LIFamilies.com - Long Island, NY


RSS
Articles Business Directory Blog Real Estate Community Forum Shop My Family Contests

Log In Chat Index Search Rules Lingo Create Account

Quick navigation:   

Add To NotebookTHIS TOPIC HAS BEEN LOCKED New Topic New Poll Subscribe
Search This Topic For:   Search This Topic
Search This Topic

Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted By Message
Pages: << 5 6 7 [8] 9 10 11 >>

sometimesmommy
Always in my heart.....

Member since 11/06

6686 total posts

Name:

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

I think this has gone on long enough. Is it time yet to delete/lock the post? or is this the wrath (sorry I had to)

I dont know if to
Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
This thread has so many emotions and rightfully so but life is too short.

Posted 3/23/12 7:21 PM
 
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource

AScottWolf
I <3 our squish!

Member since 11/10

2237 total posts

Name:
Adriana

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Yo....

W Chat Icon
T Chat Icon
F Chat Icon

This is the internet... the INTERNET!

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Someone should write a book about lif and liw drama. I don't think people would believe it otherwise lol.

Posted 3/23/12 7:23 PM
 

Providence718
LIF Adolescent

Member since 7/11

820 total posts

Name:
Jennifer

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

I need an entire day to keep up with this thread ... I gave up and told DH that I need to quit my job and make posting and reading posts my full time job

Posted 3/23/12 7:26 PM
 

timefortwo
LIF Infant

Member since 10/11

321 total posts

Name:

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by Deedlebugs

Can you believe how fat Jessica Simpson is?

Crap, wrong thread



bullyingChat Icon

Posted 3/23/12 8:15 PM
 

headoverheels
s'il vous plaît

Member since 6/07

42079 total posts

Name:
LB

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by colette

12,000+ views.
Amazing.

For the folks who are SOOO shocked/offended/tired/ of the drama, and find a way to post that AT LEAST 3x a week, the fact that you're still here tells me you're not *that* bored with it all.

For the folks who are SOOOO offended at the bashing, yet begin their posts with "I don't know the whole story here but..."

perhaps you should step away from your ORGY of self-righteousness long enough to question WHY a community would turn so quickly and so thoroughly on one of their own - whom they've seen fit to help out (putting it MILDLY) for years. Hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

perhaps you should wonder why otherwise "nice" posters would weigh in/make light of a PSA from a poster who has done a lot of really UNKIND things to a LOT of people here, LIF as a business included.. hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

perhaps question why LIF is sitting back letting this unfold a bit longer than they normally would.... hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

Anyone who thinks this is such a crazy volatile unfriendly nasty place that grown women will just up and attack you for NO REASON, I hate to burst your bubble of naivete but that is just not the case. If you worry that the wrath will be turned on YOU at some point, here's a tip: Don't be an assshole and you'll be fine.




Colette this is the best birthday present ever Chat Icon

My personal favorites are the posters on here who have also participated in some SERIOUSLY shady shit but still think it's appropriate to get up on their soapbox to tell posters how terrible they are for posting well, um, the truth.

Some people on here know NEXT TO NOTHING about being honest, good, or truthful and should STFU because karma WILL bite them in the arse.

Posted 3/23/12 8:19 PM
 

smdl
I love Gary too..on a plate!

Member since 5/06

32461 total posts

Name:
me

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by colette

12,000+ views.
Amazing.

For the folks who are SOOO shocked/offended/tired/ of the drama, and find a way to post that AT LEAST 3x a week, the fact that you're still here tells me you're not *that* bored with it all.

