Im sorry, people make a living out of this, scammers are very believable, if u have been scammed you would know. I dont know if its real or not but I hope its legit!!!

Posted 7/15/08 10:40 AM
 

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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

Posted by Summerrluvv

"send her everything you own"

Where would you gather that from what I posted?



I didn't gather that from anything you posted, i just mentioned the obvious- that you're at liberty to do whatever you want with your stuff, but others are still entitled to know all of the details Chat Icon


Her and I have communicated back and forth and I don't think she would continue to email about it if she was "caught in a scam". She would just ignore. Figure she got "caught" and move on.




Chat Icon ok.

Posted 7/15/08 10:46 AM
 

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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

Posted by neenie

Posted by Summerrluvv

"send her everything you own"

Where would you gather that from what I posted?



I didn't gather that from anything you posted, i just mentioned the obvious- that you're at liberty to do whatever you want with your stuff, but others are still entitled to know all of the details Chat Icon


Her and I have communicated back and forth and I don't think she would continue to email about it if she was "caught in a scam". She would just ignore. Figure she got "caught" and move on.




Chat Icon ok.



Seriously, the patronizing should probably stop now. If you think it's a scam, great, but your Chat Icon isn't necessary like we are all idiots. I'm gonna ask the mod to lock the thread now.

Posted 7/15/08 10:54 AM
 

MommyofG
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Re: PLEASE READ: If this is for real I want to help!

after reading this entire thread, I am still going to send something but not clothes now since I see she is selling them. She emailed me too and sent a pic.
Instead I am going to send a birthday card with a gift certificate to McDonalds.
what kid doesnt like mcdee's! scam or not , 20 bucks is no big loss to me.

Posted 7/15/08 10:55 AM
 
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