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2PreciousBlessings
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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

Posted by HollaGirl

Posted by Eva Luna

Posted by BellaPaige

Posted by Chatham-Chick

Posted by BellaPaige
However, I wonder how many of us stop to think what if it was my husband?



I can guarantee you that my husband wouldn't be hanging out in a place that was known for drugs and prostitution, especially the night before our wedding.



My husband would not be caught dead in such a place but at the same time I have to sympathize with the bride to be because it is such an unfortunate and hurtful situation. Life is very unpredictable and some of us may think that certain situations will never happen but it is silly to think that.



I agree with Bella.

Also, the girl could have been with one of the other guys. Or are we just accusing the murder victim of attempting to cheat.

Seriously, this is a person.

He's dead.

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Sasha, we are not accusing anyone of anything. Would Ant ride around with a stripper in his car at 4am? I know my husband wouldnt.



My husband would not do that but at the same time 50 shots are not justifiable.

Posted 11/27/06 11:10 AM
 
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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

Posted by nixy

from this article on the NYT...


NT times Article

"To the layman, and to the loved ones of those who were shot, 50 shots seems a startlingly high number, especially since the men were found to be unarmed. And police experts concede that the number was high. Yet they also note that in those chaotic and frightening fractions of a second between quiet and gunfire, nothing is clear-cut, and blood is pumping furiously. Even 50 shots can be squeezed off in a matter of seconds."



I posted this earlier...this is an interesting article about the # shots....

Posted 11/27/06 11:10 AM
 

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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

Posted by BellaPaige

Posted by HollaGirl

Posted by Eva Luna

Posted by BellaPaige

Posted by Chatham-Chick

Posted by BellaPaige
However, I wonder how many of us stop to think what if it was my husband?



I can guarantee you that my husband wouldn't be hanging out in a place that was known for drugs and prostitution, especially the night before our wedding.



My husband would not be caught dead in such a place but at the same time I have to sympathize with the bride to be because it is such an unfortunate and hurtful situation. Life is very unpredictable and some of us may think that certain situations will never happen but it is silly to think that.



I agree with Bella.

Also, the girl could have been with one of the other guys. Or are we just accusing the murder victim of attempting to cheat.

Seriously, this is a person.

He's dead.

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Sasha, we are not accusing anyone of anything. Would Ant ride around with a stripper in his car at 4am? I know my husband wouldnt.



My husband would not do that but at the same time 50 shots are not justifiable.



50 shots is NOT justifiable at all, but I stand by my original opinion that these cops did not fire for no reason. What the f*ck was this guy thinking slamming into a police officer with his car not ONCE, but TWICE?

So, hitting someone with a car TWICE is justifiable, and the bullets are not?

Posted 11/27/06 11:11 AM
 

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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

Posted by Eva Luna

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Posted by anonttcer

Posted by nixy

We can all speculate and say what should have happened...but none of us were there, none of carry a gun for our job, or have been put in this situation, so how can we comment on what the cops should have done?

They have the most thankless job in the world...



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Thank you! Unless you were in that situation you have no right to judge. Nobody knows all the facts.
Try going to work every day and having to put on a bullet proof vest and fear that you might not make it home alive.
Then you can Monday morning quarterback.



Thank you BOTH!

For every time my brother walked (NO CAR) he walked ON FOOT (the midnight to 7am shift no less!) in the 75 (worst precinct in the city, average of five homicides a week)- for every person who threw a car battery from the top of a building aimed at his head- for my nephew, his son, who is only four years old... For my mother who went God knows how many nights w/o sleep wondering if he would make it home. For the officer (my brother's sargeant) who got shot two weeks after my brother's last day on the job (he got a job in Nassau which is a safer area so he took it)... For my sister who ran in tears to my brother's schedule to see if he would have been on the night that his sargeant got shot- and he would have- for everyone who knows what it is like to walk a day in their shoes. To be walking at 3am down a street in East New York that most of us would be nervous driving down in the middle of the day- to be walking and hear random gun shots over and over again on the block over- my brother and his partner just looked at each other and walked in the other direction towards a fire house, where they could try and stay for protection, for just a few hours- they did whatever they could to STAY ALIVE each night- THAT is how bad it is. A war in the middle east? Please! We have a war going on in our streets each day! I know, I lived it my whole life.