For the folks who are SOOOO offended at the bashing, yet begin their posts with "I don't know the whole story here but..."

perhaps you should step away from your ORGY of self-righteousness long enough to question WHY a community would turn so quickly and so thoroughly on one of their own - whom they've seen fit to help out (putting it MILDLY) for years. Hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

perhaps you should wonder why otherwise "nice" posters would weigh in/make light of a PSA from a poster who has done a lot of really UNKIND things to a LOT of people here, LIF as a business included.. hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

perhaps question why LIF is sitting back letting this unfold a bit longer than they normally would.... hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

Anyone who thinks this is such a crazy volatile unfriendly nasty place that grown women will just up and attack you for NO REASON, I hate to burst your bubble of naivete but that is just not the case. If you worry that the wrath will be turned on YOU at some point, here's a tip: Don't be an assshole and you'll be fine.




I love you right now!Chat Icon

Posted 3/23/12 8:19 PM
 

MrsPJB2007
MBA at your service!

Member since 7/06

12020 total posts

Name:
MJ

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by colette

12,000+ views.
Amazing.

For the folks who are SOOO shocked/offended/tired/ of the drama, and find a way to post that AT LEAST 3x a week, the fact that you're still here tells me you're not *that* bored with it all.

For the folks who are SOOOO offended at the bashing, yet begin their posts with "I don't know the whole story here but..."

perhaps you should step away from your ORGY of self-righteousness long enough to question WHY a community would turn so quickly and so thoroughly on one of their own - whom they've seen fit to help out (putting it MILDLY) for years. Hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

perhaps you should wonder why otherwise "nice" posters would weigh in/make light of a PSA from a poster who has done a lot of really UNKIND things to a LOT of people here, LIF as a business included.. hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

perhaps question why LIF is sitting back letting this unfold a bit longer than they normally would.... hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

Anyone who thinks this is such a crazy volatile unfriendly nasty place that grown women will just up and attack you for NO REASON, I hate to burst your bubble of naivete but that is just not the case. If you worry that the wrath will be turned on YOU at some point, here's a tip: Don't be an assshole and you'll be fine.





This might be one of the greatest things I've ever read on this website.

Posted 3/23/12 8:27 PM
 

twicethefun
Loving life

Member since 7/06

4088 total posts

Name:

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by jennylu

I happen to take bullying very seriously, and OK maybe on this thread it MIGHT apply (although I doubt it), so I wanted to express my opinion about the overuse of that term and look what's happened. Arent I being bullied now? This is so silly.




No at this point, it still sounds like a difference of opinion.

If they were calling you names or making you afraid to post/be somewhere then that is bullying. I think you might want to look back at your own definition and then apply that to any location/activity that a person chooses.

Message edited 3/23/2012 8:29:10 PM.

Posted 3/23/12 8:28 PM
 

dm24angel
Happiness

Member since 5/05

34581 total posts

Name:
Donna

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by smdl

Posted by colette

12,000+ views.
Amazing.

For the folks who are SOOO shocked/offended/tired/ of the drama, and find a way to post that AT LEAST 3x a week, the fact that you're still here tells me you're not *that* bored with it all.

For the folks who are SOOOO offended at the bashing, yet begin their posts with "I don't know the whole story here but..."

perhaps you should step away from your ORGY of self-righteousness long enough to question WHY a community would turn so quickly and so thoroughly on one of their own - whom they've seen fit to help out (putting it MILDLY) for years. Hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

perhaps you should wonder why otherwise "nice" posters would weigh in/make light of a PSA from a poster who has done a lot of really UNKIND things to a LOT of people here, LIF as a business included.. hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

perhaps question why LIF is sitting back letting this unfold a bit longer than they normally would.... hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

Anyone who thinks this is such a crazy volatile unfriendly nasty place that grown women will just up and attack you for NO REASON, I hate to burst your bubble of naivete but that is just not the case. If you worry that the wrath will be turned on YOU at some point, here's a tip: Don't be an assshole and you'll be fine.




I love you right now!Chat Icon



I dont mean to say this in a mean way so I hope it doesn't come across that way, but none of these points are very valid to this thread. They might have been on page say 2, before this became the clusterf@ck it did.

Because almost everyone agreed with them all already.

