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Re: SAHM's with Kids in Full time School
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Posted by afternoondelight828
Posted by itsbabytime
Why is everyone still debating with this poster? This thread is ridiculous and pathetic and reeks of insecurity. I have friends of older kids that are very involved in their lives and you know what - their kids are amazing and accomplished because of it. My guess is the op feels down about herself and her family and is trying to make herself feel
Better and justified in this thread. It's actually sad how she keeps feeling the need to refer back to the few posters that agree with her. Actually every thread she posts is just
As ignorant and self serving. Just like the last one where she had to prove that everyone was carrying significant debt or lying bout it. Sorry - op, it's just u. I wouldn't even engage it anymore.
Wow from me asking what moms of older kids do when they stay home to now me being down on myself and insecure. Bawahhh..what a laugh.
Seems the only people who have a problem is the ones who, are not even in the situation I have discussed and want to put their 2 cents in.
This discussion actually started out with my dh who asked the question so I asked it to REAL SAHM's.
I'll try not to let any of my own life experience's to flow into this board anymore as it seems knowing different sides and many different types of people (like I do) is wrong on this board and when you give an example, you are basically told you are making things up and unhappy with your own life. lol.
I'm sorry afternoon but I agree with everything itsbabytime and hofstra have said. Just be real - you don't really care what SAHMs of older children do all day long. You just want them to ADMIT that they have tons of free time but are lying to their husbands to make it seem like they are soooo busy, just so they can stay home and not make any worth while contribution to society. So that's what your original post should say. Don't do it under the facade of "what do you do all day?" as if you are looking for suggestions. Just say "Why don't all the SAHMs of older kids admit that they are living in the lap of luxury and lying to the world about how busy they are?"
But again, either way it does come off as you are jealous. Let me guess, your sister with the pool who doesn't allow your kids to come over any time they want is a SAHM to kids who are in school all day.
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Re: SAHM's with Kids in Full time School
Posted by BargainMama
Posted by lululu
Posted by afternoondelight828
Posted by itsbabytime
Why is everyone still debating with this poster? This thread is ridiculous and pathetic and reeks of insecurity. I have friends of older kids that are very involved in their lives and you know what - their kids are amazing and accomplished because of it. My guess is the op feels down about herself and her family and is trying to make herself feel
Better and justified in this thread. It's actually sad how she keeps feeling the need to refer back to the few posters that agree with her. Actually every thread she posts is just
As ignorant and self serving. Just like the last one where she had to prove that everyone was carrying significant debt or lying bout it. Sorry - op, it's just u. I wouldn't even engage it anymore.
Wow from me asking what moms of older kids do when they stay home to now me being down on myself and insecure. Bawahhh..what a laugh.
Seems the only people who have a problem is the ones who, are not even in the situation I have discussed and want to put their 2 cents in.
This discussion actually started out with my dh who asked the question so I asked it to REAL SAHM's.
I'll try not to let any of my own life experience's to flow into this board anymore as it seems knowing different sides and many different types of people (like I do) is wrong on this board and when you give an example, you are basically told you are making things up and unhappy with your own life. lol.
I'm sorry afternoon but I agree with everything itsbabytime and hofstra have said. Just be real - you don't really care what SAHMs of older children do all day long. You just want them to ADMIT that they have tons of free time but are lying to their husbands to make it seem like they are soooo busy, just so they can stay home and not make any worth while contribution to society. So that's what your original post should say. Don't do it under the facade of "what do you do all day?" as if you are looking for suggestions. Just say "Why don't all the SAHMs of older kids admit that they are living in the lap of luxury and lying to the world about how busy they are?"
But again, either way it does come off as you are jealous. Let me guess, your sister with the pool who doesn't allow your kids to come over any time they want is a SAHM to kids who are in school all day.
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Re: SAHM's with Kids in Full time School
Posted by KarenK122
I am not going to go back in forth with you because obviously you do not care about others views but you are the most condescending person I have read in months on these boards. How about keep your judgments to yourself and worry about your own life and not belittle others for theirs. No SAHM needs to prove their worth to you. This is problem with women, try supporting other people's choices rather than tearing them down.
Absolutely.
She's a total piece of work. Unbelievable.
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Re: SAHM's with Kids in Full time School
I have heard from older parents that kids need their parents the most in their teenage years. HS students get let out early and those hours between 2 and 8pm are crucial. A lot can happen in those hours. Kids can waste that time and just do nothing. They can be doing drugs, having sex, hanging out with the wrong kids, be bullied, etc. They can be doing extracurriculars and studying so that they get into a top college. It isn't necessarily about what the mom is doing in those 6 hrs when kids are at school. It's about being there for them when they get out of school and you would not be able to do that if you worked.
