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patti08
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

People are people. I see no issues with heterosexual parents, homosexual parents, 2 parent households, single parent households. Working parents, stay at home parents...

As long as a loving and nurturing environment is provided for the child(ren) anyone who choses to can be a parent.

Posted 7/20/10 9:30 PM
 
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Tine73

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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

I am all for it!

Posted 7/20/10 9:34 PM
 

tara73
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

I don't care so long as they're good parents. I know many hetero folks that should have their ability to reproduce taken away.. but I know some gay folks who would/do make awesome parents.

I am very good friends with a woman who grew up with gay parents.. she is quite well adjusted I may add.

Posted 7/20/10 9:42 PM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

as others have mentioned, as long as the two parents can provide a stable environment, I am all for it

Posted 7/20/10 9:47 PM
 

Goldi0218
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

My thoughts?

"Hey, didn't I see you guys/gals at my RE's office on the day of my IUI?"Chat Icon

Live and let live. I couldn't care less as long as the child is loved.

Posted 7/20/10 9:48 PM
 

Janice
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

Most gay parents have dedicated their lives to taking care of children that heterosexual parents gave up.

Posted 7/20/10 9:48 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

Posted by KerriSteve

I think it's their right. Everyone deserves equal rights.



Amen. My best friend and his partner are in the process of adopting now and it kills me that anyone would think they would not be good parents just because they're both men. If anything, I think they'll make better parents than some heterosexual parents I know.
It's like a knife to the heart that this is even something debatable in this day and age. (generally speaking)

Posted 7/20/10 9:57 PM
 

wingsofsong
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

Posted by patti08

People are people. I see no issues with heterosexual parents, homosexual parents, 2 parent households, single parent households. Working parents, stay at home parents...

As long as a loving and nurturing environment is provided for the child(ren) anyone who choses to can be a parent.



I couldn't agree more!!

Posted 7/20/10 10:01 PM
 

Hofstra26
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

More power to them! Chat Icon Just because you're gay doesn't mean you shouldn't have the opportunity to experience parenthood. I think a gay couple can provide as much of a loving and caring home as any heterosexual couple and I cannot imagine denying anyone the amazing experience of being a mommy or daddy. Chat Icon

Posted 7/20/10 10:03 PM
 

mrswask
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

all for it!!!

Posted 7/20/10 10:13 PM
 

NextStopBabytown
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

My mom is gay (my father died when I was 12 and then my mom started seeing a woman a year later) and I am for gay couples having children.

Posted 7/20/10 10:23 PM
 

lucyloo
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

All for it, in fact I'm a reference for a same sex couple that is looking into adopting.

Posted 7/20/10 10:34 PM
 

BigB
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

My feeling is that if "they" want to jump into this insanity of parenthood, then I say "Go For It!"

Posted 7/20/10 10:40 PM
 

MsMBV
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

Posted by cookiemonster

I think it's far better for a child to grow up with parents who are role models for how to love, care for and respect one another, regardless if those parents happen to be a same-sex couple or a heterosexual couple.

I support it 100% provided the couple is ready and willing to love a child unconditionally and accept all the responsibilities that come with it. I'd give the exact same caveat for a straight couple.

I've heard some terrible things said about what supposedly happens to kids who grow up with gay parents, and it breaks my heart. Chat Icon There are plenty of people out there who are parents who should never have become parents. Denying someone who would be a great parent the opportunity to have that experience, based purely on their sexual orientation, is disgusting.

ITA!

Posted 7/20/10 10:41 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

As long as they are good parents, I"m fine with it.

Message edited 7/20/2010 10:44:16 PM.

Posted 7/20/10 10:43 PM
 

MrsSchwags
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

I agree with other posters about being all for it as long as the child is going to be raised in a loving home with supportive parents.

However, I tend to wonder how hard it is for that child growing up. We all know how evil reality is and how horrible kids can be.

Posted 7/20/10 10:53 PM
 

HomeIsWithU
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

I think its perfectly fine. I'd much rather see a child with two loving homosexual parents than in an abusive or otherwise bad home life with heterosexual parents. I dont think the sexual preferences of the parents should matter in the least bit as long as they love and care for the child with all their hearts.

Posted 7/21/10 1:07 AM
 

yankinmanc
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

I think its great, any parents in a stable relationship are in a great place to raise kids. The school where Noah is going to has the highest rate of same sex parents in the region.

Posted 7/21/10 4:53 AM
 

usuk2004
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

Posted by MrsSchwags
However, I tend to wonder how hard it is for that child growing up. We all know how evil reality is and how horrible kids can be.



I'd like to think this is changing now that it's becoming more and more common. And I think it's OUR responsibility to teach OUR children that there's nothing wrong with it.

I have friends who have a son that they fought very hard to get - he is THE most important thing in the world to them both and they're great parents. They all love one another so much it's an example to everyone, gay or straight.

Posted 7/21/10 5:07 AM
 

MrsPowers
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

To each his own, if it makes them happy then go for it. I think it is a great thing.

Posted 7/21/10 6:43 AM
 

ruby
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

I wouldn't even give it thought enough to pose a question about it. To me it's the same as hetero couples having children, parents are parents. As long as you love and provide for your child, who cares? Same as interracial couples, I don't think anything about it enough to pose a question about what people's thoughts are about it. To me there's no distinction and I don't think twice or even notice. People are people. Live and let live. Chat Icon

Posted 7/21/10 7:14 AM
 

chelle
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

100% ALL for it Chat Icon

Posted 7/21/10 7:20 AM
 

Faithx2
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

Posted by Deedlebugs

I have no problem with anyone being a parent, if they love, protect and care for their child.



Amen!

Posted 7/21/10 7:21 AM
 

Rycois
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

I support any loving environment for a child in need of one.

Posted 7/21/10 7:22 AM
 

leighdvm
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Re: SPR: What are your thoughts on gay couples having children?

To be completely honest, I have very conflicted feelings about it. My deep religious beliefs versus my "live and let live" beliefs....very conflicted....kind of like creation vs. evolution for me. I struggle with several topics like this.

Posted 7/21/10 8:04 AM
 
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