No-one is saying anyone was attacked "for no reason".

No-one is saying anyone was making 'light of it for no reason."

No-one was saying that the community should NOT " have turned on Janet" .

All your points...We all agree with you.

Many do NOT agree that it ok to behave like children when we are capable of being adults. Simple as that.

Not everything is a freaking joke . Why not just say Janets a jerk because and list it?

The passive agressive, nasty ugly remarks, picking on her mom and her intelligence, etc. Thats just uncalled for and enrages people...almost as much if not just as much as it enrages them what Janet did.

Presentation is everything sometimes.

And it's quite sad because some people were really hurt by actions of Janet, but explaining that without all the passive agressive, just to get a laugh behavior might have made someone take it seriously, most just see those people as ridiculous and evil spirited instead.



Posted 3/23/12 8:32 PM
 

timefortwo
LIF Infant

Member since 10/11

321 total posts

Name:

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by dm24angel

Posted by smdl

Posted by colette

12,000+ views.
Amazing.

For the folks who are SOOO shocked/offended/tired/ of the drama, and find a way to post that AT LEAST 3x a week, the fact that you're still here tells me you're not *that* bored with it all.

For the folks who are SOOOO offended at the bashing, yet begin their posts with "I don't know the whole story here but..."

perhaps you should step away from your ORGY of self-righteousness long enough to question WHY a community would turn so quickly and so thoroughly on one of their own - whom they've seen fit to help out (putting it MILDLY) for years. Hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

perhaps you should wonder why otherwise "nice" posters would weigh in/make light of a PSA from a poster who has done a lot of really UNKIND things to a LOT of people here, LIF as a business included.. hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

perhaps question why LIF is sitting back letting this unfold a bit longer than they normally would.... hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

Anyone who thinks this is such a crazy volatile unfriendly nasty place that grown women will just up and attack you for NO REASON, I hate to burst your bubble of naivete but that is just not the case. If you worry that the wrath will be turned on YOU at some point, here's a tip: Don't be an assshole and you'll be fine.




I love you right now!Chat Icon



I dont mean to say this in a mean way so I hope it doesn't come across that way, but none of these points are very valid to this thread. They might have been on page say 2, before this became the clusterf@ck it did.

Because almost everyone agreed with them all already.

No-one is saying anyone was attacked "for no reason".

No-one is saying anyone was making 'light of it for no reason."

No-one was saying that the community should NOT " have turned on Janet" .

All your points...We all agree with you.

Many do NOT agree that it ok to behave like children when we are capable of being adults. Simple as that.

Not everything is a freaking joke . Why not just say Janets a jerk because and list it?

The passive agressive, nasty ugly remarks, picking on her mom and her intelligence, etc. Thats just uncalled for and enrages people...almost as much if not just as much as it enrages them what Janet did.

Presentation is everything sometimes.

And it's quite sad because some people were really hurt by actions of Janet, but explaining that without all the passive agressive, just to get a laugh behavior might have made someone take it seriously, most just see those people as ridiculous and evil spirited instead.






i love you right now Chat Icon

Posted 3/23/12 8:36 PM
 

MrsDrMatt
Live and RUN like a Ninja!

Member since 5/06

3104 total posts

Name:
MrsDrMatt

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

consider this folks...

Obviously Ron, Liz and folks also feel pissed at her as well. They let the "bash Janet thread live for 16 hours as well as this one too". Long enough for people to read but they didn't leave it up permamently as to look badly.

Revenge is a ***** I would say

Posted 3/23/12 8:36 PM
 

dm24angel
Happiness

Member since 5/05

34581 total posts

Name:
Donna

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by headoverheels

Posted by colette

12,000+ views.
Amazing.

For the folks who are SOOO shocked/offended/tired/ of the drama, and find a way to post that AT LEAST 3x a week, the fact that you're still here tells me you're not *that* bored with it all.