I'm going to leave it at that b/c I could go on all day. Chat Icon



I used to live on the 75th...ENY. My DH was born and raised there. Chat Icon for your brother & may he always stay safe.

But please know, not every young hispanic, black, minority male is a criminal. Not all are drugdealers. Not all are "at war".

DH's family still lives there. 3 young men. Students, sons, honest, NYers.

I think it would help to bring the cops patrolling these high risk areas with the people that live there. There's a LOT of mistrust between minorities and cops.

Why isn't this being funded?

Maybe tragedies could be avoided this way.

Both sides can learn from each other.



Thank you.

I never mentioned anything about a particular race- I don't look at it in regards to race- I look at it in regards to the crimes being committed. I think it would be nice if the people who live there- whether they are white, black, pink or purple to understand that the police are trying to do what they can to make the area that they live in the safest it can be. I think my brother would have loved to not have people throw things at him every single day- I think he would have liked for people to say THANKS when he would save them from being physically assaulted just walking down the street. I'm sure there are plenty of good people who live there- my mom actually grew up there- but the facts are what they are and they average five homicides a week- those are not good stats and I just wish that people would start to try and make it better but if they are not going to- or until then- it is what it is and ask any officer and they refer to it as hell on earth for good reason- b/c they pray everyday going to work that they will be able to come home in one piece... I wish it was different but it's not.

It's sad for everyone who is involved in any way. And I could never judge anyone not knowing all the facts and also not being able to put myself in their position- infact, I can't even begin to think about how they must have felt. It gives me chills to think about how my brother did it every single day- but I look at my nephew and I realize why he was able to somehow do it.

Again, I think I'm going to leave it at this b/c there's no sense in going on and on about this- it is what it is and everyone is entitled to their own opinions and I respect them ALL equally.

Thanks again Chat Icon

Message edited 11/27/2006 11:14:08 AM.

Posted 11/27/06 11:12 AM
 

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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

The poor bride and family.Chat Icon Obviously there is a part to the story that the media is not letting us in on for whatever reason.

Posted 11/27/06 11:12 AM
 

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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

Posted by HollaGirl

50 shots is NOT justifiable at all, but I stand by my original opinion that these cops did not fire for no reason. What the f*ck was this guy thinking slamming into a police officer with his car not ONCE, but TWICE?

So, hitting someone with a car TWICE is justifiable, and the bullets are not?




Agreed!

Posted 11/27/06 11:12 AM
 

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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

Posted by HollaGirl

Posted by BellaPaige

Posted by HollaGirl

Posted by Eva Luna

Posted by BellaPaige

Posted by Chatham-Chick

Posted by BellaPaige
However, I wonder how many of us stop to think what if it was my husband?



I can guarantee you that my husband wouldn't be hanging out in a place that was known for drugs and prostitution, especially the night before our wedding.



Neither are justifiable IMO at the same time someone loses his life and there is a woman who is agony over this loss.

Neither are justifiable IMO but at the same time someone loses his life and there is a woman who is in agony at this moment.
My husband would not be caught dead in such a place but at the same time I have to sympathize with the bride to be because it is such an unfortunate and hurtful situation. Life is very unpredictable and some of us may think that certain situations will never happen but it is silly to think that.



I agree with Bella.

Also, the girl could have been with one of the other guys. Or are we just accusing the murder victim of attempting to cheat.

Seriously, this is a person.

He's dead.

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Sasha, we are not accusing anyone of anything. Would Ant ride around with a stripper in his car at 4am? I know my husband wouldnt.



My husband would not do that but at the same time 50 shots are not justifiable.



50 shots is NOT justifiable at all, but I stand by my original opinion that these cops did not fire for no reason. What the f*ck was this guy thinking slamming into a police officer with his car not ONCE, but TWICE?

