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Who here is Pulling and Praying?

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Janice
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Who here is Pulling and Praying?

In the last 2 months, DH and I have picked up this horrible habit. DH is always saying how that is the last time that is going to happen, but now it always seems to be happening. It is so much more fun to be risky. Stupid, but fun. Anyone else?

Posted 9/13/05 3:51 PM
 
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

what is pulling and praying???

Posted 9/13/05 3:53 PM
 

Moehick
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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

what is pulling and praying???



I think it has to do with S E XChat Icon

Posted 9/13/05 3:53 PM
 

Stefanie

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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

DH & I have done that for years!!! It's worked everytime.

We actually planned having Jared, so it wasn't a pull and pray accident...Chat Icon

Posted 9/13/05 3:54 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

oh, now i get it

brain freeze

Posted 9/13/05 3:55 PM
 

Janice
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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

Posted by Stefanie

DH & I have done that for years!!! It's worked everytime.




that is good news. so many people must do it.

Posted 9/13/05 3:55 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

Posted by Janice

Posted by Stefanie

DH & I have done that for years!!! It's worked everytime.




that is good news. so many people must do it.



can i ask a question without getting flamed?

Posted 9/13/05 3:55 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

ask away!

We do it....it's been almost 6 years knock on wood! My daughter is almost 6 now.

Posted 9/13/05 3:56 PM
 

Moehick
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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

Posted by Janice

Posted by Stefanie

DH & I have done that for years!!! It's worked everytime.




that is good news. so many people must do it.



can i ask a question without getting flamed?



No but do it anywayChat Icon

Posted 9/13/05 3:57 PM
 

Ambersmom
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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

Posted by Janice

Posted by Stefanie

DH & I have done that for years!!! It's worked everytime.




that is good news. so many people must do it.



can i ask a question without getting flamed?



Go for it..

Posted 9/13/05 3:57 PM
 

Janice
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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

can't wait don

Posted 9/13/05 3:57 PM
 

Stefanie

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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

waiting....Chat Icon

Posted 9/13/05 4:00 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

ok, for those who may be TTC'ing OR are of the mindset "whatever happens, happens", i can see and understand the pullout method

but if you are not ready for kids yet, why take the risk??

i don't understand

Posted 9/13/05 4:02 PM
 

MrsJ
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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

I have a question too....why risk it if you don't want to get PG?

ETA: we must have posted at the same time (hence the same question)

Message edited 9/13/2005 4:03:57 PM.

Posted 9/13/05 4:03 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

Posted by kelleherkm

I have a question too....why risk it if you don't want to get PG?



copycat Chat Icon

Posted 9/13/05 4:03 PM
 

MrsJ
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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

Posted by kelleherkm

I have a question too....why risk it if you don't want to get PG?



copycat Chat Icon



I KNOW! Chat Icon I just saw that! We posted at the same time!

Posted 9/13/05 4:04 PM
 

Elbee
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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

ok, for those who may be TTC'ing OR are of the mindset "whatever happens, happens", i can see and understand the pullout method

but if you are not ready for kids yet, why take the risk??

i don't understand




I'm on the mindset of whatever happens happens - that is why we use the pull & pray method. I am not planning on having a child this second but if I got pregnant both DH & I would be thrilled to welcome a child into our arms. We're not worried about if it happens, we're adults, we can handle it. I dislike BCP/hormone types and he dislikes condoms, so this is what we decided. it may change after my 10th child but we'll make that decision down the road.

I hope anyone using the pull & pray method would know the ramifications though of it and consider it before using it.

Posted 9/13/05 4:06 PM
 

Janice
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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

I have never risked it before, just lately. My only answer..it is really good.

I also feel guilty using BC

Message edited 9/13/2005 4:07:31 PM.

Posted 9/13/05 4:06 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

Posted by Elbee

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

ok, for those who may be TTC'ing OR are of the mindset "whatever happens, happens", i can see and understand the pullout method

but if you are not ready for kids yet, why take the risk??

i don't understand




I'm on the mindset of whatever happens happens - that is why we use the pull & pray method. I am not planning on having a child this second but if I got pregnant both DH & I would be thrilled to welcome a child into our arms. We're not worried about if it happens, we're adults, we can handle it. I dislike BCP/hormone types and he dislikes condoms, so this is what we decided. it may change after my 10th child but we'll make that decision down the road.

I hope anyone using the pull & pray method would know the ramifications though of it and consider it before using it.



right, in this scenario, this is totally fine

if you have discussed and accepted the ramifications, this is fine

Posted 9/13/05 4:07 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

Posted by Janice

I have never risked it before, just lately. My only answer..it is really good.

I also feel guilty using BC



and if you got preggo tomorrow, how would you and DH feel?

Posted 9/13/05 4:08 PM
 

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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

Posted by Janice

I have never risked it before, just lately. My only answer..it is really good.

I also feel guilty using BC



I don't mean this in a bad way, but why do feel guilty about BC?

Posted 9/13/05 4:08 PM
 

Elbee
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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

Posted by CaptainCharisma424
if you have discussed and accepted the ramifications, this is fine



I think if you don't discuss it and aren't fine with it and disregard the ramifications and do it anyway, well then you are insane. that's just my opnion though. Chat Icon

Posted 9/13/05 4:09 PM
 

Janice
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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

Posted by Janice

I have never risked it before, just lately. My only answer..it is really good.

I also feel guilty using BC



and if you got preggo tomorrow, how would you and DH feel?



fine. we are out of debt, money in the bank, he graduates in May. We would be happy either way. Having a baby in 2 more years has its benefits are far as traveling and home furnishing. Selfish reasons. We just don't want to take the plunge right now.

Posted 9/13/05 4:10 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

ok, for those who may be TTC'ing OR are of the mindset "whatever happens, happens", i can see and understand the pullout method

but if you are not ready for kids yet, why take the risk??

i don't understand



well, in our case...I've never used BC. I have tried so many methods and dislike them all. The otehr method stinks....not good for my female side. Ehem...infections. I'm sorry TMI but he asked Chat Icon Chat Icon It's worked so far and if we get preggers again then it will be great w/ us. After that then I will have to use some form of control.

Posted 9/13/05 4:11 PM
 

Janice
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Re: Who here is Pulling and Praying?

Posted by DonnaJoe708

Posted by Janice

I have never risked it before, just lately. My only answer..it is really good.

I also feel guilty using BC



I don't mean this in a bad way, but why do feel guilty about BC?



as a Catholic married women for 3 years, who is financially capable of having a child right now, I feel like karma will catch up with me. Once I have a baby I am not working anymore. We won't have the disposable income we have now. I think it is wrong of me to put off having a baby until my home is furnished, been to Europe...etc. Baby is a miracle that I think I have to leave open to God.

Posted 9/13/05 4:12 PM
 
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