For the folks who are SOOOO offended at the bashing, yet begin their posts with "I don't know the whole story here but..."

perhaps you should step away from your ORGY of self-righteousness long enough to question WHY a community would turn so quickly and so thoroughly on one of their own - whom they've seen fit to help out (putting it MILDLY) for years. Hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

perhaps you should wonder why otherwise "nice" posters would weigh in/make light of a PSA from a poster who has done a lot of really UNKIND things to a LOT of people here, LIF as a business included.. hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

perhaps question why LIF is sitting back letting this unfold a bit longer than they normally would.... hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

Anyone who thinks this is such a crazy volatile unfriendly nasty place that grown women will just up and attack you for NO REASON, I hate to burst your bubble of naivete but that is just not the case. If you worry that the wrath will be turned on YOU at some point, here's a tip: Don't be an assshole and you'll be fine.




Colette this is the best birthday present ever Chat Icon

My personal favorites are the posters on here who have also participated in some SERIOUSLY shady shit but still think it's appropriate to get up on their soapbox to tell posters how terrible they are for posting well, um, the truth.

Some people on here know NEXT TO NOTHING about being honest, good, or truthful and should STFU because karma WILL bite them in the arse.



I dont understand this LB. It's like people are reading two different posts, or justhave some weird glasses on.

Where on this thread did ANYONE tell anyone else how terrible they were for posting the truth? I don't understand your anger when that never even happened?

People are ANGRY because posting about Janets mentally ill mom is not f##king funny, it is sad, and a bit disgusting and makes people question the mental capacity of the poster.

Making fun of Janet's dyslexia? NOT funny. Sad ...very sad.

Saying Janet was a con artist....AGREED upon by EVERYONE .

I think you guys need to re-read this thread before arguing about who did what to who. you seem to have it all wrong.

Posted 3/23/12 8:37 PM
 

timefortwo
LIF Infant

Member since 10/11

321 total posts

Name:

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by dm24angel

Posted by headoverheels

Posted by colette

12,000+ views.
Amazing.

For the folks who are SOOO shocked/offended/tired/ of the drama, and find a way to post that AT LEAST 3x a week, the fact that you're still here tells me you're not *that* bored with it all.

For the folks who are SOOOO offended at the bashing, yet begin their posts with "I don't know the whole story here but..."

perhaps you should step away from your ORGY of self-righteousness long enough to question WHY a community would turn so quickly and so thoroughly on one of their own - whom they've seen fit to help out (putting it MILDLY) for years. Hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

perhaps you should wonder why otherwise "nice" posters would weigh in/make light of a PSA from a poster who has done a lot of really UNKIND things to a LOT of people here, LIF as a business included.. hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

perhaps question why LIF is sitting back letting this unfold a bit longer than they normally would.... hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

Anyone who thinks this is such a crazy volatile unfriendly nasty place that grown women will just up and attack you for NO REASON, I hate to burst your bubble of naivete but that is just not the case. If you worry that the wrath will be turned on YOU at some point, here's a tip: Don't be an assshole and you'll be fine.




Colette this is the best birthday present ever Chat Icon

My personal favorites are the posters on here who have also participated in some SERIOUSLY shady shit but still think it's appropriate to get up on their soapbox to tell posters how terrible they are for posting well, um, the truth.

Some people on here know NEXT TO NOTHING about being honest, good, or truthful and should STFU because karma WILL bite them in the arse.



I dont understand this LB. It's like people are reading two different posts, or justhave some weird glasses on.

Where on this thread did ANYONE tell anyone else how terrible they were for posting the truth? I don't understand your anger when that never even happened?

People are ANGRY because posting about Janets mentally ill mom is not f##king funny, it is sad, and a bit disgusting and makes people question the mental capacity of the poster.

Making fun of Janet's dyslexia? NOT funny. Sad ...very sad.

Saying Janet was a con artist....AGREED upon by EVERYONE .