So, hitting someone with a car TWICE is justifiable, and the bullets are not?


Message edited 11/27/2006 11:13:59 AM.

Posted 11/27/06 11:12 AM
 

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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

I'm not accusing anyone of anything. But I can tell you that my DH wouldn't knowingly put himself in a situation or circumstance that could have seriously negative consequences, such as arrest.

Posted 11/27/06 11:13 AM
 

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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

Posted by HollaGirl

Posted by Eva Luna

Posted by BellaPaige

Posted by Chatham-Chick

Posted by BellaPaige
However, I wonder how many of us stop to think what if it was my husband?



I can guarantee you that my husband wouldn't be hanging out in a place that was known for drugs and prostitution, especially the night before our wedding.



My husband would not be caught dead in such a place but at the same time I have to sympathize with the bride to be because it is such an unfortunate and hurtful situation. Life is very unpredictable and some of us may think that certain situations will never happen but it is silly to think that.



I agree with Bella.

Also, the girl could have been with one of the other guys. Or are we just accusing the murder victim of attempting to cheat.

Seriously, this is a person.

He's dead.

Chat Icon



Sasha, we are not accusing anyone of anything. Would Ant ride around with a stripper in his car at 4am? I know my husband wouldnt.



I would hope to God he wouldn't...that's highly irresponsible, to say the least.

But it's pretty irrelevant at this point. That's what I'm trying to say.

No need to mention that because we don't know who the stripper was with.

We don't know all the facts, the whole story, from either side.

So I'm not sure why that's brought up repeatedly. It sounds like character assassination. Actually, a lot of the comments like their "arrest records" sound like this.

The trial hasn't happened yet, right?
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Posted 11/27/06 11:13 AM
 

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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

Posted by HollaGirl

Posted by BellaPaige

Posted by HollaGirl

Posted by Eva Luna

Posted by BellaPaige

Posted by Chatham-Chick

Posted by BellaPaige
However, I wonder how many of us stop to think what if it was my husband?



I can guarantee you that my husband wouldn't be hanging out in a place that was known for drugs and prostitution, especially the night before our wedding.



Neither are justifiable!!! There is a life that is taken and a young woman who is in pure agony over the loss. Instead of blaming lets us focus on the tragedy and sympathize with the family.
My husband would not be caught dead in such a place but at the same time I have to sympathize with the bride to be because it is such an unfortunate and hurtful situation. Life is very unpredictable and some of us may think that certain situations will never happen but it is silly to think that.



I agree with Bella.

Also, the girl could have been with one of the other guys. Or are we just accusing the murder victim of attempting to cheat.

Seriously, this is a person.

He's dead.

Chat Icon



Sasha, we are not accusing anyone of anything. Would Ant ride around with a stripper in his car at 4am? I know my husband wouldnt.



My husband would not do that but at the same time 50 shots are not justifiable.



50 shots is NOT justifiable at all, but I stand by my original opinion that these cops did not fire for no reason. What the f*ck was this guy thinking slamming into a police officer with his car not ONCE, but TWICE?

So, hitting someone with a car TWICE is justifiable, and the bullets are not?


Posted 11/27/06 11:16 AM
 

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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

Posted by DaniRella

Posted by Eva Luna

Posted by DaniRella

Posted by anonttcer

Posted by nixy

We can all speculate and say what should have happened...but none of us were there, none of carry a gun for our job, or have been put in this situation, so how can we comment on what the cops should have done?

They have the most thankless job in the world...



Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Thank you! Unless you were in that situation you have no right to judge. Nobody knows all the facts.
Try going to work every day and having to put on a bullet proof vest and fear that you might not make it home alive.
Then you can Monday morning quarterback.



Thank you BOTH!