I'm on the PTA board with another mom who also has a HS daughter. She seems insanely busy. The HS daughter is busy and the mom is busy taking her to her million activities.
eta: I do not plan to be a SAHM when my kids are in high school. this is just what I have heard from older moms.
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Re: SAHM's with Kids in Full time School
Posted by afternoondelight828
Posted by JME78
This thread is so ridiculous.
Everyone has different lives, priorities, goals, finances, etc, etc, etc.
Just enjoy your own life. I never ever understood the need to compare or act superior to another. As long as all of our kids are healthy and happy, isn't that all that matters?
I agree. If you read my posts, I wasn't trying to do that. Just wondering what people who have older kids do with their 7 + hours a day.
Something you are not considering is the cost of aftercare versus the actual financial benefit of working. I am fortunate I was able to find a 9-2 part time job because paying for aftercare is very expensive. My kids are in private nursery and their center quoted me an extra $1500/month for TWO days of aftercare. This was more than it would make working two full days take home. I had to turn down the job but then I was lucky they came back to me and offered mornings only. Plus who would pick up my three 3 year olds? Who has three car seats in a car? My 75 yo mom? I would not put that burden on my mom who has already raised her kids and would like to enjoy her retirement. I also can't pay a sitter $20/hour to watch my kids when I take home about that.
So I was lucky to find a school hours job but not all moms can. And just because they want to be there when they get home to avoid the 7 pm dinner/bath/hw scramble, does NOT mean they are not contributing to society.
Op if you are bored, feel free to do some volunteer work at your local hospital (I did!) or go to the gym (like I do) or take a continuing Ed class (did that too), volunteer at their school (still do that) or attend parenting talks at local libraries etc.
And for the record, one can also mail it in and be a total waste of life at an office too. Worked with lots of those! Simply being employed in an office does not automatically make you a more valuable member of society than someone who, for some reason or another, chooses to be home when her children return from school.
Ugh such snarkiness in the original post.
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Re: SAHM's with Kids in Full time School
Posted by Bridex100
. It isn't necessarily about what the mom is doing in those 6 hrs when kids are at school. It's about being there for them when they get out of school and you would not be able to do that if you worked.
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Re: SAHM's with Kids in Full time School
Posted by Hopefulmama
Posted by afternoondelight828
Posted by JME78
This thread is so ridiculous.
Everyone has different lives, priorities, goals, finances, etc, etc, etc.
Just enjoy your own life. I never ever understood the need to compare or act superior to another. As long as all of our kids are healthy and happy, isn't that all that matters?
I agree. If you read my posts, I wasn't trying to do that. Just wondering what people who have older kids do with their 7 + hours a day.
Something you are not considering is the cost of aftercare versus the actual financial benefit of working. I am fortunate I was able to find a 9-2 part time job because paying for aftercare is very expensive. My kids are in private nursery and their center quoted me an extra $1500/month for TWO days of aftercare. This was more than it would make working two full days take home. I had to turn down the job but then I was lucky they came back to me and offered mornings only. Plus who would pick up my three 3 year olds? Who has three car seats in a car? My 75 yo mom? I would not put that burden on my mom who has already raised her kids and would like to enjoy her retirement. I also can't pay a sitter $20/hour to watch my kids when I take home about that.
So I was lucky to find a school hours job but not all moms can. And just because they want to maybe see their kid more than an hour in the morning and hour at night, or want to be there when they get home to avoid the 7 pm dinner/bath/hw scramble, does NOT mean they are not contributing to society.
Op if you are bored, feel free to do some volunteer work at your local hospital (I did!) or go to the gym (like I do) or take a continuing Ed class (did that too), volunteer at their school (still do that) or attend parenting talks at local libraries etc.
And for the record, one can also mail it in and be a total waste of life at an office too. Worked with lots of those! Simply being employed in an office does not automatically make you a more valuable member of society than someone who, for some reason or another, chooses to be home when her children return from school.
Ugh such snarkiness in the original post.
Aftercare cost me $11/day when I used it. Aftercare is only for elementary school also.
If I was to stay home without looking for a job, I would volunteer. I have done so in the past many times with and without my kids.
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Re: SAHM's with Kids in Full time School
Posted by Hopefulmama
Posted by Bridex100
. It isn't necessarily about what the mom is doing in those 6 hrs when kids are at school. It's about being there for them when they get out of school and you would not be able to do that if you worked.
Not true as I know moms who are there after school who work full time. Many older kids have after school activities, like my child that didn't get home until after I got off work also.