I think you guys need to re-read this thread before arguing about who did what to who. you seem to have it all wrong.



no. the issue is that some posters have compassion for Janet because she may possibly have "mental issues" causing her to act certain ways and not understand certain things - leading to strange posts and actions that a healthy person may not make.

"other" posters have no compassion and state that it is not due to a mental illness but due to the fact that janet just wants to take advantage of people. so, they are fed up.

either way, no one knows so everyone should just calm the fuckk down and have a drink Chat Icon ITS FRIDAY PEOPLE.

Posted 3/23/12 8:42 PM
 

EatingMyVeggies

Member since 1/12

6667 total posts

Name:

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Silly girls. Janet's GOAL wasn't to make sure we all had living wills, it was to drop a kernel and see it blast off into Jiffy Pop overflowing on the stove.

Conniving. Manipulative. Not just to win tickets, gain sympathy and get free support, but I'm sure this is a character that would also know how to cause a shit-storm within LIF's population, and start a war within each other, all the while she sits back silent and is able to get some satisfaction from it.

If it were different, she would have responded.

She knew what she was doing, and it looks like she succeeded.

Posted 3/23/12 8:43 PM
 

headoverheels
s'il vous plaît

Member since 6/07

42079 total posts

Name:
LB

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by cncforever

Silly girls. Janet's GOAL wasn't to make sure we all had living wills, it was to drop a kernel and see it blast off into Jiffy Pop overflowing on the stove.

Conniving. Manipulative. Not just to win tickets, gain sympathy and get free support, but I'm sure this is a character that would also know how to cause a shit-storm within LIF's population, and start a war within each other, all the while she sits back silent and is able to get some satisfaction from it.

If it were different, she would have responded.

She knew what she was doing, and it looks like she succeeded.




You're so efffing right. I'm done with this thread. Cheers everyone. It's my mother-efffing birthday!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/23/12 9:41 PM
 

RocPin
Life's Beachy <3

Member since 2/08

6765 total posts

Name:
Heather

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by Bearcat

WTF



I second that.Chat Icon

Posted 3/23/12 10:18 PM
 

MC09
arrrghhh!!!!

Member since 2/09

5674 total posts

Name:
Me speaks pirate!

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by dm24angel

Posted by smdl

Posted by colette

12,000+ views.
Amazing.

For the folks who are SOOO shocked/offended/tired/ of the drama, and find a way to post that AT LEAST 3x a week, the fact that you're still here tells me you're not *that* bored with it all.

For the folks who are SOOOO offended at the bashing, yet begin their posts with "I don't know the whole story here but..."

perhaps you should step away from your ORGY of self-righteousness long enough to question WHY a community would turn so quickly and so thoroughly on one of their own - whom they've seen fit to help out (putting it MILDLY) for years. Hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

perhaps you should wonder why otherwise "nice" posters would weigh in/make light of a PSA from a poster who has done a lot of really UNKIND things to a LOT of people here, LIF as a business included.. hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

perhaps question why LIF is sitting back letting this unfold a bit longer than they normally would.... hmmm maybe there's a REASON.

Anyone who thinks this is such a crazy volatile unfriendly nasty place that grown women will just up and attack you for NO REASON, I hate to burst your bubble of naivete but that is just not the case. If you worry that the wrath will be turned on YOU at some point, here's a tip: Don't be an assshole and you'll be fine.




I love you right now!Chat Icon



I dont mean to say this in a mean way so I hope it doesn't come across that way, but none of these points are very valid to this thread. They might have been on page say 2, before this became the clusterf@ck it did.

Because almost everyone agreed with them all already.

No-one is saying anyone was attacked "for no reason".

No-one is saying anyone was making 'light of it for no reason."

No-one was saying that the community should NOT " have turned on Janet" .

All your points...We all agree with you.

Many do NOT agree that it ok to behave like children when we are capable of being adults. Simple as that.