For every time my brother walked (NO CAR) he walked ON FOOT (the midnight to 7am shift no less!) in the 75 (worst precinct in the city, average of five homicides a week)- for every person who threw a car battery from the top of a building aimed at his head- for my nephew, his son, who is only four years old... For my mother who went God knows how many nights w/o sleep wondering if he would make it home. For the officer (my brother's sargeant) who got shot two weeks after my brother's last day on the job (he got a job in Nassau which is a safer area so he took it)... For my sister who ran in tears to my brother's schedule to see if he would have been on the night that his sargeant got shot- and he would have- for everyone who knows what it is like to walk a day in their shoes. To be walking at 3am down a street in East New York that most of us would be nervous driving down in the middle of the day- to be walking and hear random gun shots over and over again on the block over- my brother and his partner just looked at each other and walked in the other direction towards a fire house, where they could try and stay for protection, for just a few hours- they did whatever they could to STAY ALIVE each night- THAT is how bad it is. A war in the middle east? Please! We have a war going on in our streets each day! I know, I lived it my whole life.

I'm going to leave it at that b/c I could go on all day. Chat Icon



I used to live on the 75th...ENY. My DH was born and raised there. Chat Icon for your brother & may he always stay safe.

But please know, not every young hispanic, black, minority male is a criminal. Not all are drugdealers. Not all are "at war".

DH's family still lives there. 3 young men. Students, sons, honest, NYers.

I think it would help to bring the cops patrolling these high risk areas with the people that live there. There's a LOT of mistrust between minorities and cops.

Why isn't this being funded?

Maybe tragedies could be avoided this way.

Both sides can learn from each other.



Thank you.

I never mentioned anything about a particular race- I don't look at it in regards to race- I look at it in regards to the crimes being committed. I think it would be nice if the people who live there- whether they are white, black, pink or purple to understand that the police are trying to do what they can to make the area that they live in the safest it can be.


Thanks again Chat Icon



You're so welcome!! Chat Icon

And there's no need to mention race. If you look at the demographics then you know which races reside in the 75th.

It would be great to be living in a color blind world, but we don't.

Again, minorities, for the most part, don't trust cops. Period.

It would be beautiful if efforts were made to connect the police with the citizens they are sworn in to "protect and serve".

I know this was discussed, but never came to fruition. That's unfortunate.

Posted 11/27/06 11:17 AM
 

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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

Posted by BellaPaige

Posted by HollaGirl

Posted by BellaPaige

Posted by HollaGirl

Posted by Eva Luna

Posted by BellaPaige

Posted by Chatham-Chick

Posted by BellaPaige
However, I wonder how many of us stop to think what if it was my husband?



I can guarantee you that my husband wouldn't be hanging out in a place that was known for drugs and prostitution, especially the night before our wedding.



Neither are justifiable!!! There is a life that is taken and a young woman who is in pure agony over the loss. Instead of blaming lets us focus on the tragedy and sympathize with the family.
My husband would not be caught dead in such a place but at the same time I have to sympathize with the bride to be because it is such an unfortunate and hurtful situation. Life is very unpredictable and some of us may think that certain situations will never happen but it is silly to think that.



I agree with Bella.

Also, the girl could have been with one of the other guys. Or are we just accusing the murder victim of attempting to cheat.

Seriously, this is a person.

He's dead.

Chat Icon



Sasha, we are not accusing anyone of anything. Would Ant ride around with a stripper in his car at 4am? I know my husband wouldnt.



My husband would not do that but at the same time 50 shots are not justifiable.



50 shots is NOT justifiable at all, but I stand by my original opinion that these cops did not fire for no reason. What the f*ck was this guy thinking slamming into a police officer with his car not ONCE, but TWICE?

So, hitting someone with a car TWICE is justifiable, and the bullets are not?





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Posted 11/27/06 11:17 AM
 

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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

Neither is justifiable but let's not forget that someone life is taken and a young woman is agony.

Posted 11/27/06 11:18 AM
 

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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

Posted by Eva Luna

I would hope to God he wouldn't...that's highly irresponsible, to say the least.

But it's pretty irrelevant at this point. That's what I'm trying to say.

No need to mention that because we don't know who the stripper was with.

We don't know all the facts, the whole story, from either side.

So I'm not sure why that's brought up repeatedly. It sounds like character assassination. Actually, a lot of the comments like their "arrest records" sound like this.