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Posted by Bridex100
I have heard from older parents that kids need their parents the most in their teenage years. HS students get let out early and those hours between 2 and 8pm are crucial. A lot can happen in those hours. Kids can waste that time and just do nothing. They can be doing drugs, having sex, hanging out with the wrong kids, be bullied, etc. They can be doing extracurriculars and studying so that they get into a top college. It isn't necessarily about what the mom is doing in those 6 hrs when kids are at school. It's about being there for them when they get out of school and you would not be able to do that if you worked.
I'm on the PTA board with another mom who also has a HS daughter. She seems insanely busy. The HS daughter is busy and the mom is busy taking her to her million activities.
eta: I do not plan to be a SAHM when my kids are in high school. this is just what I have heard from older moms.
I have a child who didn't get home until I was off work and many kids stay after in middle and high school and are not home for very long without a parent being home. Not all kids do bad things because there is no parent home. Many kids I know who do have SAH parents. I am old and been through this twice lol
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Re: SAHM's with Kids in Full time School
Well that's good that's what it cost you. It costs me much more than that since mine are still in a child care center. I actually regret replying to you. I'm regretting this reply too.
Although I won't regret sharing this well trafficked quote: "No one at the end of their life wishes they had spent more time at the office."
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Well that's good that's what it cost you. It costs me much more than that since mine are still in a child care center. I actually regret replying to you. I'm regretting this reply too.
Although I won't regret sharing this well trafficked quote: "No one at the end of their life wishes they had spent more time at the office."
ITA with that quote and that is why we don't work long hours. Means less money and smaller home.
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Re: SAHM's with Kids in Full time School
Posted by Hopefulmama
And just because they want to maybe see their kid more than an hour in the morning and hour at night, or want to be there when they get home to avoid the 7 pm dinner/bath/hw scramble,
How is this helpful?
As I already said a few pages ago I hate threads like these because when people feel they have to defend their positions they often fight fire with fire.
If you (general you) want to call out the OP then a) don't fan the flames like the above comment and b) you should also call out the comments on the other "side."
How about the person who said "you choose to work."
Or "you can plan to not have to work."
Yes, it SOME cases this is true. However, they are both gross oversimplifications of often complex situations and and both comments reek of smugness.
But to the quoted poster, the above can easily be read as an implication that working moms don't want to see their kids more than an hour in the morning and at night. You're doing the exact same thing you're accusing the OP of.
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Re: SAHM's with Kids in Full time School
I don't know why people bother responding to these posts. Its always 10+ pages of 
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Re: SAHM's with Kids in Full time School
Posted by Sparrow
I don't know why people bother responding to these posts. Its always 10+ pages of
I agree. At the end of the day, we do what we think is best for our families. And we don't need to feel bad or justify why we do what we do! We all deserve credit whether we work FT, PT, at home, whatever. We all do the best we can, and that's all that matters.
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Re: SAHM's with Kids in Full time School
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Posted by Hopefulmama
And just because they want to maybe see their kid more than an hour in the morning and hour at night, or want to be there when they get home to avoid the 7 pm dinner/bath/hw scramble,
How is this helpful?
As I already said a few pages ago I hate threads like these because when people feel they have to defend their positions they often fight fire with fire.
If you (general you) want to call out the OP then a) don't fan the flames like the above comment and b) you should also call out the comments on the other "side."
How about the person who said "you choose to work."
Or "you can plan to not have to work."
Yes, it SOME cases this is true. However, they are both gross oversimplifications of often complex situations and and both comments reek of smugness.
But to the quoted poster, the above can easily be read as an implication that working moms don't want to see their kids more than an hour in the morning and at night. You're doing the exact same thing you're accusing the OP of.
That comment is super super shittty.
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Re: SAHM's with Kids in Full time School
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Posted by Hopefulmama
And just because they want to maybe see their kid more than an hour in the morning and hour at night, or want to be there when they get home to avoid the 7 pm dinner/bath/hw scramble,
How is this helpful?
As I already said a few pages ago I hate threads like these because when people feel they have to defend their positions they often fight fire with fire.
If you (general you) want to call out the OP then a) don't fan the flames like the above comment and b) you should also call out the comments on the other "side."
How about the person who said "you choose to work."
Or "you can plan to not have to work."
Yes, it SOME cases this is true. However, they are both gross oversimplifications of often complex situations and and both comments reek of smugness.
But to the quoted poster, the above can easily be read as an implication that working moms don't want to see their kids more than an hour in the morning and at night. You're doing the exact same thing you're accusing the OP of.