Not everything is a freaking joke . Why not just say Janets a jerk because and list it?

The passive agressive, nasty ugly remarks, picking on her mom and her intelligence, etc. Thats just uncalled for and enrages people...almost as much if not just as much as it enrages them what Janet did.

Presentation is everything sometimes.

And it's quite sad because some people were really hurt by actions of Janet, but explaining that without all the passive agressive, just to get a laugh behavior might have made someone take it seriously, most just see those people as ridiculous and evil spirited instead.





Chat Icon Thank you for putting into words what I couldn't.. and so eloquently to boot... If the LIF community feels wronged by this Janet person, there are less inflammatory ways of expressing that... To those of us who don't know what went down, it just sounds like a group of people attacking someone who may (or may not) have some illness... and her mother, and because she won some free tickets Chat Icon and honestly, bringing up her mother is just wrong regardless of what occurred... Instead of enlightening those of us who have no back story, it just continues to comes off as a mean-spirited attack with no justification.. because nobody who was wronged is stepping up to actually justify their commentary... beyond just saying "hmmm maybe there's a reason".. but then never actually stating this elusive mysterious reason... so, then tell us what happened?!... this whole PSA watch out for janet and her antics is lost on us when below the belt insults are thrown into the mix... Just offering the perspective from this side of the fence.

Posted 3/23/12 10:45 PM
 

neenie

Member since 5/05

22351 total posts

Name:

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

I'm not trying to be preachy or anything, but i feel like (in some circles), alluding to the fact that someone may be mentally retarded to some degree (based on nothing but your own idea of what that is), might be seen as a form of bullying.

I'm not saying it's bullying, but just how we all throw that word around with different definitions.... That's all. Carry on Chat Icon

Posted 3/23/12 10:49 PM
 

Stacey1403
Where it all began....

Member since 5/05

24065 total posts

Name:

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by neenie

I'm not trying to be preachy or anything, but i feel like (in some circles), alluding to the fact that someone may be mentally retarded to some degree (based on nothing but your own idea of what that is), might be seen as a form of bullying.

I'm not saying it's bullying, but just how we all throw that word around with different definitions.... That's all. Carry on Chat Icon





Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/23/12 11:43 PM
 

MrsC614
My little angel is here <3

Member since 7/09

2851 total posts

Name:
Gina

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

i just have to say this: i did a search regarding the OP, and i am BLOWN AWAY by all the love, support, help, money, etc that you gave to her. you guys ALL really pulled through for her for YEARS! From start to finish. Between GTG and rebuilding her house from the ground up, WOW. I don't know what specifically happened to have ended that relationship, or what went on with Ron and the rest of the LIF staff. But I now have a better understanding as to why you guys are so upset. You are all a very special bunch of ladies. I can see why some of you would be skeptical to help out after that experience, and why people who need help would be a little aphrensive to ask after that.

Again, i don't know what the final straw was, but someone said that they think that she just posted this post to see what would happen, referenced a kernal of popcorn exploding (don't remember who it was), but i think you are right. i mean, if her intentions were pure, and she wasn't guilty of something, she would have come on here and defended herself already. I have to say, that i was taken back by some of the comments on here. i don't think i understood until now the magnitude of the situation, and how much you guys helped her through that time in her life. it's amazing. so, i just wanted to say that i think you all are very special for doing what you did. Chat Icon that's all.

Posted 3/23/12 11:52 PM
 

Goobster
:)

Member since 5/07

27557 total posts

Name:
:)

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by MrsC614

Again, i don't know what the final straw was, but someone said that they think that she just posted this post to see what would happen, referenced a kernal of popcorn exploding (don't remember who it was), but i think you are right. i mean, if her intentions were pure, and she wasn't guilty of something, she would have come on here and defended herself already.



I have been reading posts also. Trying to understand what went wrong. Can't really find that info but what I did notice was the thread about the proxy that Janet posted in her OP, I found numerous posts of hers over the years about proxys.