The trial hasn't happened yet, right?
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In my opinion it is relevant if you want to talk about the situation prior to having all the facts. It establishes a pattern of behavior, and perhaps it shows that the cops may have been justified in their shooting.

Posted 11/27/06 11:18 AM
 

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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

Posted by lululu

Posted by Eva Luna

I would hope to God he wouldn't...that's highly irresponsible, to say the least.

But it's pretty irrelevant at this point. That's what I'm trying to say.

No need to mention that because we don't know who the stripper was with.

We don't know all the facts, the whole story, from either side.

So I'm not sure why that's brought up repeatedly. It sounds like character assassination. Actually, a lot of the comments like their "arrest records" sound like this.

The trial hasn't happened yet, right?
Chat Icon



In my opinion it is relevant if you want to talk about the situation prior to having all the facts. It establishes a pattern of behavior, and perhaps it shows that the cops may have been justified in their shooting.



it's only relevant if they knew they had records- by running the plates on the car- them being on probation or parole or saw them committ a crime

Martha Stewart is a convicted felon- is it ok to shoot her?

Message edited 11/27/2006 11:21:56 AM.

Posted 11/27/06 11:21 AM
 

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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

Posted by lululu

Posted by Eva Luna

I would hope to God he wouldn't...that's highly irresponsible, to say the least.

But it's pretty irrelevant at this point. That's what I'm trying to say.

No need to mention that because we don't know who the stripper was with.

We don't know all the facts, the whole story, from either side.

So I'm not sure why that's brought up repeatedly. It sounds like character assassination. Actually, a lot of the comments like their "arrest records" sound like this.

The trial hasn't happened yet, right?
Chat Icon



In my opinion it is relevant if you want to talk about the situation prior to having all the facts. It establishes a pattern of behavior, and perhaps it shows that the cops may have been justified in their shooting.



A stripper leaving at the end of the day is relevant? Chat Icon

I don't think so...Chat Icon

ETA: And 50 shots IS NEVER JUSTIFIED. Sorry, don't care how it's spun.

Message edited 11/27/2006 11:22:28 AM.

Posted 11/27/06 11:21 AM
 

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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

Posted by Beth1210

Posted by lululu

Posted by Eva Luna

I would hope to God he wouldn't...that's highly irresponsible, to say the least.

But it's pretty irrelevant at this point. That's what I'm trying to say.

No need to mention that because we don't know who the stripper was with.

We don't know all the facts, the whole story, from either side.

So I'm not sure why that's brought up repeatedly. It sounds like character assassination. Actually, a lot of the comments like their "arrest records" sound like this.

The trial hasn't happened yet, right?
Chat Icon



In my opinion it is relevant if you want to talk about the situation prior to having all the facts. It establishes a pattern of behavior, and perhaps it shows that the cops may have been justified in their shooting.



it's only relevant if they knew they had records- by running the plates on the car- them being on probation or parole or saw them committ a crime

Martha Stewart is a convicted felon- is it ok to shoot her?



You are completely twisting my words. I am saying it establishes a pattern of behavior so in my opinion it means these guys quite possibly were up to no good.

And as for martha - the type of crime she was convicted of is completely different from the type of crime these people were convicted of. It wouldnt establish a PATTERN.

Posted 11/27/06 11:24 AM
 

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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

Posted by lululu

Posted by Beth1210

Posted by lululu

Posted by Eva Luna

I would hope to God he wouldn't...that's highly irresponsible, to say the least.

But it's pretty irrelevant at this point. That's what I'm trying to say.

No need to mention that because we don't know who the stripper was with.

We don't know all the facts, the whole story, from either side.

So I'm not sure why that's brought up repeatedly. It sounds like character assassination. Actually, a lot of the comments like their "arrest records" sound like this.

The trial hasn't happened yet, right?
Chat Icon



In my opinion it is relevant if you want to talk about the situation prior to having all the facts. It establishes a pattern of behavior, and perhaps it shows that the cops may have been justified in their shooting.



it's only relevant if they knew they had records- by running the plates on the car- them being on probation or parole or saw them committ a crime

Martha Stewart is a convicted felon- is it ok to shoot her?



