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Hofstra26
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Re: When did u stop feeling scared?
I stopped worrying when my DD was born happy and healthy and she was snuggled up in my arms. But then you start worrying all over again!! It never ends!!  
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MaMaTeenie
Party of 5
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Re: When did u stop feeling scared?
Jenn I'm 22 wks and I still worry. I have gotten to the point where I don't look at the TP everytime, but just last night I woke at 3am and ate m and m's bc I wanted to feel her move so I could be sure she was ok.
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| Posted 12/2/09 11:16 AM |
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MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor
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Deanna
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Re: When did u stop feeling scared?
i honestly will never stop feeling scared.. i am right at the point where i lost my first.. and i am freaking out 
i dont think it will ever go away unfortunately
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| Posted 12/2/09 11:20 AM |
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NervousNell
Just another chapter in life..
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..being a mommy and being a wife!
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Re: When did u stop feeling scared?
Posted by XcalystaX
Honestly never. I was scared up to the point that I had her and then when I had her I was scared of SIDS and a bunch of other things.....I'm a loon.
I'm your partner in loonacy then!
You sound just like me.
I'm already worried about SIDS and I'm only 9 weeks pregnant.
Being a natural worrywart does NOT fair well in pregnancy that is for sure!
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| Posted 12/2/09 11:34 AM |
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Jan1975
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Re: When did u stop feeling scared?
Posted by Jonsgirl04
I am always worrying... Especially if baby is not moving much one day. I am 28 weeks and I dont think I will ever stop worrying. Especially when i read such sad stories on here..
I was having this conversation with DH tonight. For the past few days I have been thinking about all the sad stories posted here and it makes me so upset and paranoid...I am glad I am not the only one who feels this way. I just want to hold then I will feel better
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| Posted 12/2/09 8:18 PM |
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Re: When did u stop feeling scared?
I still get scared from time to time and I am 26 weeks. My mom told me you will never stop worrying/being scared. But I stopped worrying badly at 12 weeks.
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| Posted 12/2/09 8:23 PM |
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Cookiegobbler
My little love bugs!!
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Nicole
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Re: When did u stop feeling scared?
not until the baby is in my arms and healthy!
Message edited 12/2/2009 8:24:44 PM.
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| Posted 12/2/09 8:24 PM |
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nferrandi
too excited for words
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Re: When did u stop feeling scared?
One you get that BFP you are a mother- and the worry never stops. You will always have "what if" thoughts, but you just can't let them consume you. After I saw the baby the first two times, I tend to relax a lot more.
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| Posted 12/2/09 8:29 PM |
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kabo0831
Baby # 2 on the way
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Keri
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Re: When did u stop feeling scared?
im 19w and im still worrying. i lost one so im even more nervous
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| Posted 12/2/09 8:31 PM |
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butterfly20
Party of 5 - 2015
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Re: When did u stop feeling scared?
 started feeling better at the 20 week level 2..... then started the craziness again in the early 30's when i failed the 1 hour test, growth sono showed he'd be over 9 lbs,i had preeclampsia. then delivered him early. I stopped feeling scared when i brought him home from winthrop
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| Posted 12/2/09 8:36 PM |
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GaknTak
He has my heart
Member since 12/07 1379 total posts
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Tracy
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Re: When did u stop feeling scared?
My dr told me at 10 wks anything happening as far as losing the baby chances are very very slim. So that helped. But honestly with my DS I didn't stop worrying till that baby was in my arms after he was born. Then I stopped worrying!
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| Posted 12/2/09 8:41 PM |
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JennyPenny
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Re: When did u stop feeling scared?
When my daughter was born healthy.
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| Posted 12/2/09 8:46 PM |
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Re: When did u stop feeling scared?
For me up until the ultrascreen I was horribly nervous and everything scared the crap out of me. After that I relaxed a tad, but to be honest it wasn't until I could feel Peanut on a daily basis that I relaxed. I would say around 18-20wks her movements became more regular and it was everyday. Now at 33wks I know her patterns and can encourage movement if I get nervous. I don't think it ever REALLY goes away, but feeling her move everyday really eased my mind!
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| Posted 12/3/09 9:18 AM |
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CaseyGirl
Mommy to 3 Boys :)
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Re: When did u stop feeling scared?
when my son was born in august!
it's normal. there are different stages...when you are first pregnant, then when you start to feel the baby move, for every sono, then during labor...
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| Posted 12/3/09 9:22 AM |
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JennCo
My greatest joy is my baby boy
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Re: When did u stop feeling scared?
i am 21 weeks and i still am nervous. i must say though, after my level II i felt alot better and each time i go to the OB and hear his little HB, i do exhale a bit. i think pregnancy is a good indicator for what life will be like once baby is here....from now on, we'll always worry about these little ones, that feeling will never go away
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| Posted 12/3/09 9:45 AM |
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kms717
St Philomena Protect My Son
Member since 2/06 2747 total posts
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Kelly
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Re: When did u stop feeling scared?
Never, I'm 35 weeks and I still worry when I haven't felt him for a while. I just wait and pray everyday 
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| Posted 12/3/09 9:52 AM |
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MAC222
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Re: When did u stop feeling scared?
I think it comes and goes in stages...
First, it's the hb, then the ultrascan...I finally felt great after the anatomy scan...19 weeks, and I found out out he had all of his organs, heart was good, etc....
Now, at 37 weeks, you worry that something wil be wrong, etc...then after they are born, you just worry, then they go on the bus for the first time, and you worry, they start dating, go to college..and it's WORRY! I think worrying goes hand in hand with becoming a parent..lol!
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| Posted 12/3/09 10:20 AM |
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eroxgirl
My Loves
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Re: When did u stop feeling scared?
I stopped worrying about losing DD at 9 weeks preggo, but started worrying about everything that could go wrong in a pregnancy at that point. I stopped worrying about Downs, etc. after tests concluded it was extremely unlikely. Then I started worrying about everything that could go wrong with childbirth. When I was fortunate enough to bring home a beautiful healthy baby, I started worrying about how I couldn't protect her 24/7 for the next 90 years.
It never ends.
This time I'm even worse.
I've prayed more in the last 3 years than I have in my entire life.
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| Posted 12/3/09 10:26 AM |
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mommyIam
Member since 7/09 9209 total posts
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Shana
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Re: When did u stop feeling scared?
It's never ending, I alternate with DH, I'm a paranoid wreck one week, he's a paranoid wreck the next. Its seems to be working for us. I think its all part of being human
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