One major thing I noticed is that the thread she referenced in her OP....she has bumped that thread every year at this time in March since she posted in 2008. She bumped it in 2009, 2010, 2011 and again today. I believe in her original thread she posted that it was the 3rd anniversary of her Dhs death and she was bumping each year in memory of his death. Hence her bump today (along with the statement about the death of her DDs teacher, which has also come at the same time as the anniversary of her Dhs death).

I just found that interesting. As outsiders not knowing the full story, I am still confused. Is she truly a mastermind who is being conniving? Or is she posting a thread (with a link to an old bumped thread) to commemorate her DHs death at this time of the year?

I just can't seem to find what transpired that went so wrong. Wish someone would post what actually went down, so that we can fully grasp what is going on.

Message edited 3/24/2012 12:36:02 AM.

Posted 3/24/12 12:01 AM
 

ElizaRags35
My 2 Girls

Member since 2/09

20494 total posts

Name:
Me

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by headoverheels

Posted by cncforever

Silly girls. Janet's GOAL wasn't to make sure we all had living wills, it was to drop a kernel and see it blast off into Jiffy Pop overflowing on the stove.

Conniving. Manipulative. Not just to win tickets, gain sympathy and get free support, but I'm sure this is a character that would also know how to cause a shit-storm within LIF's population, and start a war within each other, all the while she sits back silent and is able to get some satisfaction from it.

If it were different, she would have responded.

She knew what she was doing, and it looks like she succeeded.




You're so efffing right. I'm done with this thread. Cheers everyone. It's my mother-efffing birthday!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



It's my birthday too! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/24/12 12:02 AM
 

MrsC614
My little angel is here <3

Member since 7/09

2851 total posts

Name:
Gina

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by ElizaRags35

Posted by headoverheels

Posted by cncforever

Silly girls. Janet's GOAL wasn't to make sure we all had living wills, it was to drop a kernel and see it blast off into Jiffy Pop overflowing on the stove.

Conniving. Manipulative. Not just to win tickets, gain sympathy and get free support, but I'm sure this is a character that would also know how to cause a shit-storm within LIF's population, and start a war within each other, all the while she sits back silent and is able to get some satisfaction from it.

If it were different, she would have responded.

She knew what she was doing, and it looks like she succeeded.




You're so efffing right. I'm done with this thread. Cheers everyone. It's my mother-efffing birthday!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



It's my birthday too! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon




Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/24/12 12:08 AM
 

janet
WITH LOVE MY ANGEL MISS YOU!!!

Member since 5/05

12823 total posts

Name:
janet

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

I have NOTHING to defend from the little i have read from this thread. I came on here simply to state to MAKE SURE YOU HAVE YOUR PAPERS IN ORDER AN NOT SUFFER AS I DID. I DID NOTHING WRONG TO ANYONE HERE. UNLESS YOU TAKE THE WORDS OF SOMEONE who is BANNED from here and those who follow the word of her. THE SAME VERY PERSON (S) who pick on ever single one of you behind your backs, NO ONE IS SAFE FROM THIS SITE .. VERY REASON I AM BARELY HERE anymore. I WILL not go further into this then that cause it only feds into their beliefs... you want to question me then you will do it the adult way. I do not never have and never will play the high school game..... go to my fb find my friends from high school and see that I NEVER played that game. SORRY not gonna take the fall. AND IF LIZ and RON felt I did something wrong with them , then would have said something to me , which they have NOT.
Those who feel i have a "mental" disease guess what your RIGHT it is called LOSING MY SOUL MATE. MAY YOU NEVER FEEL THAT. AND BEFORE SOMEONE SAYS ANYTHING GUESS WHAT YOU DONT KNOW, I KNOW OF 3 PEOPLE WHO TRULY KNOW the feeling(from LIF).ps. I still sleep EVERY NIGHT with Keiths teddy bear. I never scammed as some may think I have , if you did feel that, guess what again your wrong. everything was VERY TRUE, I lost my husband , I lost my house, at the same time, all money is accounted for to rebuilding my home, WHICH AGAIN I AM VERY GRATEFUL FOR... look back i could not have posted about the thanks again again and again, even tried many of time to have a G2G here to show off the LIF house that was built. Not till it was said at another g2g that , well now that I know you , i feel better going to a g2g at your house i knew what was felt by many.