You are absolutely right, I regret that choice of words. Her refusal to see the validity of actually wanting and choosing to stay home with children riled me, and I regret that. It was snide, and not what I really feel considering I hope to go back full time next year. I'll amend it.
Eta - I amended my regretful words.
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Re: SAHM's with Kids in Full time School
Posted by afternoondelight828
Posted by lululu
Posted by afternoondelight828
Posted by itsbabytime
Why is everyone still debating with this poster? This thread is ridiculous and pathetic and reeks of insecurity. I have friends of older kids that are very involved in their lives and you know what - their kids are amazing and accomplished because of it. My guess is the op feels down about herself and her family and is trying to make herself feel
Better and justified in this thread. It's actually sad how she keeps feeling the need to refer back to the few posters that agree with her. Actually every thread she posts is just
As ignorant and self serving. Just like the last one where she had to prove that everyone was carrying significant debt or lying bout it. Sorry - op, it's just u. I wouldn't even engage it anymore.
Wow from me asking what moms of older kids do when they stay home to now me being down on myself and insecure. Bawahhh..what a laugh.
Seems the only people who have a problem is the ones who, are not even in the situation I have discussed and want to put their 2 cents in.
This discussion actually started out with my dh who asked the question so I asked it to REAL SAHM's.
I'll try not to let any of my own life experience's to flow into this board anymore as it seems knowing different sides and many different types of people (like I do) is wrong on this board and when you give an example, you are basically told you are making things up and unhappy with your own life. lol.
I'm sorry afternoon but I agree with everything itsbabytime and hofstra have said. Just be real - you don't really care what SAHMs of older children do all day long. You just want them to ADMIT that they have tons of free time but are lying to their husbands to make it seem like they are soooo busy, just so they can stay home and not make any worth while contribution to society. So that's what your original post should say. Don't do it under the facade of "what do you do all day?" as if you are looking for suggestions. Just say "Why don't all the SAHMs of older kids admit that they are living in the lap of luxury and lying to the world about how busy they are?"
But again, either way it does come off as you are jealous. Let me guess, your sister with the pool who doesn't allow your kids to come over any time they want is a SAHM to kids who are in school all day.
Nope she is not and that shows that you really have no clue why I asked, even when I explained it.
OMG it was a JOKE! Yes you've made it abundantly clear why you asked the original question. You seriously need to just stop this nonsense. I really don't know how people deal with you IRL.
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Re: SAHM's with Kids in Full time School
Posted by lululu
Posted by afternoondelight828
Posted by lululu
Posted by afternoondelight828
Posted by itsbabytime
Why is everyone still debating with this poster? This thread is ridiculous and pathetic and reeks of insecurity. I have friends of older kids that are very involved in their lives and you know what - their kids are amazing and accomplished because of it. My guess is the op feels down about herself and her family and is trying to make herself feel
Better and justified in this thread. It's actually sad how she keeps feeling the need to refer back to the few posters that agree with her. Actually every thread she posts is just
As ignorant and self serving. Just like the last one where she had to prove that everyone was carrying significant debt or lying bout it. Sorry - op, it's just u. I wouldn't even engage it anymore.
Wow from me asking what moms of older kids do when they stay home to now me being down on myself and insecure. Bawahhh..what a laugh.
Seems the only people who have a problem is the ones who, are not even in the situation I have discussed and want to put their 2 cents in.
This discussion actually started out with my dh who asked the question so I asked it to REAL SAHM's.
I'll try not to let any of my own life experience's to flow into this board anymore as it seems knowing different sides and many different types of people (like I do) is wrong on this board and when you give an example, you are basically told you are making things up and unhappy with your own life. lol.
I'm sorry afternoon but I agree with everything itsbabytime and hofstra have said. Just be real - you don't really care what SAHMs of older children do all day long. You just want them to ADMIT that they have tons of free time but are lying to their husbands to make it seem like they are soooo busy, just so they can stay home and not make any worth while contribution to society. So that's what your original post should say. Don't do it under the facade of "what do you do all day?" as if you are looking for suggestions. Just say "Why don't all the SAHMs of older kids admit that they are living in the lap of luxury and lying to the world about how busy they are?"
But again, either way it does come off as you are jealous. Let me guess, your sister with the pool who doesn't allow your kids to come over any time they want is a SAHM to kids who are in school all day.
Nope she is not and that shows that you really have no clue why I asked, even when I explained it.
OMG it was a JOKE! Yes you've made it abundantly clear why you asked the original question. You seriously need to just stop this nonsense. I really don't know how people deal with you IRL.