You are completely twisting my words. I am saying it establishes a pattern of behavior so in my opinion it means these guys quite possibly were up to no good.

And as for martha - the type of crime she was convicted of is completely different from the type of crime these people were convicted of. It wouldnt establish a PATTERN.



Chat Icon Really? A crime is crime IMO.

Posted 11/27/06 11:26 AM
 

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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

my point is they couldn't have known they had a record before hand- it's basically impossible

so now that they do have records it's more justifiable?

more people then you think have records- and a felony is a felony regardless of the crime

Posted 11/27/06 11:27 AM
 

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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

Posted by BellaPaige

Chat Icon Really? A crime is crime IMO.



That's interesting - so i guess shoplifting is the same as murder then? Come on now, you're just being silly.

Wasnt one of these guys convicted of armed robbery?

Posted 11/27/06 11:28 AM
 

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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

Posted by lululu

Posted by Beth1210

Posted by lululu

Posted by Eva Luna

I would hope to God he wouldn't...that's highly irresponsible, to say the least.

But it's pretty irrelevant at this point. That's what I'm trying to say.

No need to mention that because we don't know who the stripper was with.

We don't know all the facts, the whole story, from either side.

So I'm not sure why that's brought up repeatedly. It sounds like character assassination. Actually, a lot of the comments like their "arrest records" sound like this.

The trial hasn't happened yet, right?
Chat Icon



In my opinion it is relevant if you want to talk about the situation prior to having all the facts. It establishes a pattern of behavior, and perhaps it shows that the cops may have been justified in their shooting.



it's only relevant if they knew they had records- by running the plates on the car- them being on probation or parole or saw them committ a crime

Martha Stewart is a convicted felon- is it ok to shoot her?



You are completely twisting my words. I am saying it establishes a pattern of behavior so in my opinion it means these guys quite possibly were up to no good.

And as for martha - the type of crime she was convicted of is completely different from the type of crime these people were convicted of. It wouldnt establish a PATTERN.


I'm not twisting your words. You were quoting me. That was a response to another poster regarding the stripper.

Let's not mash everything together to make a point.

Posted 11/27/06 11:28 AM
 

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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

Posted by lululu

Posted by BellaPaige

Chat Icon Really? A crime is crime IMO.



That's interesting - so i guess shoplifting is the same as murder then? Come on now, you're just being silly.

Wasnt one of these guys convicted of armed robbery?



shop lifting is not a felony

Posted 11/27/06 11:29 AM
 

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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

Posted by Beth1210

my point is they couldn't have known they had a record before hand- it's basically impossible

so now that they do have records it's more justifiable?

more people then you think have records- and a felony is a felony regardless of the crime



Obstruction of justice and murder are not the same, no matter how you slice it.

And I agree with lulu.

I cannot believe not one person is commenting about the fact that an off duty officer was hit by a car twice, unreal.

Posted 11/27/06 11:29 AM
 

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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

Posted by lululu

Posted by BellaPaige

Chat Icon Really? A crime is crime IMO.



That's interesting - so i guess shoplifting is the same as murder then? Come on now, you're just being silly.

Wasnt one of these guys convicted of armed robbery?



So because he was convicted of robbery that makes it right to kill?

Posted 11/27/06 11:29 AM
 

lululu
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Re: Groom Killed on Wedding Day

Posted by Beth1210

my point is they couldn't have known they had a record before hand- it's basically impossible

so now that they do have records it's more justifiable?

more people then you think have records- and a felony is a felony regardless of the crime



I DIDNT SAY THAT! PLEASE - read what i wrote!!!!

I said - the fact that these guys have records indicates to me that there is a good chance they were, in fact, up to something bad. I didnt say the cops knew they had records. i didnt say it was justifiable. and I am sorry but insider trading is much different than murder. all feonies are not equal.

Posted 11/27/06 11:30 AM
 
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