BOTTOM LINE IS , IF YOU WANT TO SEE where all the money went, guess what I have records of it ALL....I NEVER SCAMMED ANYONE!!!!!!!!!!! NEVER! FM ME AND WE CAN TALK. I WILL NOT DO IT IN A PUBLIC FORUM! Most feelings came from the fact yes I win a lot, CAUSE GUESS WHAT I ENTER A LOT. I have not one but 2 Families. MY TRUE FAMILY and my BIRTH family... I WAS ADOPTED. MANY ARE CONFUSED BY THAT. (my real family has NOTHING to do with LIF and yet my birth family does, you connect the dots(birth sister,who I have NOTHING TO DO WITH)

so again till you actually get to know me dont judge cause you have NO CLUE who i am..... what comes through typing on a computer is NOT WHO I AM. I am VERY bad at spelling and at expressing myself in writing. take it as you may.... FM me or heck actually get to know me in real life(and not just 2 or 3 times but over REAL TIME), you many be presently surprised!

BOTTOM LINE IS I NEVER WANT TO SEE SOMEONE GO THREW WHAT I DID!!!!! AND STILL GOING THREW 6 YEARS LATER! GET YOUR WILLS,LIVING WILLS ECT IN ORDER!!!! Keith was 34 years old when he had his first stroke on St. Patties day in 2006, his second stroke 4 days later
and was gone after that. all due to a work injury. so think it will not happen to you and you have time YOUR WRONG. TOMORROW IS NOT A PROMISE ! That is MY BOTTOM LINE!

Ps. Just after I made this post, I got a call rom afriends daughter that she was in terrible pain and I am sitting at the exact hospital where keith layed dying 6 years ago....... a true friend would only do that

Image Attachment(s):

Message edited 3/24/2012 2:52:27 AM.

Posted 3/24/12 12:48 AM
 

headoverheels
s'il vous plaît

Member since 6/07

42079 total posts

Name:
LB

Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by MrsC614

Posted by ElizaRags35

Posted by headoverheels

Posted by cncforever

Silly girls. Janet's GOAL wasn't to make sure we all had living wills, it was to drop a kernel and see it blast off into Jiffy Pop overflowing on the stove.

Conniving. Manipulative. Not just to win tickets, gain sympathy and get free support, but I'm sure this is a character that would also know how to cause a shit-storm within LIF's population, and start a war within each other, all the while she sits back silent and is able to get some satisfaction from it.

If it were different, she would have responded.

She knew what she was doing, and it looks like she succeeded.




You're so efffing right. I'm done with this thread. Cheers everyone. It's my mother-efffing birthday!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



It's my birthday too! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon




Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Happy Birthday Eliza!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/24/12 7:06 AM
 
Pages: << 5 6 7 [8] 9 10 11 >>
 
Quick navigation:   
Currently 644487 users on the LIFamilies.com Chat
New Businesses
1 More Rep
Carleton Hall of East Islip
J&A Building Services
LaraMae Health Coaching
Sonic Wellness
Julbaby Photography LLC
Ideal Uniforms
Teresa Geraghty Photography
Camelot Dream Homes
Long Island Wedding Boutique
MB Febus- Rodan & Fields
Camp Harbor
Market America-Shop.com
ACM Basement Waterproofing
Travel Tom

      Follow LIWeddings on Facebook

      Follow LIFamilies on Twitter
Long Island Bridal Shows