Why do you continue to respond? I actually don't have a problem making and keeping friends :)
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Re: SAHM's with Kids in Full time School
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Re: SAHM's with Kids in Full time School
Posted by afternoondelight828
Why do you continue to respond? I actually don't have a problem making and keeping friends :)
I keep responding because I believe that you post crap like this to make other people feel bad and I just hope that everyone who reads all of it knows that you do this all the time. You honestly have no self awareness whatsoever. People tell you over and over and over again how your posts come off yet you keep posting in the same insensitive way. Frankly, it's annoying. I think I have made my point, so there's really no need for me to respond any more.
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Re: SAHM's with Kids in Full time School
Well well...I come back a day later and there are 169 comments on this thread. WOW! All I need to say is I LOVE IT. My home, my life, my kids....I planned it this way...I pray it stays this way...we all know that anything can CHANGE at ANY TIME. If my husband loses his job, if something happens to him....anything...our lives will change. ALSO I absolutely do not consider it a competition against my other fellow working mamas. Some of my closest friends work all day and are amazing wonderful moms and they ROCK IT!!! They love their children just the same as I do. Women Should be supporting each other...GIRLS compete.
This may be a good time to maybe make other SAHM friends. Since I do have some more time now during the day. Coffee, tea??? Message me if you want to exchange email.
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Re: SAHM's with Kids in Full time School
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Posted by afternoondelight828
Why do you continue to respond? I actually don't have a problem making and keeping friends :)
I keep responding because I believe that you post crap like this to make other people feel bad and I just hope that everyone who reads all of it knows that you do this all the time. You honestly have no self awareness whatsoever. People tell you over and over and over again how your posts come off yet you keep posting in the same insensitive way. Frankly, it's annoying. I think I have made my point, so there's really no need for me to respond any more.
Well I didn't and sorry you feel this way.
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Well well...I come back a day later and there are 169 comments on this thread. WOW! All I need to say is I LOVE IT. My home, my life, my kids....I planned it this way...I pray it stays this way...we all know that anything can CHANGE at ANY TIME. If my husband loses his job, if something happens to him....anything...our lives will change. ALSO I absolutely do not consider it a competition against my other fellow working mamas. Some of my closest friends work all day and are amazing wonderful moms and they ROCK IT!!! They love their children just the same as I do. Women Should be supporting each other...GIRLS compete.
This may be a good time to maybe make other SAHM friends. Since I do have some more time now during the day. Coffee, tea??? Message me if you want to exchange email.
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Re: SAHM's with Kids in Full time School
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Posted by lululu
Posted by afternoondelight828
Why do you continue to respond? I actually don't have a problem making and keeping friends :)
I keep responding because I believe that you post crap like this to make other people feel bad and I just hope that everyone who reads all of it knows that you do this all the time. You honestly have no self awareness whatsoever. People tell you over and over and over again how your posts come off yet you keep posting in the same insensitive way. Frankly, it's annoying. I think I have made my point, so there's really no need for me to respond any more.
Well I didn't and sorry you feel this way.
Okay I am seriously regretting ever posting on this thread but if you aren't trying to imply that SAHMs have too much time on their hands then why did you post this the other day:
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What's with the helicopter thing? I never once think twice when I hear one.
Could be a medivac, could be a rich person flying out to the hamptons, a news helicopter.
Some people really have a lot of time on their hands, huh?
Many of them are SAHM's that spend their entire days on that site to just find something to do.
I never even notice a helicopter either and the last time it was someone who robbed a bank, I heard it and ignored it lol.
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Posted by afternoondelight828
Posted by lululu
Posted by afternoondelight828
Why do you continue to respond? I actually don't have a problem making and keeping friends :)
I keep responding because I believe that you post crap like this to make other people feel bad and I just hope that everyone who reads all of it knows that you do this all the time. You honestly have no self awareness whatsoever. People tell you over and over and over again how your posts come off yet you keep posting in the same insensitive way. Frankly, it's annoying. I think I have made my point, so there's really no need for me to respond any more.
Well I didn't and sorry you feel this way.
Okay I am seriously regretting ever posting on this thread but if you aren't trying to imply that SAHMs have too much time on their hands then why did you post this the other day:
Posted by afternoondelight828
Posted by NervousNell
What's with the helicopter thing? I never once think twice when I hear one.
Could be a medivac, could be a rich person flying out to the hamptons, a news helicopter.
Some people really have a lot of time on their hands, huh?
Many of them are SAHM's that spend their entire days on that site to just find something to do.
I never even notice a helicopter either and the last time it was someone who robbed a bank, I heard it and ignored it lol.
Yep on the "mom" site I used to be on. I would see the same people on all day long.
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